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Conference turris::womannotes-v1

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 1 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V1 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:873
Total number of notes:22329

666.0. "Define Equality" by MORGAN::BARBER (Skyking Tactical Services) Fri Jan 22 1988 17:51

     Based on comments and conversation from another note, this subject
     has come up. Just a very simple question that is over due for 
     answering for all. What is your definition and perception of 
     equality.
    
                             Bob B
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666.1Dynamic Equality = Hard WorkXCELR8::POLLITZFri Jan 22 1988 20:0040
            Equality is a concept. In the Modern era the concept
        has been used by various groups such as NOW to have women
        viewed and treated by men as equals. For racial differences
        to not matter. For people to treat and respect one another
        as dignified human beings. Valueing differences irrespective
        of the vast differences that human beings have with respect
        to one another. 
           In some cases, the notion of equality has spread into
        areas of business. Affirmative action. The idea that women,
        for some reason, have been discriminated against (by men -
        or male dominated business structures).
           Equality then, it seems, involves an expanded definition.
        Namely that of correcting previous (supposed) 'wrongs' that
        one group of people (or one sex) has committed AGAINST another
        (group or sex). Such corrective measures are considered fair
        by groups such as NOW to equalize 'wrongs' committed in the
        past.  Sometimes the reality of Affirmative Action ('minority
        hiring') gets a counter viewpoint. That of 'Reverse discrim-
        ination. This view holds that a group of people or sex (ie Men)
        do not have an 'equal' chance at a job when competing against
        a similarly qualified 'minority' applicant (competitor). That
        a current generation is not responsible for a previous wrongs
        that may have been made. The issue of what is fair comes in.
          That aside I see equality as treating another human being
        the way I would like to be treated. Treating another person
        well. With dignity and respect. Often enough.... even when such
        respect is not merited (deserved). 
          That attitude has worked well for me. I treat a $ 5 hr worker
        the same way I do a $200,000 V.P.  If anything, I am more sensitive
        ( tuned in & emphatic) to the common people. 
          I cannot say that such respect for another involves admiration,
        but I try to reach that point with people that care. 
          It is a precious manifestation to be able to share with another
        human being the reality of mutual respect & admiration. Really
        liking another person - and being liked for everything that
        both people are & are not. 
          That Bob, is equality to me. It has to be worked at - earned.
        And there are no lunch breaks.
    
                                                        Russ
666.2twice as hard3D::CHABOTRooms 253, '5, '7, and '9Fri Jan 22 1988 23:3210
    This isn't my opinion, but it's the opinion of someone I know:
    
    	he: Why do you want to be a man!
       she: I don't want to be a man, I want to be equal.
        he: That's the same thing, isn't it!
                                        
    
    Oh, and having been denied jobs and job interviews on the basis
    of my gender, I'm a vocal supporter of Affirmative Action.  Wrongs
    committed in the past, my eye.
666.3SEDJAR::THIBAULTStorybook ending in progressMon Jan 25 1988 12:127
Equality in the job market:

The hiring manager has a bunch of resumes with everything that may indicate
sex,race etc. removed. S/he interviews applicants via something like vax phone.
S/he then hires whomever is the most qualified based on resumes and interviews.

Jenna
666.4Good 'unHANDY::MALLETTSituation hopeless but not seriousMon Jan 25 1988 12:5833
    I like the topic, Bob.  A part of me feels that answering this
    one publicly should be "mandatory" for those of us who write to
    this conference.  I say this because I believe that we'd find
    that people have lots of differing denotations and connotations
    connected to the word "equality".  And maybe seeing the frame
    of reference that others are using (i.e. their view of "equality")
    might help us understand how and where other discussions sometimes
    have problems with semantics.  Getting clarity around words like
    "equality" strikes me as a good place to start.
    
    BTW - I'm *not* in fact suggesting that answering Bob's questions 
    be made "mandatory" (probably impossible anyway).  What I *am* 
    suggesting is that it wouldn't hurt to spend some time looking
    at how our different views will lead us to differing opinions of
    whether a particular event or situation is "equal" or "unequal".
    
    So what is "equality"?  Danged if *I* know, but some of what Russ
    said works for me, too (the "do unto others" part).  I have trouble
    because while mathematical equality is a precise thing (at least
    for those of us who don't dabble in the mysteries of theoretical
    math), equality in human interaction is a different thing. 
    
    When I consider human "equality", words like "fairness" and "justice"
    seem to want to creep into the definition, and those concepts are
    often defined by the situation; and though I know what "equal pay"
    is, I'm not at all certain what "equal (or equivalent) work" is.
    
    Gotta think about this one for a while.  Sheesh, next thing you
    know, someone will want to define stuff like love, respect,
    intimidation, etc.  
    
