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705.1 | The syrophoenician Woman | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Mar 29 1995 10:34 | 81 |
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Mark 7:24-30
"The Syrophoenician Woman's Faith"
"From there he set out and went away to the region of Tyre. He entered
a house and did not want anyone to know he was there. Yet he could
not excape notice, but a woman whose little daughter had an unclean
spirit immediately heard about him, and she came and bowed down at his
feet. Now the woman was a Gentile, of Syrophoenician origin.She
begged him to cast the demon out of her daughter. He said to her,
"let the children be fed first, for it is not fair to take the
children's food and throw it to the dogs." But she answered him,
"Sir, even the dogs under the table eat the children's crumbs." Then
he said to her, "For saying that, you may go-the demon has left your
daugher.: So she went home, found the child lying on the bed and the
demon gone. "
Matthew 15:21-28
"The Canaanite Woman's Faith"
"Jesus left that place and went away to the district of Tyre and Sidon.
Just then a Canaanite woman from that region came out and started
shouting, "Have mercy on me, Lord, Son of David; my daughter is
tormented by a demon." But he did not answer her at all. And his
disciples came and urged him saying, "Send her away, for she keeps
shouting after us." He answered, "I was sent only to the lost sheep of
the house of Israel" But she came and knelt before him saying, "Lord,
help me" He answered, "It is not fair to take the children's food and
throw it to the dogs." She said, "yes, Lord, yet even the dogs eat the
crumbs that fall from their masters' table. Then Jesus answered her,
"Woman, great is your faith! Let it be done for you as you wish. And
her daughter was healed instantly."
(end scripture)
These passages are two passages that intrigue me. I inserted the
passage from Mark first and then the Passage from Matthew based on my
agreement with the many scholars that Mark was written first and
available along with a collection of sayings called "Q" to the writer
of the Gospel of Matthew.
Two things intrigue me about this passage.
First of all it is the only instance in the Bible that I recall when
someone successfully morally challenges Jesus.
The woman asks for help. Jesus says no, calling her a "dog" because
she is not from the house of Israel, The women offers a perfect
retorts "Even Dogs get to eat the scraps from the children's table."
Jesus changes his mind and helps her.
Second, it shows the fallibility of Jesus. Jesus is tired and weary
and responds to a woman asking for help with an insult. "I
can't help you. You are a dog. I came to help the lost sheep of the
house of Israel." The woman's response out of faith caused Jesus to
respond from his more powerful self.
As a woman, I find this passage wonderfully powerful for many reasons.
The hero of the passage truly is the woman. She is strong, determined
and powerful. Even Jesus responded to her Faith and her sense of
moral justice.
I also find this passage inspiring in its description of a very real,
human Jesus. Jesus for me saves by being a role model. Jesus portrays
the power of a human life lived in obedience to the will of the
divine. Some people need Jesus to be infallible to portray Divinity. I
need Jesus to be fully human to potray how a human life can respond to
Divinity. In the Epistles, Paul describes Christ as the "first fruit"
By adoption each one of us can become like Christ, a son or daughter of
the Divine. Jesus, in his life lived shows us how.
This passage shows that the Divine is present in each one of us, and
the divine spark in the Syrophoenician Woman, was even able to inspire
Jesus to his more powerful self.
Patricia
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705.2 | Fully God and fully man | ODIXIE::HUNT | Remember your chains are gone | Wed Mar 29 1995 10:50 | 16 |
| >Second, it shows the fallibility of Jesus. Jesus is tired and weary
>and responds to a woman asking for help with an insult. "I
>can't help you. You are a dog. I came to help the lost sheep of the
>house of Israel." The woman's response out of faith caused Jesus to
>respond from his more powerful self.
Was Jesus responding from His own preconceptions, or was He trying to
teach His disciples (and others) something about the character of God.
I believe He was trying to show that God loves all people. He loves us
whether we are male or female, black or white, Jew or gentile. The
bible says that Jesus was without sin.
In Christ,
Bing
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705.3 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Mar 29 1995 10:51 | 6 |
| Interesting and unorthodox interpretation of Jesus' motives and dealings.
Do you also think Abraham changed God's mind about the number of righteous
people He would use to spare Sodom and Gamorrah?
Mark
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705.4 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Mar 29 1995 11:16 | 14 |
| Yes, I do thinkg that Abraham changed God's mind.
God for me is "Creative/Responsive Love"
I understand how Platonic philosophy merged with Christianity to get a
doctrine of God as the "Unmoved Mover". I do not agree with that
classical Greek theology of God.
The Bible shows many instances where God is responsive to humanities
questions, sufferings, and in this case, assuming we see Jesus as God,
to changing his mind based on Human questioning. Tom, your example of
Abraham is another example.
Patricia
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705.5 | Is God Omniscient, Patricia? | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Mar 29 1995 11:32 | 30 |
| > Yes, I do think that Abraham changed God's mind.
It sounded as if you might think so.
> God for me is "Creative/Responsive Love"
God is God no matter how we perceive Him. God responded "I AM that I AM"
because there is no comparison. I AM unique; there is no other.
> The Bible shows many instances where God is responsive to humanities
> questions, sufferings, and in this case, assuming we see Jesus as God,
> to changing his mind based on Human questioning. Tom, your example of
> Abraham is another example.
