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Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 1 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V1 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
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Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
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435.0. "Women/Weightraining/Self-Image" by CASADM::JONES (Vincent Jones - Is this the edge??) Tue Aug 11 1987 10:51

    Hello,
    
    	My name is Vincent Jones.  I am new to this conference.  I moderate
    a conference on Bodybuilding and Weight Training.  I raised a 
    controversial topic in the conference regarding women and bodybuilding
    and weight training.  It was intelligently suggested to me that
    I post here and in human relations for a more varied audience. 
    I do this because I am geuninely interested in specific topic itself,
    and with the general issue of self-image.
    
    	Please read the entire reply that follows.  It is lengthy, but
    I beg your indulgence.  The confusion and some misunderstanding
    that is exhibited is integral to the discussion.
    
    	Let me make my position clear.  I am of the opinion that whatever
    a woman OR man does to maintain their self-image, manage stress,
    learn about themselves is valid and healthy for that person, and
    for everyone in the long run.
    
    Enjoy!!!
    Vincent 
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435.1Discussion from Weightraing conference on Women TrainingCASADM::JONESVincent Jones - Is this the edge??Tue Aug 11 1987 10:54480
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Note 12.0            Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training           18 replies
CASADM::JONES "Vincent Jones - Is this the edge??"   18 lines  20-JUL-1987 13:26
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    We have a good number of notes partiers that happen to be women,
    and I am feeling the need for a little friendly controversy.
                                                             
    Should women be bodybuilding?  Can a women get "too big" without
    steroid use?  What, if any, impact has bodybuilding/weight training
    had on your perception of your feminity? Guys how do you feel about
    it?
    
    Personally, I come from a family of mostly women except for my dad,
    of course.  They were very independent and creative to boot.  So
    my upbring is tended in that direction.  I think that as long as
    a women does not use steroids, no one should, and she is pleased
    with her self-image then she should do what ever she likes, and
    that includes serious weight training.
    
    Arigato,
    
    Vince
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Note 12.1            Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training              1 of 18
SQM::AITEL "Helllllllp Mr. Wizard!"                  39 lines  20-JUL-1987 17:07
                        -< Let's talk about *people*. >-
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    Ok, I'll bite!  (but I usually don't ;-))....
    
    I grew up thinking I was abnormal, fat or something.  Sure I had
    a few extra pounds at some times, but what I really was was a girl
    who happened to naturally tend toward muscle, rather than tending
    toward the very thin look that was in.
    
    Now that I've lost most of my excess baggage, I find myself at
    about 137 lbs, 5'4", and somewhere between 15 and 17% fat.
    "Normal" women at my height are about 120 to 125 lbs and 20 to 
    25% fat.
    
    Should women be bodybuilding?  I'll try to keep my flame off, but
    let me turn the question on you:  should *people* be bodybuilding?
    Can you see women as people?  with all the variety that people have,
    and with all the sorts of beauty that people can attain?  When
    people get into bodybuilding, they end up looking abnormal compared
    to other people - bulging muscles are not normal looking on either
    sex.  But there's a beauty in the muscularity, skin and muscle tone,
    bounce to the walk, confidence in manner that people get when they
    do bodybuilding and do it well.
    
    I've heard women in the gym looking at a guy and saying "Geez, he's
    got such ugly big muscles, I wouldn't go out with anyone like *that*!"
    It's not everyone's idea of masculine beauty.  Likewise, a woman
    with well-built muscles is not everyone's idea of feminine beauty.
    And some of us like red-heads, and some of us like brunettes....
    
    I've gotta say, more guys have tried to pick me up since I started
    lifting, and it's not just the weight loss since I have been down
    to this weight before.  I think I'm a more attractive confident
    person now.
    
    Come to think of it, I haven't seen ANY women at my gym who looked
    unfeminine.  And the only woman I've seen photos of who did is
    Bev Francis, and you gotta admit that a woman who can bench something
    over 250, if I remember right, is a bit unusual.
    
