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46.1 | p.s | STUBBI::REINKE | | Tue Jul 15 1986 22:19 | 5 |
| p.s. I orignially raised the question in response to someone - whose
note I can no longer find - who expressed the opinion that the treatment
of women in our society was a sing of how sick our society is and
who stated that in other times and in other societies women had
been treated better and had more power.
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46.2 | In Sweden, only men prosper | RSTS32::TABER | | Fri Aug 15 1986 12:39 | 38 |
| Hi, Bonnie... I was perusing the conference and decided to drop
my 2 cents worth....
My "culture" (origins of birth) was one in which women were treated
as chattel. I'm Swedish (first-generation American as my Dad was
born in Norrskopping, Sweden) and it's a male-dominated society.
Way back in Viking days, women had certain rights. They could inherit
titles and property from their fathers, but upon marriage all property
and possessions transferred to their husbands. A single woman could
be powerful and even participate in local government, but a married
woman was her husband's property, to do with as he wished. She
could sue for divorce, but he could EASILY prove her wrong by simple
influence on his peers and her case would be lost over a tankard
of beer.
We all, of course, know the stories of how favored wives and concubines
were forced to join a dead master on a burning ship and die to join
him in Valhalla...
Swedish households revere the man and dominate the women. Daughters
perform household duties and sons are educated. The sign of a man's
worth is his number of sons.
One of the more hated customs for me is when the eldest daughter
dons the costume of Saint Lucia and serves all male members of the
family coffee and cakes in bed on Christmas morning. I refused!
So, I've seen modern Swedish society and it stinks. We daughters
have all rebelled from our fathers and our mothers cheer us on,
and our brothers stay silent, afraid to speak up. And we're letting
those really unbearable customs die out.
The old country was a male-only world. It's no world where I intend
to live! My cousins and I have each turned our backs on it because
in that world we mean nothing.
Bugsy
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46.3 | see also TLE::SCANDIA | SWSNOD::RPGDOC | Have pen, will travel | Fri Aug 15 1986 13:26 | 13 |
| RE: .2
My wife is also Svenske flicka, only more like 2nd or 3rd generation.
She is perhaps an exception, in that as first-born of two daughters
and one son, her father always treated her as more of a person and
encouraged her education. I've noticed she does have some residual
problems in expressing opinion which seem to have carried over into
our relationship. I happen to bbe very opinionated (even when I'm
wrong, or don't even know for sure).
You might be interested in bringing this topic up in the Scandinavian
notesfile (TLE::SCANDIA). To add it to your directory press KP7
or SELECT.
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46.4 | Not the Sweden I knew | REGENT::MINOW | Martin Minow -- DECtalk Engineering | Tue Sep 02 1986 15:46 | 14 |
| You will probably find that Scandinavia has changed in the last 30 years.
-- The prime minister of Norway is a woman (and an MD).
-- People pay taxes on their own income (husband and wife file
separate returns).
-- Even Lucia is "integrated" (the boys join in, too).
But, as noted, bring the issue up in Scandia to get a wider viewpoint.
Martin
(10 years resident in Sweden)
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46.5 | More on Sweden | PAMPAM::WYMAN | bob wyman | Wed Sep 03 1986 14:24 | 15 |
| Per Hamnqvist, our token Swede in the CASEE group, confirms the
story of St. Lucia as a regular practice in his house as he was
growing up.
However, on the other side of the coin..., I recently attended Per's
wedding in Stockholm and found myself spending the evening with
an Air Force Officer. Her job was to direct air defenses against
US and Soviet invaders (yes, they worry about the US...) She was
fairly clear in stating that she experienced little discrimination
and felt a bit sorry because her female counterparts in the US armed
services weren't allowed to do jobs as interesting as she was able
to do.
bob wyman
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46.6 | A long way to go yet | 25727::SONTAKKE | Nuke the hypocrites | Fri Sep 12 1986 16:50 | 5 |
| Is there a chance of we seeing a woman as the US President before the
turn of the next century? I think seeing a person from minority
occupying the highest office is still furhter off.
- Vikas
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46.7 | Woman President? | GIGI::TRACY | | Tue Nov 04 1986 15:31 | 8 |
| Re .6:
If I had to put money on it, I would have to say that I don't think
there will be a women in the Presidency this century. Maybe a VP.
But I'm counting on there being a woman president in my lifetime.
(I'm currently 28.)
-Tracy
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46.8 | | TLE::BRETT | | Sat Nov 28 1987 20:44 | 8 |
| I thought that, statistically, men were are minority in the USA...
Anybody know for a fact whether there are
(a) more females or males eligible to vote?
(b) more females or males enrolled to vote?
/Bevin
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