If we understand God to be Omniscient, then how is God surprised by
what we will say or do? This "responsiveness" is seen from the child's
eyes and not from the eyes of the Parent. If you are a parent, you may
recognise times where you have led your children into revelations, about
yourself, or about themselves. Then you can glimpse a bit of seeing through
God's eyes in these "instances of [seeming] responsiveness to humanity."
By the way, God's interaction with Abraham was to reveal and demonstrate
God's justice and righteousness in pronouncing judgment on Sodom and
Gamorrah. By wiping out the cities without this interaction, Abraham
(through the child's eyes) might think God was a monster, wiping out
the righteous with the unrighteous. God demonstrated that He would
not do this, but because Sodom became so wicked, it demanded a righteous
judgement on the city.
Mark
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705.6 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Mar 29 1995 11:35 | 12 |
| God is omniscent in that he knows all that he can know.
God gave to humanity true human freedom. True human freedom means that
the outcome of the human decision cannot be known until the decision is
made.
God is responsive to humanities freedom of action.
To say that God knows what has not been yet decided is to say that God
can create a rock to heavy for him to pick up!
Patricia
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705.7 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Go Hogs! | Wed Mar 29 1995 11:46 | 18 |
| re: .6
That is not scriptural. Scripture states clearly that God's ways are
not our ways, that He is outside of our linear time, and that he is not
confined to our reality.
There are certainly things that to us, seem to contradict each other.
For instance, predestination and free will. In our limited logic,
these two cannot coexist, yet they do according to the Bible. Is God a
liar, or are there some things that our logic simply cannot explain and
must be taken on faith?
To try and limit God via our limited logic (like 'God creating
something even He can't move') is not in our best interest. Some
things we cannot understand due to our limited concept of "reality".
-steve
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705.8 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Mar 29 1995 12:02 | 12 |
| And Jesus also says, that unless we are like little children we will
never inherit the kingdom of heaven!
We can read the story of the Syrophoenician Women in its simplicity.
We don't need to make up duplicity or anything else.
Jesus was weary and tired and he responded out of his weariness. The
women reminded him of her value even as a non Jew. He recognized her
great faith even as a non Jew and responded to that faith.
The story is a lot more simple without all the Platonic Philosophy
anchored to it.
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705.9 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Mar 29 1995 12:13 | 9 |
| Use concentric rings of context, Patricia.
> The story is a lot more simple without all the Platonic Philosophy
> anchored to it.
Focusing on a pixel on your screen might cause you to think
the whole screen is one color.
Mark
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705.10 | | ICTHUS::YUILLE | He must increase - I must decrease | Wed Mar 29 1995 12:21 | 111 |
| Hello Patricia! Thanks for the your thoughts here. My perception is
rather different, so I hope you don't mind an alternative view!
[ in the time it took me to enter, I see there's been a bunch more entries
- so here's another ;-]
The relative ordering of the gospels, I don't see as an important issue,
though I understood that recent scholarship (last few years) had moved to
put Mark as a later record. You prefer to stay with the earlier view of
this. ok with me!
The more significant aspect is the meaning of the texts considered. I
thought we had looked at these in this conference not so very long ago.
Ah! I located the discussion in 469.*. It is also refered to in 559.10,
which discusses only the lady's nationality. As the relevant point, I'm
pulling in a part of my reply from 469.5.
=======================================================
Do you see how the woman addressed Jesus - from Matthew 15:22? She called
him "Son of David". A specifically Jewish title. She was not a Jew, and
was effectively saying :
"As You are *their* holy person, will you do something for me?
- can your power extend beyond the borders of Judaism?"
Now if Jesus was an ordinary man, whose primary mission on earth was, say,
just to help individuals living around him to have an easier life, this
wouldn't have mattered. He could have said :
"Sure! Consider it done!"
- and it would have been done!
However, Jesus wanted to draw a greater faith out from her, to realise that
He could be *her* Lord. The 'worship' evoked in verse 25 isn't to gratify
delusions of grandeur (Hey, how *could* God have that - He already *is* the
ultimate... ;-) - the worship is so that she can receive the greater
blessing. No - the GREATEST blessing. Jesus cared enough for her to spend
that little time with her to give, not just a temporal / physical blessing,
but - to give a glimpse of what He really came for - the ultimate way to
the glory of God....
=======================================================
Now to your points :
� First of all it is the only instance in the Bible that I recall when
� someone successfully morally challenges Jesus.
I rather see this as a challenge that she rose to, and passed with flying
colours. As He saw she could (John 2:25 "...He knew what was in a man"
� The woman asks for help. Jesus says no,
Can you point to where Jesus explicitly says initially that He will not
help her? He tells her His priority, and she accepts this and still
requests His blessing.
I think that Jesus was as delighted with this womans response as He was
with the centurion of Matthew 8:5-10.
� Even Jesus responded to her Faith and her sense of moral justice.
To her faith, certainly.... !
� Jesus for me saves by being a role model.
This is not the way the Bible indicates how Jesus saves. But perhaps we
have a different understanding of 'being saved'. 'Saving' is generally
'from' something. In this case the wrath of God (eg Romans 5:8-9, where we
are told that Jesus Christ died to save us from God's wrath, while we were
still sinners). This salvation is from a 'wrath', into eternal life. ie,
it has a dimension and perfection which takes us into God's presence for
eternity. Such a change doesn't need just a role model, but a radical
change of nature. More than that; it needs total erasure of an
imperfection built into our very nature. That goes beyond us following an
example. In fact, it takes it way out of our reach. But it doesn't take
it our of God's reach. That's why Christianity has no good news if Jesus
isn't God as well as man. It had to be God, to achieve such a feat on our
behalf. It had to be Man to stand in our place fully and take our guilt.
