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Conference turris::womannotes-v1

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 1 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V1 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:873
Total number of notes:22329

325.0. "If you had the power to change the world..." by MOSAIC::TARBET (Margaret Mairhi) Thu May 28 1987 12:23

    1.  What would you change about your current job?  
    
    2.  What would you change about your current career prospects?
    
    3.  What would you change about your social environment?
                                             
    4.  What would you change about your country?  
    
    5.  What would you change about the world? 
    
    				
    These questions arose out of Dr. Miller's recent lecture on "Women
    and Power".  She argues that the first step toward meaningful change
    is to visualise just what changes we would like to make.  
    
    						=maggie
    
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325.1my answers to the Miller questionnaireRAINBO::IANNUZZOCatherine T.Thu May 28 1987 17:3147
>    1.  What would you change about your current job?  

	I like my job, and in general am pretty satisfied
with what I have to do.  Since I've recently changed groups,
and am happier with the new one than the old one, I haven't    
had much time to get dissatisfied about my current situation.
Since I'm going through the agonies of buying my first home,
I would like to make more money, though...

>    2.  What would you change about your current career prospects?

	I like doing software, and in general feel like it has one
of the best fun/income ratios of any real job.  When my kids are out 
of school, and I don't have to support anyone anymore, I just might 
dump it all, go to art school, and live in a garrett.  

>    3.  What would you change about your social environment?

	I moved a year ago from the greater Boston area to Maine --
it has taught me some graphic lessons about community and culture.
I had a fantasy about living in the country with my SO.  Well, now
there's no SO, and I've been living an incredibly isolated life.
It's given me a lot of perspective on what is important to me, so
I'm moving back to Boston with a real sense of what I need: art,
politics, social commitment, community with other women.
I'd like to help create alternatives for women alone with children --
don't have any solutions yet, but I expect to try to do something
about it eventually.  I'm planning to volunteer with the AIDS
Action Committee as well, since I feel very strongly about
being there for people who need it most, and to work against
the growing tide of homophobia.

>    4.  What would you change about your country?

An end to interventionist politics, an end to nuclear proliferation,
a compassionate attitude towards solving domestic and world poverty,
respect for natural resources and ecological balance.  
True equal rights for women.

    
>    5.  What would you change about the world? 

See #4, multiplied a zillion times.  More than anything, an
end to patriarchal exploitation, and a social climate that 
respects women's values.
    
325.2Ah, yes, fantasiesGCANYN::TATISTCHEFFThu May 28 1987 19:0247
>    1.  What would you change about your current job?  
    
    I would have more power: to choose the appropriate people, and delegate
    to them the beaurocratic hassles that suck up my time; to say, I
    should be spending my time looking at this, and be believed, with
    no justification needed.
    
    I would have less power: when I make personnel decisions/suggestions
    (prospective employee, current employee), I am extremely uncomfortable
    with the power over their career and livelihood.
    
    I would change _me_; my project management skills leave much to
    be desired.
    
    Most of this will come naturally as I mature, or will never happen
    as it is utterly unsound business practice.
    
>    2.  What would you change about your current career prospects?
 
    Not a whole lot, except that I would like to avoid overspecialization.
    
>    3.  What would you change about your social environment?
    
    Increase the acceptance of intimacy.  I love an awful lot, and I
    don't want that to change.  Among my closest friends, this is 100%
    cool, but there are so many people I like being friendly with who
    are uncomfortable with intimacy outside of a lover-relationship.
    
>    4.  What would you change about your country?  
    
    I would do away with physical violence, especially in the way we
    deal with "alien" countries.  We should not live with the threat
    of war, EVER.  The threat of economic warfare should be enough.
    None of this death penalty idiocy, no [insert your favorite oppressed
    group here] bashing, a strong sense of the "value of our differences".
    
    
>    5.  What would you change about the world? 
    
    Less [ie: no] violence, more tolerance, more food for all.
    				

    This _is_ a helpful excercise.  I would REALLY like to live in a
    world run by women.
    
    Lee
325.4os far, so goodSKYLIT::SAWYERi'll take 2 myths and 3 traditions...to go..Mon Jun 08 1987 13:3789
    1. change about my job?
    	personally, i should be making enough money to live a decent
    life as....a musician, a writer, a teacher.
    	not-so-personally i'd like all employees to review their bosses.
    	i'd like bosses and workers to be considered doing equal but
    different tasks.
    	the allowance for higher up management to be forgiven for any
    blunder at all while lower down employees live in fear of their
    jobs for even the most insignificant error. This would be changed.
    	No boss would ever again say..."heck with the employees...we're
    not in this for them...it's a business and we're in it for the money"
    	that would change.
    	If this whole thing isn't for all of the people.....it should
    be.
    
    	2. career prospects?
    	i write and record and play and work on all my personal interests
    on a regular basis.
    	and i'm good at it.
    	i carry demo tapes around hoping to run into...the right person...
    	and i teach for dec currently....
    
    	3. social environment?
    	personally, i'd like to have more people who liked me for my
    good qualities and less people who think i'm a jerk because of my
    "liberal" and "compassionate" points of view....it's rough being
    disliked by so many people cuz you care about the poor and problems
    with the government/country/planet...
    	but, being strong and confident and truly believing in my
    assertions, and having an s.o. who feels quite similarly helps alot.
    Also, our social environment is full of trips to neat places and
    movies and we talk about EVERYTHING so we don't (i odn't at least)
    feel that we're missing anything important "socially"
    	on a not-so-personal basis i wish more people would do a lot
    more than just watch t.v. and clean their house/yard. Seems like
    10 out of every 10 people i ask "what did you do this weekend"
    replies...."not much" or "nothing" or "went to a wedding" or "cleaned
    the yard/attic/house"
    	if they don't go to a wedding or a party or their parents house....
    they just don't go....
    	?
    
    	4. country?
    	free /full/complete education for all people up to and including
    college education.
    	greater encouragement/reward for the arts in school.
    	less politicians and more referendum voting.
    	a job for everyone.
    	a minimum wage that would guarentee a happy life for all people.
    	proper taxation that does not favor the rich and abuse everyone
    else.
    	a country of the people, by the people and for the people....as
    opposed to what we have now....a country of/by/for the bureacracy.
    	more women leaders. (i might even make it against the law for men
    to hold public office!!!!!:-)
    	no hunger and no poverty.
    	i would rewrite the constitution. The dam thing is so old and
    full of ancient "wisdom" that it's questionable at best. So, just
    like they keep making newer/bigger/faster/better computers....i'd
    make a newer/better constitution.
    	all governmental positions would be held by properly trained
    and educated personnel who's number one priority would be.....
    PLEASE THE PEOPLE!
    	no more stupid, angry, violent cops.
    	no more stupid, angry social workers.
    	no more stupid, angry registry workers.

    	all government offices would be open 9-9!
    	no more would the people have to take time off from work, which
    causes so many to lose wages they can't afford to lose, and the
    boss? is always suspect of those who take time off.
    
    	free parking.
 	it's just another unnecessary tax and it's damned inconvenient.
   
     	corporate pollution at tax payers expense (financially and healthwise)
    would cease!
    
    	a terminal in every home and each home would have access to
    NOTES!
    
    	5. the world?
    	see 4.

    
    	i, too, would prefer women leaders to men.
    
    rik
    
325.6moved notesTWEED::B_REINKEthe fire and the rose are oneThu Jun 18 1987 17:546
    I have moved the conversation about guns to a different note so
    we can get back to the base note topic.
    
    Bonnie J
    moderator