    --Louise
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Note 12.3            Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training              3 of 18
CASADM::JONES "Vincent Jones - Is this the edge??"   14 lines  20-JUL-1987 20:53
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   Louise,
                              
    I understand your point.   Yes there are quite a few women who do
    not like "overly" muscular men (whatever that is).  However, because
    the sport is new to a lot of women, and society has built some
    misguided sterotypes.  I thought that a discussion of this kind
    could break some sterotypes, provide some motivation, and give an
    opportunity for experienced men and women alike to let beginning
    women know what they have gone through, and that there is nothing wrong
    with tending towards muscule.  If the intent of the note is
    unnecessary, or misguided, I am sorry.  
    
    Vince
    
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Note 12.4            Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training              4 of 18
ENGINE::MCDONALD                                     22 lines  21-JUL-1987 09:06
                           -< Great up to a point! >-
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    I think it's terrific that women have gotten into bodybuilding.
    But I think the competitions are bending and twisting the sport
    into something which resembles men's bodybuilding. I think that
    well built and cut women who use bodybuilding as a way to enhance
    their feminine beauty (e.g. Rachel Maclish) are gorgeous. Whereas
    the current trend in competition seems to be leaning towards the
    women who have built themselves into V shaped, broad shouldered
    parodies of men. In the recent movie (as an example) "Pumping
    Iron II - the Women", this split in the competitive field was 
    the basis of the movie, Rachel was pitted against another woman
    whose name I forget (a former power lifter) who weighed in at 
    around 185, who to me resembled a man in a bikini. She seemed to
    be lacking in even the most basic feminine qualities. This I 
    don't agree with, but I respect the right of any woman to do so.
    
    
    
    							* MAC *
                                                                 
    P.S. My wife is getting into it now, and I think it's great!
    
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Note 12.5            Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training              5 of 18
CASADM::JONES "Vincent Jones - Is this the edge??"    7 lines  21-JUL-1987 09:28
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	The powerlifter you are referring to Bev Francis was close to
    165 lbs. for the contest.  In three years she has made some radical
    changes.  She is down to a solid 140, and the IFBB seems to agree
    with her improvement.  She just won the IFBB World Pro.  Check it
    out in the lastest issue of Flex.
    
    Vince
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Note 12.6            Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training              6 of 18
SQM::AITEL "Helllllllp Mr. Wizard!"                  27 lines  21-JUL-1987 10:42
                      -< Standing firm, but w/o flames. >-
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    I just exchanged some mail with Vince - I didn't mean to turn
    my flame thrower on him!  The topic has a tendency to pull my
    chain, though.  I think we'll see a lot more V-shaped women
    in bodybuilding in the future, and we'll be redefining our
    concepts of "feminine beauty" to include them.
    
    By the way, I was wrong on my bench-press numbers for Bev Francis.
    She pressed 350, not 250.  I've seen photos of her, and she looks
    like a powerlifter.  Powerlifters of both sexes tend to look like
    Mac Trucks.  When she got into bodybuilding she had to do a lot
    of reformatting - I haven't seen a recent photo but even the difference
    between Bev at 185 doing powerlifting and Bev at 165 doing body-
    building was pretty remarkable.  I'll have to check out a current
    photo of her.
    
    The other thing to remember is that, outside of the gym and the
    contests, bodybuilders don't go around with their muscles pumped
    up all day long.  They don't look like that walking down the
    street, and they're not as ripped either unless they're doing
    a contest.  It's hard to tell what these women look like in street
    clothing, but I've read a short blurb in one of the muscle mags.
    Apparently a top bb woman was lazing around the beach in a
    bikini, and overheard 2 women talking about her.  They were saying
    "Geez, she looks somewhat like those muscle-women, but not as
    muscular or big."
    
    --Louise (with flame-thrower firmly turned off)
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Note 12.7            Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training              7 of 18
VAXUUM::CORMAN                                       29 lines  22-JUL-1987 11:15
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    Excuse me, but is this the 1950s or the 1980s? (Perhaps there's
    no difference?) 
    
    It saddens me that, of all the
    directions a discussion about bodybuilding and women could take,
    it almost immediately becomes one of:
    
    Male: "Well, if the woman is still *feminine*, I mean, if she'll
           still wear make-up and has long fingernails and does her
           hair up and wears high heels and is slim and has nice legs
           and....and..."
    
    Female: "But, gee, we don't really look *that* awful, I mean, we're
             still nice people, and if you look through the muscles
             we're still attractive, and you should see us when we aren't
             flexing, we're just as helpless as always...."
    