    Steve
    
666.5a rarified answerGNUVAX::BOBBITTDo I *look* like a Corporate Tool?Tue Jan 26 1988 15:5911
    basically, and very simply...
    
    "We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men and women
    are created equal:  that they are endowed by their Creator with
    certain inalienable rights: that among these are life, liberty,
    and the pursuit of happiness.....
    
    
    -Jody
    
    
666.6Equal opportunity is more equal than strict equalityYODA::BARANSKIIm here for an argument, not Abuse!Wed Jan 27 1988 16:3320
RE: .1

"That aside I see equality as treating another human being the way I would like
to be treated."

I think that a lot of times this causes problems, because people may *prefer*
not to be treated the way I might like to be treated.

What then?  Should I treate them as they wish to be treated, assuming that doing
such does not discriminate against anyone else?  How confusing! 

RE: .4

"I have trouble because while mathematical equality is a precise thing (at least
for those of us who don't dabble in the mysteries of theoretical math), equality
in human interaction is a different thing."

Equal opportunity is more equal than strict equality.

Jim.
666.7InterestingMORGAN::BARBERSkyking Tactical ServicesWed Jan 27 1988 17:456
    
    I find it interesting that this note has been here for almost 
    a week now and has a total (including this) of 7 replys.
    
    To paraphrase Churchill, never have so many, had so little to say,
    about something they talk so much about.
666.8A <> BREGENT::BROOMHEADDon&#039;t panic -- yet.Wed Jan 27 1988 22:0229
    In mathematics, two values are considered equal when the relationship
    of the first to the second is the same as that of the second to
    the first.
    
    How would we do this in a social context?  How about conducting
    a poll and see if answers change depending on the gender of the
    hypothetical people asked about?
    
    
    Let's try this:  One hundred managers are given a choice of two
    people to hire.  One is Jane Doe, who has been with the company
    for a long time, and is familiar with the department.  The other
    is John Roe, who is just out of college, where he did well.
    
    About three-quarters of the managers decide to hire John Roe,
    claiming that youth and enthusiasm are the more important factors.
    
    Another one hundred managers are given a choice of two people to
    hire.  One is John Doe, who has been with the company for a long
    time, and is familiar with the department.  The other is Jane Roe,
    who is just out of college, where she did well.
    
    About three-quarters of the managers decide to hire John Doe,
    claiming that loyalty and experience are the more important factors.
    
    Guess what!  This experiment is real!
    
    							Ann B.
    
666.9a noter moves a topic noteXCELR8::POLLITZWed Jan 27 1988 22:4321
     Gresham's Law: The principle stating that of 2 forms of currency
                   of equal face value but unequal exchange, the less
                   valuable form tends to drive the other from circu-
                   lation, owing to the hoarding of the preferred form.
    
          Realms:  1. A Kingdom or Domain. 
                   2. The scope or range of any power or influence.
                      IE the *realm* of imagination.
                   3. A primary zoogeographical division of the globe.
    
          Ann, if desired you may elaborate on these ideas (from 478.205).
        The first paragraph over there rather distracted me from your
        true intent which must involve the 'cooperative' necessity of
        human beings to get along. IE Cooperate in peace. Peace being
        tied to equally. And so I transfer the ideas of cooperative
        equality to this topic. 
         Certainly Eisler is for this and I think that this topic can
        deal with the ideas of dynamic equality and the need for coop-
        eration between all people. 
    
                                                           Russ
666.10thoughts on equality -- no answersVIA::RANDALLThu Jan 28 1988 08:3327
    "Equality" and "valuing differences" (mentioned in .1 and throughout
    the notesfile) are not the same thing.
            
    When two items (call them A and B) are equal in mathematics, one
    can be substituted for the other without changing the result of
    the equation.  (If A=B, then A+C=D is the same as B+C=D.)  If these
    two equations represent a work setting, it should make no difference
    to the result of the work (the productivity of the company, for
    example) whether person A or Person B fills the job.  (I'm stretching
    the mathematical analogy here, but what the heck.)

    "Valuing differences," on the other hand, implies that if Person
    A is, say, a lesbian mother in a long-term relationship and Person B
    is a young black woman just out of Harvard Business School, we should
    look to see how their differing experiences change our perspectives
    and how those different perspectives can enrich our work
    environment, change or improve the way we do business, clarify our
    personal relations, and so on.  
    
    The danger of equality is that we all get treated the same, like
    numbers or boxes.  The danger of valuing differences is that since
    we are all singled out as individuals, someone who does not approve
    of an individual's particular differences can punish her or him
    for those differences.  If we're all treated as though our differences
    are irrelevant, at least none of us will be penalized.
 
