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Conference turris::womannotes-v1

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 1 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V1 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:873
Total number of notes:22329

81.0. "Displaced Homemakers" by COOKIE::ZANE (Terza) Thu Sep 11 1986 01:11

Does anybody out there have any information, references, anecdotes, or advice
to offer on the topic of displaced homemakers?  A displaced homemaker is
one who has always been a "domestic engineer" and suddenly finds herself
the sole supporter of the family.  How does a woman get off AFDC/Welfare and put
herself back into the job market?  Seems to me a single woman and two kids
can't make it with a minimum wage job with the housing, food, clothing,
transportation, and possibly daycare costs the way they are; she might as
well stay on welfare.

Also, does anyone have any suggestions on how to turn tasks normally done
for running a household and raising kids into viable skills on a resume
or somehow prepare for an interview (like maybe for a job that offers
training)?

Thanks in advance for anything you can offer!


							Terza

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81.1answerNIMBUS::OHERNThu Sep 11 1986 11:384
    I used to be the coordinator for a training center for displaced
    homemakers.  Although in another state, I'm sure the issues are
    similar.  Would be happy to talk to you, and share experiences.
    Call at DTN 297-2021 or NIMBUS::OHERN.
81.2a book...MIRFAK::TILLSONFri Sep 19 1986 13:5916
    
    There is a fine book (sorry, I don't remember the author) called
    "What Color Is My Parachute?" which covers many of the issues you
    mentioned, such as how to turn your real-life skills into something
    that looks good on a resume.  It has good advice for people rentering
    the workforce, or entering it for the first time, also for people
    changing career paths or just getting ahead in the paths they have
    already chosen.  Also, good advice for determining what sort of
    a career path to pursue, based on one's interests and experience.
    I thought that part of the book was especially useful; I've known
    too many people who were very good at what they did, but who would
    have been happier doing something else!
    
    Rita
    
    
81.3Easy-To-Find BookCLOSET::DYERWorking For The Yankee DollarSat Sep 20 1986 05:163
	    Almost every book store has "What Color Is My Parachute?"
	No need to worry about the author's name.
			<_Jym_>
81.4More on WHAT COLOR IS YOUR PARACHUTE?WFOVX3::KLEINBERGERGale KleinbergerSat Sep 20 1986 11:5662
    The author of "What Color Is Your Parachute" (notice the YOUR and
    not MY) is Richard Nelson Bolles.  Of particular noticing is that
    this is an annual.. That is to say, it is substantially revised
    each year, the new edition appearing in March of that year,  There
    are forms in each book so that those wishing to submit additions,
    corrections, or suggestions for the next years edition, can submit
    them prior to September 1st of that year.  Letters reaching them
    after that date will have to wait for the next ediiton.
    
        
    It is subtitled as "A Practical Manual for Job-Hunters and Career
    Changes"
    
    The chapters of the 1983 Edition are:
    
    
    Chapter One:  A-Job-Hunting we will go
    
    Chapter Two:  Rejection Shock
    
    Chapter Three:  You can do it!
    
    Chapter Four:  You must keep at it
    
    Chapter Five:  Only you can decide:  what do you want to do?
    
    Chapter Six:  Where do you want to do it?
    
    Chapter Seven:  You must identfy the person who has the power to
		    hire you and show them how your skills can help them with their
		    problems
    
    Appendix A:  The quick job-hunting map
    
    Appendix B:  Books, Dealing with:
    
    Appendix C:  Professional Help
    
    Appendix D:  When more than career counseling is needed:  Burnout
    
    Appendix E:  Where the best jobs are
    
    Update
    
    Hotline (resource people in your area to help you)
    
    Mailing List and Newsletter
    
    Index
    
    Author Index
    
    It is 343 pages long,
    
    and I love the dedication:
    
    Fairy Godmother, where were you when I needed you?
    
    				- Cinderalla
    
    
    GLK
81.5Bravo!SSVAX::LAVOIEFri Mar 13 1987 14:339
    As hitting the "I don't want to be this for the rest of my life"
    slump I found Richard Nelson Bolles book quite a refreshing look
    and definately inspirational. It is quite excellent at pointing
    out what skills you do indeed posess instead of harping on the
    one's which you *don't* have.
    
    Anyone who can read this should!
    
    Sunshine