    Right, of course I'm being abit sarcastic here, but just abit. So
    often, we get stuck in this defensive position, arguing back and
    forth if women have the right to be strong and powerful instead
    of traditionally weak and wobbly. Well, then, I'll get defensive
    here. My bottom line is that it's none of anyone's business how
    muscular I choose to be, and if men can't see their way clear of
    chauvanistic attitudes, I'm not interested in converting them.
    
    I'd be glad to see the direction of this discussion shift to one
    of "Difficulties women bodybuilders face because of sexism." 
    A discussion of the sexiness of women who have biceps should be moved
    to the Soapbox notesfile.
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Note 12.8            Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training              8 of 18
CASADM::JONES "Vincent Jones - Is this the edge??"   23 lines  22-JUL-1987 11:48
                     -< I AM TRYING TO HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!! >-
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    Let me once again reiterate, and continue why I started this note.
    I am going to turn my mild flame on here.  <Flame setting 2 of 10>I
    started this note out of wanting to hit all of the hot issues that
    are out now, and to initiate men and women to voice their opinions.
    I am geuinely concerned about this area.  I thought this would be
    an opportunity for women to share some concerns, perceptions about
    how far we've have come as a society, where we need to go, and help
    take some of the sting off some the sterotypes that women have to
    go through.  I have discussed this topic with a number of women at
    my gym.  It was initiated some excellent discussion, and all of
    my feedback was positive.  I am a little tired of the chauvinism rap
    when the intention of this note had a positive direction.<Flame
    setting 2 of 10 OFF>.
    
    If this note is going to be interpreted as it has in .1 and .7 please
    let me know, and I will be more than happy to remove it.  It is
    not, and will never be my intention to insult anyone in this
    conference.  
    
    Vince
    
    
    1.  There are alot of  
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Note 12.9            Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training              9 of 18
BEING::MCANULTY "Fight Crime --- Shoot First"        16 lines  22-JUL-1987 12:00
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    	I think there is a strong conceptual mis-understanding, that
    	not only are people reading them a different way than there
    	meant, but there WRITTEN a different way that they are meant.
    
    	I feel that, yes woman should do whatever they like. I think
    yes woman should be able to build there bodies, and compete. But
    muscle bound women don't stimulate an attractive image to me.
    Just the same that women say that guy over there has to much muscle.
    
    	But we can't say women can't do this or this. THEY CAN DO IT,
    I think it's a matter of what is atractive to the male or female
    persona.
    
    			Mike
    
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Note 12.10           Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training             10 of 18
VAXUUM::CORMAN                                       48 lines  22-JUL-1987 16:58
                          -< OK OK calm down, now... >-
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    Reply to .8
    
    Vince:
    Oy veey. Now, you got me wrong, thinking that I got you wrong. :-)
    I understood why you started this note, and am glad you did so.
    It's an interesting and important topic. I was not responding to
    the note's subject. I *was* responding to the conversation that
    grew with each response to the note. Read over the responses 
    and try to see my point, that the discussion moved immediately into
    the attractiveness of female body shape/muscle. 
    
    Its just so aggravating; think how it'd be to                  
    see, in a brand new notes file, a discussion develop immediately
    on the merit of men having hair on their chests. It's rediculous.
    (Vince, no doubt you understand this already, from your note in
    .8. I guess I just felt it important to open some other eyes, or
    maybe just put in my 2 cents.) 
    
    So, let's all call a truce and move on with an interesting discussion. 
    Let's see....
    
    How do the readers of this note feel about working 
    out with a female training partner? 
    Ever get the chance to do so? Do you worry that
    perhaps she won't be able to spot you properly, that the barbell
    will be too heavy for her to lift off you when you accidently
    drop it on your face? Ahem, just a joke. But, as you can see, *I*
    myself get alittle nervous about spotting someone who is lifting
    twice as much as I weigh.  But, so far so good, I generally can
    give the help required and can also give some good encouragement,
    yelling "Come on, push it" at the top of my lungs.
    
