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Conference yukon::christian_v7

Title:The CHRISTIAN Notesfile
Notice:Jesus reigns! - Intros: note 4; Praise: note 165
Moderator:ICTHUS::YUILLEON
Created:Tue Feb 16 1993
Last Modified:Fri May 02 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:962
Total number of notes:42902

719.0. "Man in Rags" by AUSSIE::BELL (Caritas Patiens est) Thu Apr 27 1995 09:28

    { I found this is a local Christian Magazine, I'll enter part two in a
    few days time, but you are welcome to speculate on the out come. Peter}
    
    Like far too many people I was frustrated with growing up in a church
    that preached a lot about compassion but practised precious little
    charity.

    I can recall one time then the elders threw some ockers out for showing
    up in tank-tops, shorts, and thongs, and another time when the deacons
    caller the cops to take a tramp away for having the temerity to snooze
    on the steps of the sanctuary.

    So I decided to do something about it -- to see if I could stimulate
    something of the quality of care that I really desperately wanted to
    see. A quality of care that would welcome those who hitherto had been
    so unwelcome.

    My plan was simple. I'd dress down into the scruffiest clothes I could
    find. Front up to as many churches as I could around town where they
    didn't know me and present people with the opportunity to open their
    hearts by extending a welcome to me in my guise as a pool, lost
    passer-by.

    I thought the plan was a terrific idea and couldn't wait till the
    weekend to try it out.

    When Sunday morning dawned I got up early, put on my grottiest T-shirt
    and my grungiest jeans, and set off for the church I had targeted for a
    surprise encounter from and unexpected quarter that day.

    As I made my way there I imagined the kind of impact my visit might
    have. I envisaged that initial consternation a so-called down-and-out
    might cause a throughly-stereotypical upper-class congregation. Bit I
    envisaged people eventually overcoming their anxiety, trying to be
    polite to me as the possible could.
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719.1PAULKM::WEISSFor I am determined to know nothing, except...Thu Apr 27 1995 09:339
Sadly, I anticipate that the outcome won't be good at all.  Perhaps a few
will respond, most will probably shun him.  It convicts me, too, knowing that
while I hope I would respond positively, I, too, would have to overcome some
natural resistance to do so.  I'm not yet transformed into Christ's likeness
enough that my first reaction would be one of compassion.

It's so sad.  Jesus weeps.

Paul
719.2ICTHUS::YUILLEHe must increase - I must decreaseThu Apr 27 1995 11:0436
I am uncomfortable with the simulation.  His professed concern was the
attitude of the church, but to pretend to be what he wasn't in order to
test that attitude isn't straight.  He wasn't *truly* down and out, as he
pretended.  Only his outer clothing would portray that image.  He wouldn't
have the gaunt desperation of heart and feature that would go with it.  The
spiritually discerning would smell a rat, and look for more evidence before
taking him on trust.  Those who hear from the LORD wouldn't have him 
immediately identified as the man of James 2:3-4 or Romans 2:16 .  
Meanwhile, there could well be others inb the congregation who were truly 
in need, without necessarily showing it on the outside.

If his depth of concern truly went that deep for the needy, and he felt the 
need to empathise with their lifestyle, shouldn't he have spread his 
worldly possessions among them, before inviting them to accompany him to 
the church where he was well known, that his companionship would ensure
their welcome?

It certainly sounds from the introduction as if he was aware that his own
church needed just such a practical lesson in loving compassion, but he
appparently expected other churches (the ones he had chosen not to associate
with) to do better. 

As Paul says, the tone of the article suggests that he receives an 
unwelcome surprise.  I expect that there are many churches which would find 
it difficult to recognise the right use of such an opportunity.  But I also 
think that there are many churches, where hearts which are sensitive to the 
LORD would give spiritual and practical welcome and encouragement to the 
underprivileged.

We have certainly had down and outs of various types in our church.  Some
have honestly needed help, and have been very welcome.  Some have clearly
been there for material gain (specifically of a type that they can readily
convert into fluid), and have been treated fairly but firmly.  But neither 
do we ostracise those who feel more comfortable wearing suits.

						...Andrew
719.3Easier than welfare! Will work for food!CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Apr 27 1995 19:142
    	I wonder.  If the congregations helped him, gave him food and
    	clothing and money, what would he do with them?
719.4JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Apr 27 1995 19:359
    I think most people would find mixed reactions.  Some would shun him
    out of their own fear and ignorance, while others would be friendly and
    welcome him.  It also depends on the size of the church.  Smaller
    churches tend to *feel* more loving, because "everybody" which could be
    10 out of 50 people greet the person.  While 10 people may greet the
    person at a church that has say 500 in attendance and it would feel
    hostile and cold.
    
    Nancy
719.5ICTHUS::YUILLEHe must increase - I must decreaseWed May 03 1995 09:586
Re .0 � ..... I'll enter part two in a few days time ....

I hope we haven't given it too negative a welcome, Peter!  Looking forward 
to hearing the conclusions... ;-}

								Andrew
719.6Part two.AUSSIE::BELLCaritas Patiens estSun May 07 1995 05:0039
        { Its been a very busy *few* days, but here is part two   Peter}

    However, upon my arrival, things didn't work out exactly the way I had
    imagined they would. Nobody even took any notice of me.

    When I turned up at the door nobody greeted me. When I took a seat
    nobody sat next to me. When I mingled with the crowd nobody related to
    me. And when, in desperation, I approached people with a plea for help,
    I was referee by one person after another to the pastor, who was too
    busy to be able to spend any time with me.

    The way I was treated, and the way the people I was representing were
    treated in this incident made me so mad that I scrapped my plan,
    dropped any pretence, and berated the congregation about their
    disgraceful behaviour.

    But nobody took any more notice of me talking about the man in rags
    then when I had talked as the man in rags myself.

    My anger was no match for their apathy.

    I knew then what I think I have always known, but didn't want to know.

    I would never be able to change the church by trying to change them.
    The only way I would ever be able to change the church would be trying
    to change myself. 
    
    If I wanted the church to be more caring, I needed top be more caring
    myself. And if I wanted the church to be more committed to people like
    the man in rags, I needed to not only identify with the man in rags,
    but also get involved with the man in rags myself.


    							Dave Andrews

    					is an international speaker and is
    					involved in nurturing Christian
    					communities with the Baptist Union
    					in Queensland.