Jesus was both, and did both.
� Some people need Jesus to be infallible to portray Divinity.
Exactly. I neither accept nor worship a fallible god. The evidence of
creation (for a start) tells me that the One Who conceived and made this
environment was loving, glorious, pure and holy beyond mortal imagination.
� This passage shows that the Divine is present in each one of us
Now there, I have to pick a bone ;-) Where does the passage say that?
I know that your interpretation would find it in the syrophoenician woman,
but even if I accepted that (which I don't ;-), there is no implication
that it extrapolates to all mankind.
However, there is a sense in which I would say that the Divine is present
in us. That is in the image in which we are created. Each of us is made
in the image of God, as is clear from Genesis 1:26,:27, 9:6, James 3:9
We have been given that image, and we have the responsibility of using that
image with honour, to honour Him.
� To say that God knows what has not been yet decided is to say that God
� can create a rock to heavy for him to pick up!
That one has been discussed at length before too... But who defines what
has or has not been decided? Matthew 24:36 indicates that God the Father
knows the precise timing of the end of the world; knowledge which Jesus set
aside when He came to earth. Ephesians 1:4 tells us that God chose us to
be saved before the creation of the world. What is left undecided? If
anyone wants to pursue this one, I'll look up the relevant note number
again, but I really think it was hammered out rather thoroughly ;-)
God bless
Andrew
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705.11 | | OUTSRC::HEISER | Hoshia Nah,Baruch Haba B'shem Adonai | Wed Mar 29 1995 12:22 | 2 |
| how do you know Jesus wasn't testing her so that she would step out in
faith?
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705.12 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Mar 29 1995 12:23 | 5 |
| I think I will focus on Jesus' simple message to love God with all
one's heart, soul, and mind, and to love one's neighbor as oneself.
A pixel, perhaps even well worth focusing on!
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705.13 | Cross posted since ths applies to both notes | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Mar 29 1995 12:24 | 28 |
| More on the Pharisees. (Cf. 45.46) Jesus used His most strong language
against the Pharisees because of all people they knew the Scriptures and deliberately
attempted to hinder the coming of God's kingdom. Thouhg not a Pharisee,
Herod epitomizes this attitude by searching the Scriptures to ascertain
where and when the Promised Child was to be born and plotted to kill the
child in a vain attempt to secure his throne.
This is not ignorance, but cunning. Jesus had patience with ignorance.
He spoke with Nicodemus who came to ask Jesus questions. In another note,
we are talking about exchanges between God and humanity where God asks
questions as if He doesn't know the answer, but any good teacher knows that
the best learned knowledge is discovered through revelation rather than
by dictum or lecture. And teachers often employ a method of asking
questions - even when they are tired (as if this would catch someone
off guard; yes, Jesus got tired, but it didn't change His Godhood or
His ability to teach in this manner).
Jesus employed this method with the woman at the well. And He was tired
and thirsty at the time. It drew the person into the discussion and
revelation and it also taught the disciples as it teaches us to this
day through its demonstration.
The Syrophoenician woman (705.*) who was healed because of her faithand
Jesus was demonstrating that by this, it doesn't matter if you are a
Jew or a Gentile, EVEN THOUGH Jesus came to the world through Israel.
The essential element is faith.
Mark
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705.14 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Mar 29 1995 13:17 | 15 |
| Andrew,
Thanks for your response. Although we have a lot of disagreements in
our theologies, it is a pleasure reading your note. I'm sure we can
discuss some of differences you raise as time goes on and in other
notes.
How Jesus saves is a good one.
All
Although we disagree on some of the interpretation of the story, isn't
it a wonderful story.
Patricia
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705.15 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Mar 29 1995 13:19 | 6 |
| Andrew,
the incarnation of the divine in each of us is another one that I will
have to do some research on.
Patricia
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705.16 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Mar 29 1995 13:36 | 12 |
| > I think I will focus on Jesus' simple message to love God with all
> one's heart, soul, and mind, and to love one's neighbor as oneself.
>
> A pixel, perhaps even well worth focusing on!
This verse isn't a pixel, Patricia. Jesus said that on this the whole
of the law and prophets hinged. It is an all-encompassing endeavor.
And remember that "God is a rewarder of those who *diligently* seek
Him." We have to seek God and know who He is to love him with all
of our heart, soul, mind, and strength.
Mark
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705.18 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Mar 29 1995 13:44 | 32 |
| Other women in the Bible:
Eve
Sarah
Ruth
Naomi
Esther
Jael
Michal
Dinah
Bathsheba
Jezebel
Mary (Jesus' mother)
Mary Magdalene
Priscilla
Woman at the well
Rahab
Mary (Martha's Sister)
Martha (Mary's Sister)
Woman caught in adultery
Salome
Delilah
Rachel
Leah
Rebecca
This is from memory. What is shows to me is that there are good, bad, and
ugly on boths sides of the gender gap. I hope we can look at each of these
people in the light that Scripture casts them. In other words, let's
endeavor to cast off the filters.