    --bonnie
666.11SUPER::HENDRICKSThe only way out is throughThu Jan 28 1988 08:384
    oh, Bonnie, it's good to have you and your clear style of 
    thinking/writing back in the file!
    
    Holly
666.12how do you have bothYODA::BARANSKIIm here for an argument, not Abuse!Thu Jan 28 1988 09:3110
RE: .8 Ann

So what are you saying about Equality?

RE: .10

You are right, valuing differences is not the same as equality.  But I still
don't have a clear idea of the difference between them, or how to have both.

Jim.
666.13a mistaken notionXCELR8::POLLITZFri Jan 29 1988 00:0022
    Re .10   I agree. I am interested in better knowing the potential
           benefits of equality and valuing differences. The stated
           dangers of the 2 ideas are well said.
    
            I found the following recently from a New Republic review
          by Doris Grumbach on a book called 'Root of Bitterness'.
          This '72 book is about American women and their personal
          experiences. "This superior collection contains documents
          of witchcraft trials, 18th- and 19th-century diaries, pieces
          from books of morality, marriage manuals, letters and early
          20th-century health and sex texts, as well as selections
          from Jane Addams, Kate Chopin, and Charlotte Perkins Gilman.
           
          "The origin of the title is of interest. It comes from a letter
          written by Sarah Grimke' in 1838 who said that:
    
          'there is a root of bitterness continually springing up in
           families... I believe it is the *mistaken notion* of the
           inequality of the sexes.'
    
    
                                                      Russ
666.14not everything can be measured in $$$JENVAX::RANDALLback in the notes life againFri Jan 29 1988 08:2847
    re .13:
    
    I think valuing differences has to mean that you appreciate qualities
    that cannot be translated into $$$ -- things that do not directly add
    to the bottom line or improve productivity. 
    
    My parents' marriage certainly illustrates the quote you supplied.
    (That sounds like an interesting book, by the way.  Have you actually
    read it, or have you only seen the review?)  While their marriage was
    traditional in every sense of the word, neither of them ever thought
    that my father was superior merely because he earned the family money.
    
    The division of labor within the family was gender-based.  They both
    had to work hard, but there were jobs that were my mother's territory
    and jobs that were my father's.  (I don't think he knew how to cook an
    egg until he was over 40.)  However, my mother never felt this was
    inequal because she knew, as we all knew, my father valued her
    nonmonetary contribution to the family as much as he valued his own
    monetary one. Bringing in money did not make him better than the rest
    of us. 
    
    (I suppose I'd better add a disclaimer here that I'm not presenting
    their marriage as a model for the rest of us or even claiming they're
    ideally happy -- I'm just trying to explore some different attitudes
    toward equality.)
    
    Th economic conditions surrounding us were not good -- jobs were scarce
    and there wasn't much hope of more.  But on the plus side, if you could
    get a job of any kind, you could earn enough to support a family.
    Having even one job in the family made us better off than many of our
    friends and neighbors.  Of those families that had a job, it was as
    likely to be a waitress or nurse's job for the woman as it was to be
    bucking hay or pumping gas for the man.  When there's only just enough
    money to go around, questions of whose money it is become considerably
    less relevant. 

    And when it came time to spend money, my mother's vote counted for
    as much as, or often more than, my father's.  They regarded the
    income as sort of family property, not as 'his' income.
    
    I suppose you could say they enjoyed, and still enjoy, an emotional
    equality that, for them, cancelled out a lot of institutionalized
    inequalities. 
    
    --bonnie

    
666.15HANDY::MALLETTSituation hopeless but not seriousFri Jan 29 1988 12:1923
    re: several, including Jim B's (paraphrase here) uncertainty
    about the relationship between equality and Valuing Differences.
    
    The DEC Valuing Differences program has a number of different
    aspects and meanings, some of which are (intentionally) evolving
    as the program evolves.  One major principle of Val. Diff. (well,
    what was I gonna do?  abbreviate it V.D.??) is that, in a multi-
    cultral society, a supportive multi-cutural work environment
    is more productive (in $$ terms).  One implied "equality" then,
    is giving equal value to various cultural norms and traditions
    in a celebratory manner.  To me it's basically a variation of
    the theme of "As I learn of the culture of others, I begin
    to let go of my prejudices." - or, "Prejudice often has roots
    in ignorance; therefore, to educate addresses the root problem".
    
    Steve
    
    P.S.  If it's any consolation, Jim (et al), I don't clearly understand
    all aspects of the Val. Diff. program and it's relationship to
    equality or equal opportunity. . .and I work in Personnel (no
    wise cracks, people; it used to be worse - I spent 10 years in 
    Materials)
    
666.16sounds good to meYODA::BARANSKIIm here for an argument, not Abuse!Fri Jan 29 1988 20:088
RE: .14 Bonnie

"I suppose you could say they enjoyed, and still enjoy, an emotional equality
that, for them, cancelled out a lot of institutionalized inequalities."