    I only got the chance to train with a woman once, several years
    ago. I actually felt so in awe of her strength 
    that I couldn't concentrate. I think I
    also felt competitive, not being as muscular as her, and that really
    ruined it. Matter of fact, since that time, I've prefered working
    out alone...I find that competition discouraging. I'd rather
    just compete with myself. 
    
    So, what d'ya folks think?
    
    -Barbara
    
     
    
    
 
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Note 12.11           Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training             11 of 18
CASADM::JONES "Vincent Jones - Is this the edge??"   17 lines  22-JUL-1987 17:16
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    Barbara,
    
    I see your point.  That is indeed the direction the replies began
    to take.  I overreacted.  Now that I have comfortably smeared and
    adjusted the egg on my face....
    
    I trained with a women in Washington DC.  We workout/drilled for
    tennis as well.  The first week I was blown away by strong this
    person was, but after some good pointers from her, some arguements,
    some great workouts we grew to depend on each other.  We were good
    friends after while, I respected her as my training partner (YES
    should could spot any weight was lifting).  The fact that she was
    a woman was ancillary.  If she had not be such a hot athlete, I
    am sure I would have had concerns, but I benefited from that
    partnership.
    
    Vince
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Note 12.12           Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training             12 of 18
SQM::AITEL "Helllllllp Mr. Wizard!"                  34 lines  22-JUL-1987 17:47
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    Hi Barbara, hi Vince, I can see why you reacted as you did to
    my note and the others.  I was responding to the "can women
    get TOO BIG" part, mainly.  And what I meant was what I was
    saying, that people are people.  But enough.
    
    I've been spotted/trained with both men and women.  The only
    thing I don't like in a spotter/training partner is when they're
    unsure of themselves.  That tends to lead to them giving too much
    help too soon, which ruins the set for me.  I've found that more
    often with other women, since they're afraid that if they let
    me struggle and I fail, they won't be able to pick up the weight.
    So they don't let me struggle.  BUT the women I usually swap
    spotting with don't have any trouble, and I'm sure that the ones
    who are unsure wouldn't either - it does not take much to give that
    5-10lb lift to get me over a rough spot.  And when I train with
    other women who are at about the same weights I'm at we're much
    tougher on each other, which REALLY helps.  We're not truely
    competing with each other, but we can psych ourselves into believing
    that we are, just for the set.
    
    Some of the problems I've begun to run into are that I don't know
    exactly what I'm heading for.  It seems that the standards for
    men are much more widely known - maybe it just *seems* that way.
    I'm having trouble telling just what I should concentrate on,
    and if I'm growing at a reasonable rate, etc.  I don't know much
    about what is specific to a women's development, as opposed to
    a man's development. I'm sure most of the ideas are the same, but
    there are likely some differences.  It's sort-of like I wish there
    were somewhere I could go and get someone in the profession to
    take a look at me and let me know what they think I could do
    with what I've got.  At this point I don't know if I'd be better
    at powerlifting or building, even.

    --Louise
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Note 12.13           Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training             13 of 18
CASADM::JONES "Vincent Jones - Is this the edge??"   13 lines  22-JUL-1987 20:14
              -< Exercise Physiologist or DR. of Sports Medicine >-
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    An exercise physiologist would do the trick.  That is what I was
    working towards.  I do not know Boston well, but exercise physiologists
    can normally be found in concert with Doctors of Sports Medicine,
    and at major hosipitals.  Additionally, I am familiar with Exercise
    Science Department at UMass Amhearst.  They have one of the best
    departments on the east coast.  They can tell things like composition
    of blood chemistry, fast twitch/slow twitch %, skeletical analysis,
    and dozens of other test.  It is not cheap, but is enlightening,
    and fun.  A qualified exercise physiologist is a great resource
    for information regarding direction of your potential, and general
    physiological info about your sport with regard to your training.
    
    Vince
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Note 12.14           Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training             14 of 18
CSC32::KACHELMYER "Dave Kachelmyer, VMS/SPACE"       31 lines  22-JUL-1987 21:37
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    RE: .0
    
    > Q: Should women be bodybuilding?
    > Q: Can a women get too big, even without steroids?
    > Q: What impact does bodybuilding have on your perception of feminity?
    