Mark
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705.19 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Mar 29 1995 13:48 | 15 |
| > How about some other great women in the Bible and their significant
Notes clash, Mike. :-)
> Jesus shows the Old Covenant is invalid by deliberately
> talking to her.
I would not use the word "invalid" because Jesus never invalidates the
old covenant, but shows that the old covenant is a shadow of the
reality to come. When Jesus came, he fulfilled the law and never
negated (or invalidated) it. Instead, he supercharged the law by
writing the law on our hearts instead of on tablets of stone and scrolls
of paper.
Mark
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705.20 | | OUTSRC::HEISER | Hoshia Nah,Baruch Haba B'shem Adonai | Wed Mar 29 1995 13:50 | 4 |
| Maybe "invalid" is a poor choice of words. Hebrews 8:13 says the Law
is "obsolete."
Mike
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705.22 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Mar 29 1995 14:29 | 6 |
| Mike, I wouldn't use "obsolete" either. How about unfulfilled?
Patricia, I have a problem with some of 3, 4, some of 5, 6, 7, and some of 8.
But I don't have a problem with you.
Mark
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705.24 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Go Hogs! | Wed Mar 29 1995 14:34 | 5 |
| re: .14
Yes, I agree with you here. It is a wonderful story.
-steve
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705.42 | | MTHALE::JOHNSON | Leslie Ann Johnson | Wed Mar 29 1995 19:37 | 5 |
| Interesting note, but its late & I'm hungry and I want to go home, so
I've jotted the note number down for another time when I 've got more
time.
Leslie
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705.43 | The annointing at Bethaney | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Thu Mar 30 1995 08:24 | 32 |
|
The Anointing at Bethany
Mark 14:3-9
"While he was at Bethany in the house of Simon the leper, as he sat at
the table, a woman came with an alabaster jar of very costly ointment
of nard, and she broke open the jar and poured the ointment on his
head. But some were there who said to one another in anger, "Why was
the ointment wasted in this way? For this ointment could have been
sold for more than three hundred denarii, and the money given to the
poor.� And they scolded her. But Jesus said, "Let her alone; why do
you trouble her? She has per formed a good service for me. For you
always have the poor with you, and you can show kindness to them
whenever you wish; but you will not always have me. She has done what
she could; She has anointed my body beforehand for its burial. Truly
I tell you , whenever the good news is proclaimed in the whole world,
what she has done will be told in remembrance of her."
In remmbrance of the women, without a name!
Perhaps the first disciple to truly understand the Messianic secret.
First to annoint Jesus as the messiah, and first of the disciples to
fully understand how Jesus had redefined what it means to be a messiah.
The annointing of the Messiah was the annointing for his burial. The
Messiah comes to serve and pursuade, rather than to lead and to
coherce.
Patricia
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705.44 | | ICTHUS::YUILLE | He must increase - I must decrease | Thu Mar 30 1995 10:11 | 68 |
| I haven't caught up on the preceding entries to this note - being in a
different time zone, etc... But I do find the event referred to in 705.43
particularly interesting.
� The Messiah comes to serve and persuade, rather than to lead and to coerce.
This I do agree with as a wonderful revelation of Who Jesus was, though I
would probably use 'drive' rather than 'lead', and would prefer to use
attract, rather than persuade, though even that doesn't have quite the
force I want either. Drawing through an irresistable love, where only the
utterly selfish and stony hearted can resist the irresistable... 'Entice'
nearly gets it, but has bad overtones which are inappropriate.
This is also recorded in Matthew 26:2-16, and in John 12:1-8. This last
passage shows that the house of 'Simon the Leper' was also where Jesus'
particular friends, Martha, Mary and Lazarus lived, and the dinner was
given in honour of Jesus - the implication is that it was in recognition of
the raising of the brother, Lazarus from the dead, as recorded in John 11.
In John 12:3, it indicates that Mary was the one who performed this
memorable act. My assumption is that on this occasion both head and feet
were anointed, Matthew and Mark focussing on the head being anointed, and
John on the feet being anointed, in accordance with the specific emphases
of these gospels.
The focus on this being the home of Martha, Mary and Lazarus is natural, in
that they have been mentioned before, when Jesus visited their house.
However it would appear that the master of the house (presumably their
father) was 'Simon the Leper'. If he were still a leper, he would not be
permitted to mix in society, and the house would probably be known
exclusively as the dwelling of Martha, Mary and Lazarus. I only know of
one person around at that time who was able to bring the outcast leper back
into the heart of his family, and of society in general. My own
opinion is that this family had at least two very big personal reasons to
welcome Jesus into their home, though presumably the raising of Lazarus, as
the recent event, was that being honoured on this occasion.
In contrast is the event in Luke 7:36-50, where a similar anointing occurs,
but in the house of Simon the Pharisee, someone who most certainly did not
worship the LORD Jesus, but rested his pride in his own supposed
righteousness, reflected physically in his worldly wealth. He thought
himself worth more at any valuation than the woman who did this anointing -
she had a deservedly bad reputation. On this occasion, Jesus told a
parable which thinly veiled their positions - demonstrating that the woman's
action was evidence of a very real repentance, acceptable to God, and
brought her into forgiveness of sin, while the self-righteous pharisee,
who apparently had not even realised his need for forgiveness, could not
be bothered to show common courtesy to One he considered beneath him (in
that he did not arrange for Jesus' feet to be washed on entry).