Isn't that what counts?

Jim.
666.17Equality...Sci Fi anyone?PAGAN::VALENTINETue Feb 02 1988 10:4261
	How do you define equality?...........um........

	How can one define equality in a patriarchal language?  A 
	language that has been under male control and male redefinition
	for hundreds of years.  For example, in Old English 'wif' meant
	female human being and 'wer' referred to male human being.  At
	about the same time man, which had previously been a true generic
	referring to people, became male-specific, 'war' became obsolete
	(except for werewolf) and 'wif' narrowed in it's reference to
	mean only a female legally bound to a man.  How would one begin
	to define such a concept as equality?

	I can define what is not equality.  Why I am bombarded by
	inequality every day of my life.  As any child there is school...
	..American history.....the only women mentioned through the years
	was Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Susan B. Anthony in connection 
	with the vote for women.  Only after I finished school did I
	read books that revealed Susan B. Anthony as a conservative and
	I was able to find other women's names who were involved, such
	as Matalide J. Gage.  The vote for women was only one aspect
	of the women's movement in the 1800's and 1900's.  Where were
	the women in history class?  I was bombarded with men's actions,
	names and deeds and no women role models.  English class....... 
	lots of men and VERY few women.  The impression of women writers
	....spinsters, old, ill, and somwhow lacking.  Math and science..
	....covered Madam Curie who died due to her research not for her
	research.  I was bombarded throughout school with examples of
	great people: all male.

	I am bombarded everyday with inequality (substitute sexism).  I
	turn to the newspaper...the business section hold no to few 
	women's names...the front page contains pictures and names of men.
	Women are described by their dress, men by their body posture.
	I turn on the radio....rock music blares out that women are good
	for sex or a punching bag.  Successful women are "like a virgin".
    	I change the station to country, at least there are more women's
	voices.  Women singing about their breaking hearts, waiting for
	their men to come home.  Proud of "being a coal miner's daughter".
	I turn to classical....where are the women composers?  I turn the
	TV on....women are protrayed as controlling b*tches, Dynasty, or
	unable to live, rather than be murdered, without help of the
	highest order, Beauty and the Beast.  An advertisement shows a 
	woman diving for a piece of cake falling unto a carpet as though
	the carpet is the woman's responsibility,....her skin, regardless
	of bruises, is worth avoiding a spill.  Women are objectivied...
	legs for stokings, hair for conditioners, etc.  I am bombarded.

	On a business trip I go out to eat at a restaurant alone.  I am
	the only woman eating alone, there are perhaps five men eating
	alone.  I am asked if everything is OK, and whether I am alone.
	When I reply yes I am shown to the farthurest corner in the
	restaurant.  I am bombarded.  I go to the grocery store and a
	male cashier quickly checks out my things.  I am surprised.  As
	I walk out I realize that I don't see many, if any, male cashiers.
	That he was fast came as a shock.  I realize that the bombardment
	is also within me.  So how can one define, much less conceptualize
	what equality would be?

        Sarah
    
666.18Thank you.NEXUS::CONLONTue Feb 02 1988 10:524
    	RE:  .17
    
    	Beautifully written!
    
666.19what about alienable rights ???MONSTR::PHILPOTT_DWThe ColonelFri Feb 05 1988 13:0632
    The statement in .5 is an interesting philosophical posture, and sounds
    excellent: after all we all know what it means, right? And we all agree
    with it, right?
    
    However were it proposed as a constitutional amendment to the US
    constitution I believe the lawyers on the review committees would change
    it. If they didn't then I suspect the Supreme Court would find endless
    basis for future decisions...
    
    The phrase "... that all men and women are created equal ..." has numerous
    possible interpretations, of which the following are a few...
    
    o " all men and all women are equal to each other in respect of the
    inalienable rights mentioned"
    
    o " all men are equal to all other men, and all women are equal to all
    other women, with respect to the inalienable rights mentioned." This
    interpretation however leaves open the question of whether all men are
    equal to all women in this respect. 
    
    o " all men and all women are equal at the moment of birth, with respect
    to the rights mentioned". However the equality ceases at that point
    in time and differentiation on sexual grounds is a time variant quantity
    thereafter.
    
    It is also true of course that the list mentions certain inalienable
    rights " ... life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness ... ", it doesn't
    provide an exhaustive list, nor does it preclude the possibility of
    alienable rights (property, career, self-determination ... ?)
    
    /. Ian .\