    I, for one, know that I appreciate and admire a sleek, muscular body on
    an animal such as a horse, a large feline, or a canine (to name but
    several). There is a beauty to such a physique, something that is fun
    to admire and watch in action.  This is true for both male and female
    animals.  And, this is also true for humans. 
    
    Such a body bestows upon its owner an appearance of grace, strength,
    and skill that is independent of the gender of it's owner.  As a
    result, the appearance of either gender is enhanced by such a body.

    I expect that at least some women would be able to develop musculature
    that would make them look unaesthetic, just as there are are certainly
    men who have developed a physique that appears unaesthetic.  This can
    be either a body that is very unbalanced in development, or one that is
    over-developed to the point where it is no longer pleasing to look at.
    That point is, of course, subject to a certain ammount of personal
    preference, ;-)  but is also determined, to a certain extent, by the
    size and dimensions of the frame it's built upon.
        
    Considering the benifits to appearance, health, and the pleasure
    derived from owning and using a strong, well-developed body, I feel
    that both women and men should be in bodybuilding, if they are so
    inclined.
    
    Dave
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PUNDIT::CHIP                                         11 lines  27-JUL-1987 18:40
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    rachel mclish is just beautiful....
    she is feminine.......
    not to big.......
    but it seems lately the trend in womens bodybuilding is towards
    mass, sculptured but heavily muscled.   They say this isn't
    MIss america but bodybuilding.....well to me anything bigger
    than rachel, cory everson etc. is to manlike for me!
    Bodybuilding wowen should be women in shape, not steroid shooting
    hulks.
    P.S my wife is my training partner when we can synch up schedules
    she started with aerobics, then to weights "looks great-less filling"
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Note 12.16           Women and Bodybuilding/Weight Training             16 of 18
RDVAX::STJOHN "RDVAX::STJOHN"                         9 lines   5-AUG-1987 16:47
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    Hi Vince,
    
    I would like to say that this conference is the best!!  I only have
    one question, I would like to find out how much body fat I have,
    and I would like to be tested by a professonal, could you tell me
    if there is a specific doctor that does this type of testing, and
    if not, how can I find out?
    
    Sherry
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ANGORA::WOLOCH                                       11 lines  11-AUG-1987 09:02
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    Hi Vince,
    In response to .0, I'd like to see this note posted in a notesfile
    with a different distribution of people, for instance Human_Relations
    or Womannotes.  
    I would think that (almost) everyone that reads this notesfile would
    be supportive of women that work-out, but you'd probably get a more
    varied cross-section of responses from one of the above listed
    notesfiles.
    What do you think?
    
    -Nancy
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CASADM::JONES "Vincent Jones - Is this the edge??"    3 lines  11-AUG-1987 09:35
                        -< Why didn't I think of that >-
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    Yesssss!!!!! That is a marvelous idea.
    
    Vince
435.2AKA::TAUBENFELDAlmighty SETTue Aug 11 1987 17:4917
    WOW this brings back memories.  A few years ago I wanted to start
    body building as a way to get in shape.  So I subscribed to
    the bb mags and ordered all those books from Rachel Maclish on women
    body building.  My mother was extremely upset, fearing that I would 
    look like a man, and forbid me to do it.  So, I never started.
    
    I can't stand the people who watch the women's bb contests and say
    how ugly a woman like that looks walking on the beach.  That noter
    was right, they wouldn't look that way, in the contests they are
    flexing and oiled up.  A relaxed muscle does not look the same.
    
    And don't think that every woman who weight lifts is doing it to 
    compete.  In tightens muscles, burns fat, makes a woman look like
    a lean, mean...  I would LOVE to look like some of those women,
    I would be thinner, healthier and a lot more confident.
    
    
435.3Great stuff!VINO::EVANSTue Aug 11 1987 18:4718
    Gee, what a great note!
    
    I wish more women would get involved in activities like this. I
    always hear the old "but I don't want to look like those guys with
    the *big muscles*!!!"
    
    If only the message would get across that it is testosterone that
    allows the development of the super-bulky muscle, and women just
    ain't got enuff of it to create "the hulk".
    
    Yes, it is possible to develop more bulk to one's muscles, but to
    nowhere *near* the degree that men can. Besides, it's totally within
    the control of the person doing the exercise!
    
    It's also never too late to do something you've wanted to.
    