There is another 'Simon' loosely associated with the anointing recorded in
Matthew, Mark and John. The abundant generosity of the love poured out by
Mary triggered revulsion in the heart of someone who was to play a key part
on the events of the next week. This was Judas, the son of (another) Simon.
Imagine what it must have been like to have lived at the time of Jesus, and
around the same district.... The impossible, half heard rumours, the
outlandish claims; then the glimpse of of a well body previously *known* to
be impossibly crippled. Who wouldn't put their business on hold, to go and
find out more? Then - to drink in His words, watch in amazement as He
repaired broken bodies, opened sealed eyes, remade lives wasted from sin,
banished demons.... But so much more than that - the integrity of
character that led the lowest of the low, the vulgar, unclean, rejected, to
come to Him and see their foulness shrivel away in the conviction of His
presence, without tainting what He was... The sort of thing for which we
hunger and thirst, yet are toally unable to even start to do for ourselves.
And He has made it available to us all through his death....
Thank You LORD....
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705.45 | missing notes -> 708, Patriarchy | ICTHUS::YUILLE | He must increase - I must decrease | Thu Mar 30 1995 12:44 | 5 |
| Earlier notes in this string have been moved to a new topic, 708,
on Patriarchy, which they were moved to discuss.
Andrew
co-mod
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705.46 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Apr 05 1995 10:13 | 58 |
|
A Woman Healed
(Mark 5:21-34)
When Jesus had crossed again in the boat to the other side, a great
crowd gathered around him: and he was by the sea. Then one of the
leaders of the synagogue named Jairus came and when he saw him, fell at
his feet and begged him repeatedly, "My l ittle daughter is at the
point of death. Come and lay your hands on her, so that she may be
made well, and live." So he went with him.
And a large crowd followed him and pressed in on him. Now there was a
woman who had been suffering from hemorrhages sfor twelve years. She
had endured much under many physicians, and had spent all that she had;
and she was no better, but rather g rew worse. She had heard about
Jesus and came up behind him in the crowd and touched his cloak, for
she said, "If I but touch his clothes, I will be made well.:
Immediately her hemorrhage stopped; and she felt in her body that she
was healed of her di sease. Immediately aware that power had gone
forth from him Jesus turned about in the crowd and said, "Who touched
my clothes?" And his disciples said to him, "You see the crowd
pressing in on you; how can you say, "Who touched me?'" He looked all
a round to see who had done it. But the woman, knowing what had
happened to her, came in fear and trembling, fell down before him and
told him the whole truth. He said to her, "Daugher, your faith has
made you well; go in peace and be healed of your disease."
End Scripture
Yes, Jesus was truly a radical Feminist. He came and redefined all
the traditional rules even those rules that made women somehow less
than men.
According to ritual Purity laws, women were considered unclean at the
time of menstruation and after childbirth. Men were also considered
unclean after having sex with women. It was forbidden to touch a woman
during her times of impurity.
Hemorhaging for twelve years, this woman was an outcast. perpetually
unclean. Jesus has no concern whatsoever that this woman by touching
him in her time of impurity had violated one of the cultural taboos of
womanhood. What was evident to Jesus was this woman's tremendous
faith.
"Daughter, your faith has made you well; go in peace and be healed of
your disease."
These are words of inspiration from Jesus of Nazareth which each of us
can hold with us, now and always.
"Daughter, your faith has made you well!"
Patricia
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705.47 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Apr 05 1995 10:25 | 10 |
|
Jesus a radical feminist?
Jim
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705.48 | | 43755::YUILLE | He must increase - I must decrease | Wed Apr 05 1995 10:36 | 40 |
| Hi Patricia,
Good note. Jesus certainly cut across all the taboos which made one class
of person out to be superior to another. He touched lepers and made them
whole; the pharisees looked down on Him because He associated with
collaborators with the enemy (tax collectors for the Roman occupation), and
prostitutes.
The law prevented the spreading of disease, etc. Jesus, as the perfect
Creator, was not susceptible to disease or infection, either of the body or
of the spirit. In fact, those which approached Him were healed...
The one sentence I would query (there had to be one ;-) is :
� Yes, Jesus was truly a radical Feminist.
As I understand it, the expression 'radical Feminist' of today has a
radically different significance from the quality represented in the
passage you quote.
Now I may well not understand what 'radical Feminist' means, as a
conviction, stance or movement, and rely on you to clarify thisif I am in
error here, but my impression is that 'radical Feminism' holds the view
that men and women should occupy the same roles and functions in society.
It often gives the impression (to me) of regarding 'female' as 'superior',
but I think that this is probably just a reaction to the erronious opposite
view which has prevailed in some circles.
Now the practical teaching of Jesus in this area was certainly radical. He
demonstrated that women are an essential functional portion of the image of
God on earth. However, Jesus did not deny that they have a personal and
unique role in creation, distinct from that occupied by men. That is where
I see His teaching being very different from today's 'radical Feminism'.
I also find it interesting that the woman had been suffering from
hemorrhages for twelve years, and the little girl that Jesus was on the way
to heal was twelve years of age. All her life, this woman had been
suffering, and Jesus was to touch them both with new life on the same day...
God bless
Andrew
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705.49 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Apr 05 1995 10:39 | 18 |
| Depends on your definition of feminism, Jim.
Most modes of feminism are as much bigotry as chauvinism. But there
are some aspects of feminism that can be embraced, just as there are
platforms of the opposite political party that one can embrace, but
not vote for that candidate in a presidential election.
In my definition, Jesus was no radical feminist. (A nit: men were not
unclean only by having sex with a woman, but by their emission - a woman
didn't have to be in the equation.)
Jesus did, however, step out of the cultural norms by speaking with
a Samaritan woman, and this woman who was "diseased." Jesus healed
lepers, too. Jesus was radical. I would come up short with the idea
that he was a feminist, but would eagerly embrace the idea that Jesus
treated women in the manner that is an example for us all to emulate.
Mark
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705.50 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Apr 05 1995 11:16 | 34 |
| The vast majority of the writing on feminism deals with the elimination
of hierarchical thinking and not the changing of the hierarchy.
Feminists believe that all persons are equal and should be treated
equally. Most of the writings I read acknowledge that men are being
oppressed at the exact same time that women are being oppressed. It is
oppressing to men when they are expected to be the 100% breadwinners of
the family. It is oppressing to men, when they are treated as failures
when they cannot support their family in the manner which society deems
necessary. It is oppressing to men when they are denied the equal
ability to bond with their children. The cultural taboos and rules
that asign roles to women and men in fact oppress both women and men.
The feminism in which I am involved means standing up for the rights of
all women and all men regardless of race, religion, gender, sexual
orientation, social status, family wealth, etc. This is to me what
Radical feminism is about.
What I have learned and experienced is that once I understood the
nature of oppression, then my efforts to eliminate oppression involve
the elimination of all oppression and not just the specific example.
What is amazing about the Gospels stories is not the instances in which
the stories parallel the traditional cultural beliefs about the roles
of women and men in 1st century society. What is truly amazing is the
degree to which Jesus eradicates these traditional cultural beliefs.
Given the radical direction Jesus began 2000 years it is not difficult
to extrapolate where the Living Christ stands today regarding the
equality of all people.
Andrew,
I will be entering the related story of the healing of the young
daughter. It is deeply related to the healing of the older woman.
Patricia
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705.51 | | 43755::YUILLE | He must increase - I must decrease | Wed Apr 05 1995 11:29 | 10 |
| � The vast majority of the writing on feminism deals with the elimination
� of hierarchical thinking and not the changing of the hierarchy.
I often get an impression that feminism represents a reversal of the
hierarchy, but that is an observation of behaviour, rather than of
principle. However the point I was making earlier was that feminism does
not merely appear to eliminate hierarchy; it would seem to ignore or
obscure the individuality, distinction and quality of the different sexes.
Andrew
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705.52 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Apr 05 1995 11:34 | 38 |
| The gospel of Jesus Christ is to salvation. The example and ministry of
Christ is to selflessness. If one follows God's hierarchy which is
God->others->yourself, then the problems of man's hierarchy are
eliminated.
The goals of equality attempt to equalize things that were never meant to
me "equal" but instead *complementary*. Equality among complementary facets
is counterproductive in society.
The problem with complementary facets is that some people deem one facet
as more important than another, hence the reaction to make all things
"equal."
The word perfect can mean flawless, or it can mean "fit for the purpose it
was intended to perform." A screwdriver can open a can of paint just fine,
but when it turns a screw that fits the head of the screwdriver, it is
performing perfectly. Another flat piece of metal can open up the
same can of paint, and the screw driver and piece of metal are equals
for that task. But the fact remains that the screw driver has capabilities
that a piece of metal may not, and vice versa. This is where complementary
facets come into play.
The amelioration of the inequities that are caused by someone thinking
more of themself than they ought is a noble endeavor. However, the
evening of disparate qualities for the sake of equality does a disservice
to the individual and therefore to all of society.
In Christ, we should not "think more highly of ourselves than we ought"
but consider ourselves in light of how God has made us and for what
purpose. When we fulfill that purpose, we are perfect (up to the
specifications needed to accomplish the purpose).
And so while we can show that doing something different is neither better
nor worse than something else, neither is it cause to become "equals"
when equality is worse that being perfectly suited for our purposes in
life.
Mark
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705.53 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Apr 05 1995 12:03 | 44 |
| Mark,
Your argument is one in which Feminist thinkers have particular concern
because the Over Developed EGo seems to be a male problem and not so
much a female problem. With women the bigger problem is often the lack
of self esteem. Men may be convinced that they can do anything on
there own while all to often too many women do not feel they can
adequately do anything on there own. There the message for a person to
think less of their personal achievements and more about what they can
contribute to the whole will mean something radically different to men
and to women. Women have traditionally found their self worth in
contributing to others often at the expense of their own selves. There
contribution has often been to their children and their husbands. Men
have more often found there self worth in pursuits outside the home
often at the expense of their wives and their children.
Many Feminists believe that the containment of the Individualized Ego
is a message mainly for men and it leads to a worsen state when applied
to women who may not have a highly individualized Ego. That is why men
and women need to read the Bible differently. The messages in the
Bible that Jesus gave to the Pharisees, to the tax collectors, to the
male disciples where different than the messages he gave to the various
women.
YOu and other men in here insist that Jesus wanted men and women to be
radically different. I believe that the message clearly there is that
he wanted women and men to be more alike.