    Dawn
    
435.4Want to join me in burning them muscles?VAXUUM::CORMANWed Aug 12 1987 11:1714
    I'd be glad to give an introduction to weight lifting
    to any woman in the Nashua New Hampshire area who might be
    interested. I work out at a club called Off the Wall in Nashua.
    The club charges a $4 guest fee....send me mail,
    and we could arrange a time to meet...you cover the guest
    fee, and I'll show you some of the exercizes. 
    
    If you would feel more comfortable getting an introduction
    from a trained instructor, Off the Wall has a female fitness director
    who is also a body builder, and I'm sure she'd be pleased to give
    you an intro, as well. 
    
    -Barbara Corman
    
435.5Power is attractiveHUMAN::BURROWSJim BurrowsThu Aug 13 1987 01:0729
        Personally, I think that some of the women who develop who have
        the "powerful, but feminine" look are absolutely gorgeous. Once
        you're into real bulk and chiselled muscle definition it can
        become unattractive. Of course, appearing attractive to me isn't
        the goal. I don't appreciate the really heavy bulk or definition
        in men, either. 
        
        The most powerful looking and strongest man I've ever known was
        an ex-body builder. He'd started out in body building because he
        was a 98 lb. weakling and didn't want sand kicked in his face.
        Later he got involved in Karate (3rd or 4th dan black belt in
        three different schools last I heard) and other martial arts.
        All that huge bulky muscle he had sleeked down and turned into
        strength. His muscles had been bulkier when he was doing the
        body building, but after the karate they were much stronger.
        Because of the raw power in his body and the complete self-
        assurance he had, he was awe-inspiring even when he strolled.
        
        The look in women body builders that I find most attractive is
        the analogous one--strong, sleek, powerful and self-assured.
        It's not the only look I find attractive in women, but it is
        compelling. Rachel Maclish when she isn't straining for a
        competition comes off pretty much this way. During competition
        she more closely matches the artifical goal that the body
        builders are trying to sculpt, but that look is intentionally
        artificial, and for that very reason less attractive from my
        perspective.
        
        JimB.
435.6More, more, more...NANUCK::FORDNoterdamusThu Aug 13 1987 02:0517
    I love women bodybuilders.  I have liked them for a long time and
    then a couple moved next door that owned a gym.  They both were
    bodybuilders and she competed (won 3rd in the state one year). 
    They gave my wife and I free tickets to the state meet and afterward
    we were introduced to Carla Dunlap (then Miss Olympia).  Later on
    I saw Pumping Iron II and after getting over the initial shock of
    seeing Bev Francis didn't think anything was wrong with her especially
    when you knew her background (powerlifting).  I have seen the new
    Bev and think she looks nice now also, but only wish the bodybuilding
    judging community would have been more receptive to her as she was.
    
    I think my wife has the perfect frame and structure for bodybuilding
    but she (even though she maintains her weight well) like me (much 
    overweight) doesn't have the discipline.  Oh well maybe one day.
    
    
    JEF
435.7I luv em too!BRUTUS::MTHOMSONWhy re-invent the wheelThu Aug 13 1987 10:4310
    I love women bodybuilders.  Women who are proud of their bodies.
     I was socialized to believe that women should not be proud of their
    bodies, in fact just the opposite.  Body image values are still
    hard for me to understand...still working on it.  I've always wanted
    to be fit, and have a sport in my life.  My brother is a coach for
    women's gymnastics, and track.  Hew says I should be a power lifter.
     Perhaps someday I'll have enough stregnth, positive self image
    to work toward that goal.
    
    MaggieT
435.8think of it as hard excercizeARMORY::CHARBONNDPost No BullsFri Aug 14 1987 07:1411
    Go for it! Bodybuilding isn't necessarily a competitive sport, it
    can be a way of self improvement, and good excercize. If optimization
    of yourself is important, weight training works very well. Keep
    in mind that the top competitors actually live *very* unhealthy
    lifestyles to get in peak form - weird diets, steroids, excessive
    protein intake, extreme bodyfat depletion. Avoiding these pitfalls
    is important if you don't plan to compete professionally. Those
    are useful only if you are a top contender looking for an 'edge'
    to take first place. A lot of pros have endangered their future
    health, and the money isn't that great, even at the top. Unless
    you're Arnold. 
435.9flex or sex?VAXUUM::CORMANMon Aug 17 1987 16:4118
    Hee hee hee....I'm looking back over the few responses here...
    some of 'em start with "I love women bodybuilders, always have"
    type statements. I suddenly got a flash of the classified ads 
    that must be out there: "Straight White Male looking for
    Gorgeous Sexy Girl Bodybuilder for discreet afternoons of working
    out together"...    ~/~
    