Men and women are different mainly in physical strenghth and in woman's
unique ability to birth children. with the average american family
producing two children, it takes 18 months of pregancy and perhaps
another 2 years of breast feeding to accomplish those tasks which are
uniquely female tasks. that is 3 1/2 years out of the average life
expectancy of 80 years for a women. Even in that 3 1/2 years that a
women is specializing in the procreation tasks, that women can also
participate in almost every other aspect of modern life. Men who would
have women subordinated to them, put far too much emphasis on the
unique role of women. Instead of this unique contribution that only
women can make becoming an asset, it is used against women to keep them
out of all kinds of roles that have nothing whatsoever to do with
gender. Keeping women from any vocation to which God calls that women
is evil. It prevents a human being from responding to God's call.
Patricia
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705.54 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Apr 05 1995 12:37 | 91 |
| > Your argument is one in which Feminist thinkers have particular concern
> because the Over Developed EGo seems to be a male problem and not so
> much a female problem.
I had a manager once who wrote that women make better managers because
they are mothers. I think that females don't have an over-developed ego
is fallacious.
>With women the bigger problem is often the lack of self esteem.
I agree with this, but it is also true of men. Men may behave differently
than women, but consider that an over-developed ego and low-self-esteem
are two sides of the same coin: self focus.
There is still the argument as to what is culture conditioning of roles
and what is inante to the species. We know that studies show girls playing
games with no winner or loser (jumping rope, for example) and boys playing
games with clear cut rules of engagement with winners and losers. Is this
primarily a conditioning of culture or something inate? Or, perhaps
conditioning over the millenia causes indistinguishable cues that are
only seen as inante behavior?
> The messages in the
> Bible that Jesus gave to the Pharisees, to the tax collectors, to the
> male disciples where different than the messages he gave to the various
> women.
Careful. The method was different but the message was always the same.
What was the message? "You are in a wrong relationship with God and I
provide a way to right relationship with God." There are many different
ways to have this presented, as Jesus did, but it is always the same
message.
> YOu and other men in here insist that Jesus wanted men and women to be
> radically different. I believe that the message clearly there is that
> he wanted women and men to be more alike.
I don't think you've heard the message then.
More alike in what ways? Different in what ways?
Can we be alike in some ways and different in others? I think so, but
the other questions and answers that determine what things are appropriate
differences and similarities are the important ones.
> Men and women are different mainly in physical strenghth and in woman's
> unique ability to birth children.
...and man's unique ability to fertilize the egg.
>Men who would
> have women subordinated to them, put far too much emphasis on the
> unique role of women.
Perhaps this is true.
> Instead of this unique contribution that only
> women can make becoming an asset, it is used against women to keep them
> out of all kinds of roles that have nothing whatsoever to do with
> gender. Keeping women from any vocation to which God calls that women
> is evil. It prevents a human being from responding to God's call.
It is used... is a sweeping generalization. In the Christian notes conference,
all "truths" are measured by His Truth. Jesus, as you have asserted, did not
use it against women.
The trouble is taking the "using the unique ability" approach and applying
it to "any vocation" by which I am guessing you mean female priests? The
Church of the Nazarene permits female Pastors (and one is featured in note
703.*). And unless you equate association with the Roman Catholic organization
to Christianity (and I know some do... and some RCs dont!), I can see how this
might stick in the craw of a woman who feels a call to be a priest.
However, there is a royal priesthood for all the saints. Just as marriage
is not a function of an official service, this priesthood we share
with Christ is not a function of office. Let me be quick to add that
I think there is something to the office, but for most people the office
has become a greater focus than the responsibility of being preist.
We are not all clergy, but we are all [supposed to be] ministers to
one another.
We can grant forgiveness, bind things, and loose things.
Mark
As for RC women preists, the options are as follows:
(1) accept the RC views
(2) continue to fight them and cause strife and division
(3) separate from the church to pursue what you believe is truth
- that's how protestanism started
- it's also how heresy can be easily introduced
(not an invitation to start a doctrinal war, folks).
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705.55 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Apr 05 1995 12:50 | 23 |
| I wanted to clip this out to give it a more focused attention:
> YOu and other men in here insist that Jesus wanted men and women to be
> radically different. I believe that the message clearly there is that
> he wanted women and men to be more alike.
Can we be alike in some ways and different in others? I think so, but
the other questions and answers that determine what things are appropriate
differences and similarities are the important ones.
More alike in what ways?
Different in what ways?
The answers to these question varies from person to person, yet it
is the answers that determine whether "equal" is fair and right or
unfair and inefficient; that determine whether "complementary" is
fair and right ot unfair and ineffective.
Mark
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705.56 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Apr 05 1995 12:51 | 12 |
| Mark,
I believe that God calls each of us to a vocation regardless of whether
that be professional ministry or not. God calls each of us to be the
best we can be.
Any manmade rules that keep persons from being the best they can be,
is oppression.
{atrocoa
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705.57 | one of my favorite events | OUTSRC::HEISER | next year in Jerusalem! | Wed Apr 05 1995 13:20 | 28 |
| Re: Hemorrhaging Woman
I'd like to interject something else about the cultural significance of
that event. She reached out and grabbed the tassle of Christ's tallit
(prayer shawl) when she was healed.