    What made me think of this?  As my mother would say: "Oh, you've
    always been so hyper-sensitive." I realize that the responses here
    have NOT been in that tone at all. (However, how come I can't picture
    writing in to a men's notefile that "I've *always loved* men that
    exercise"? Ooo la la.)
    
    Well, are men really ready to accept us women as independent,
    powerful and strong?  Or, might it be tied into s-e-x, somehow? 
    
    -Barbara  
    
435.10sexMAY20::MINOWJe suis Marxist, tendance GrouchoMon Aug 17 1987 17:2010
re: .9

It's tied into sex somehow.  So is intelligence, sensitivity, communication
skills and a sense of humor.  Or, as the Danish philosopher Piet Hein put it:

   Everything is either concave or convex,
   So whatever you think, it's always about sex.

Martin.

435.11I find it a great stress releiverVAXWRK::SKALTSISDebMon Aug 17 1987 19:4424
    I was into body building (non-competitivly) between 1980 and 1983.
    It gave me a really great feeling about myself; it made me feel strong
    and healthy not to mention confident and self assured. One of the
    reasons that I got into it was it was a great stress/pressure release.
    I was comming home from work mentally exhausted and usually pretty
    angry about the situation at work, but wasn't physically tired enough
    to sleep. Pumping iron helped me release all of the angry energy
    I had been building up and made me too tired to even think about
    what ever I was upset about. It is also a real good feeling to know
    that if some jerk is giving you a hard time that you would have
    no problem decking them :-).
    
    I started working out at a health spa but wound up buying my own bench
    and weights. That was around the time that the health spa was turning
    into a combination single's bar replacement/arobics class. When
    I was still doing it regularly, I could benchpress close to 100 lbs.
    I stopped working out regularly partly because I became a homeowner
    (couldn't find the time), and partly because of knee and elbow problems
    getting worst (probably the real excuse; I've been putting off knee
    surgery for close to 12 years now). I'd like to start up again when the
    weather gets cooler.
    
    Deb
    
435.12Sure, sex...HUMAN::BURROWSJim BurrowsWed Aug 19 1987 20:2624
        Body building is as much an art as a sport. It is done with an
        eye towards appearence explicitly. Simple weight training, of
        course, can be purely for sport or health, but it does
        contribute to appearence. As your basic couch potatoe, I have
        very little in the way of first hand opinion with either,
        especially from a woman's perspective, and so my only opinions
        are about the effects on appearence and self-image, both of
        which it improvrs, as fart as I can tell, (and which can
        go hand in hand.
        
        My views on the appearence of women are seriously affected by
        sex. What I think makes a woman look good is not purely based on
        sexual attraction, but it is a component. Another major
        component is self assurance and power. I think that strong,
        sleek, powerful women look healthy which is good. It also makes
        them look sexier, amplifying whatever sexiness they have. 
        
        So, yes, as a man with a view on this subject, pure sex appeal
        or enhanced sex appeal is a real factor in my judgement on the
        appearence of female body builders and weight trainers. It isn't
        the only factor, and I don't feel that it is inherrently sexist.
        It certainly shouldn't be the only factor. 
        
        JimB. 
435.13Never been in a gymOURVAX::JEFFRIESthe best is betterThu Aug 20 1987 14:0620
    My daughter is not a body builder but is asked at least once a week
    where she works out.  A relative of mine is a former Mr Rhode Island,
    and owns a gym. He has asked her to train with him and to let him
    sponsor her. How did she get that way you ask...Well she is a farmer
    with out some of the modern farm equipment.  
    
    When the hay delivery comes 80 to 100 bails, she carries each one
    up a ladder (backwards) and heaves it into the hay loft over her
    head, then goes up to arrange and stack it. Deliveries are about
    every 6 weeks.  Most of the feed comes in 100lb sacks and is stored
    in the garage, about 300ft from the barn, This does get moved by
    wheelbarrow.  In the winter when we can't run hoses to the barn
    because of freezing, water has to be carried to each animal, 5 horses,
    2 cows, 4 sheep, and 3 dogs. The water is carried in 10 gal buckets.
    She does it all, I only pitch in for accidents or illness.  
    
    There are was to get the body in shape out side off the gym. My
    neighbor watched her doing her chores one day and said "how can
    anyone work that hard and call it fun." Thats because she works
    a full time and a part time job, the farm stuff is her fun stuff.
435.14WORKING OUT BRINGS OTHER JOYS!VIDEO::BISHOPThu Aug 20 1987 16:0137
    This notes file is great.  I just happend to stumble upon it.
    I am a female and I too work out.  Actually I worked out very
    had last summer and winter.  This summer I guess I'm a little 
    slow.   But anyways,  I think that bodybuilding is great for
    a woman (I guess you would call me a woman at 23 years of age?).
    I joined a gym last summer because I was upset with my life-
    style and bored out of my mind.  I was your typical college
    student who went out drinking every night and started that 
    good old weight gain.  I had always worked out before, but
    not extensively ( I was on the track team in high school and
    also a cheerleader and also done some gymnastics) so I was
    not new to the weights.  I found such enjoyment going to the
    gym everyother night to start and after about a month every
    night.  I enjoyed taking my frustrations out on the weights, but
    I also enjoyed the way I was becoming to look.  I was tightening
    up all that loose skin.  I really enjoyed the feeling of becoming
    stronger and stronger.  Each time I added *more* weight the better
    I felt.  I also saw that as the men in the gym saw that I was
    dedicated to what I was doing and not just there to watch them work
    out, they gave me advise and helped to spot me.  They had nothing
    against me because I was in a gym that almost all men worked out
    at.  The men admire that girls who are dedicated, they turn their
    nosed to the girls who are in there either to flaunt their already
    lean bodies or the girls in there just to watch the other muscular
    men work out.  Another good thing came from working out, I met a
    man and we are still seeing each other.  I got so much pleasure
    from joining this gym; I was in better shape and much happier with
    myself and I met someone who enjoyed me and the way I looked too.
    We bought our own equipment and started working out in the cellar
    of my house, but the real satisfaction comes from working out in
    a gym where there is other people because there is more satisfaction
    and you try a lot harder not to look weak!  As it stands we are
    both going to join the gym again!!  I guess it is nice to go back
    to the place where we first met!
    
         *SHA*
    
435.15Honey, could you give me a lift?AMUN::CRITZYa know what I mean, VernFri Aug 21 1987 10:3814
    	Kinda in keeping with the tenor of the note:
    
    	A friend and his wife were telling me about growing up in
    	Nebraska. Her family milked a number of cows without a
    	modern system, so she had to carry the 5-gallon milk cans
    	by hand. He said he wanted to help (impress) her with how
    	strong he was. He grabbed one of the cans and carried it
    	about 5 feet and set it down. She walked up, grabbed that
    	can in one hand, grabbed another can in the other hand,
    	and carried both of them off to wherever.
    
    	He tells this somewhat sheepishly.
    
    	Scott
435.16I Love em!FDCV13::CALCAGNIA.F.F.A.Tue Sep 01 1987 20:0826
    
    The gym where I work out just started accepting women as members.
    The landlord had a "Womens World" right next door that his wife
    ran so he didn't want any competition.
    
    As a manager of the gym I and the owner fought to be able to have
    women lift if they so chose. Well we won!!
    
    Some of the men were against it at first, citing all sorts of dumb
    reason why a woman couldn't lift weights.
    
    Now we have quite a few, all sizes, ages, and they are respected
    because they are serious lifters. Some more then the men! Sure we
    look at the women in a sexual way sometimes, but respect the hell
    out of anyone who'll get up at 04:15 everyday to lift weights and
    is dedicated.
    
    If you're interested there's a very good notes file on lifting.
    Read it there's a few women involved in it. And they're taken just
    as seriously as the men.
    
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    Cal.