This tallit was prescribed by God in Numbers 15:37-41. There are many
types and symbols pointing to God in the tallit, but I'll just mention
a couple that deal with this event. In the original Hebrew of Numbers
15:38, it says, "...and He will be to you as a tassel, and you will see
*HIM*, so you will remember" rather than "you will see it." Couple
this with Malachi 4:2 "...to those who fear His name, the Son of
Righteousness will arise with healing in His wings; and you shall go out
and grow fat like a stall fed calf." If you've ever seen one being
worn, it is obvious why the tallit is often referred to as "wings" in
the Bible (numerous references available upon request).
As a young girl, she was well taught in all of the Messianic symbols.
I'm confident that she was fully aware of Numbers 15:37-41 and Malachi
4:2. She wasn't just reaching out in desperation alone. She *knew*
Jesus was the Messiah from all her learning as a youngster. It was
this faith in Jesus as the Messiah that healed her.
Another interesting event related to women and the tallit is how Ruth
proposed to Boaz using his tallit, but maybe another time if anyone is
interested. It's very romantic!
Mike
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705.58 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Apr 05 1995 13:36 | 8 |
| > {atrocoa
Nasty typo, there, Patricia. ;-)
> Any man-made rules that keep persons from being the best they can be,
> is oppression.
I think I agree with this! :-)
|
705.59 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Apr 05 1995 13:39 | 6 |
| > As a young girl, she was well taught in all of the Messianic symbols.
Yes, I understand the Jewish girls were educated, despite fulfilling
different roles than their male counterparts.
MM
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705.60 | both boys and girls | OUTSRC::HEISER | next year in Jerusalem! | Wed Apr 05 1995 13:44 | 5 |
| Correct, Mark. The instructions for Israel in Deuteronomy 6 (as well
as other passages), including the Sh'ma in verse 4, was for the
*children* to be taught all things concerning the Lord.
Mike
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705.61 | | CSOA1::LEECH | Go Hogs! | Wed Apr 05 1995 13:53 | 12 |
| re: .53
Physical strength and birthing are only the beginning of the
differences between men and women. It is shown that men and women
think on different levels (which not coincidentally, complement each
other).
The radical feminist movement is trying to blur all distinctions, which
cannot be good for society, IMO.
-steve
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705.62 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Apr 05 1995 14:21 | 21 |
| > The radical feminist movement is trying to blur all distinctions, which
> cannot be good for society, IMO.
I would rather say that some elements of the radical feminist movements
are attempting to blur the distinctions perhaps out of ignorance of those
distinctions or ignorance of how the distinctions are complementary instead
of superior/inferior. We are right to destroy misconceptions surrounding
areas of dominance and submission and promote the proper perspectives
surrounding the strengths and weakness of each gender. Trouble is that
few have been able to define what differences are good (and complementary)
and what differences are bad (which leads to oppression).
When we come to the table suspecting one another, we will accomplish
little. But if we get down to some basic fundamentals of definition,
we can build a better understanding. Ultimately, it will be borne out
that the Biblical model apart from the projections onto it will show itself
to be the most fair, the most complimentary and complementary, the most
effective, the most efficient, and the most valuing of the human being.
But I'm willing to rediscover this from the Word of God every time.
mark
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705.63 | | POWDML::FLANAGAN | I feel therefore I am | Wed Apr 05 1995 14:27 | 9 |
| re .61
Can you explain for me how you think women and men think differently?
I wouldn't want to take your statement out of context!
Patricia
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705.64 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Apr 05 1995 14:35 | 28 |
| Dunno about thinking but brain studies who that brains develop
differently. For example, Women duplicate certain processes in
both hemispheres and men seem to specialize in one hemisphere or
the other (not better or worse, but different).
This has a curious result in a man and a woman who have a stroke
(on the left? side) of the brain. (wherever the speech center is
located) In men, they have a very difficult recovery rate of speech;
almost nil. In women, they have a pretty good chance of recovering
speech. Why? Because of the duplication in both hemispheres;
sort of like a backup!
However, there is a trade off for both. Men seem to have better spatial
relations than do women (in general). But since men don't "backup" on
both hemispheres (generally speaking only), if they lose the data they
are in more trouble. Anyone familiar with "volume shadowing" knows that
the down side to duplication is duplication - crowding out room for
other things. I'm not impressed by this argument since they estimate
we don't use our brain capacities anyway.
I do not think, for example, that women are incapable of thinking
with the best men thinkers. However, these brain studies still
seem to indicate that the XX combination has many subtle differences
from the XY combination; many differences we may never fully grasp.
The Bible says that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. I'll buy that!
Mark
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705.65 | :-) | CSC32::KINSELLA | | Wed Apr 05 1995 14:40 | 9 |
|
RE: .56
> Any manmade rules that keep persons from being the best they can be,
> is oppression.
I assume that goes for womanmade rules as well. ;^)
Jill
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705.66 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Friend will you be ready? | Wed Apr 05 1995 14:43 | 4 |
|
:-)
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705.67 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Apr 05 1995 14:49 | 2 |
| Jael,
Miles of smiles.
|
705.68 | Expound. | TRLIAN::POLAND | | Wed Apr 05 1995 15:06 | 10 |
|
OUTSRC::HEISER "next year in Jerusalem!"
>> Another interesting event related to women and the tallit is how Ruth
>>proposed to Boaz using his tallit, but maybe another time if anyone is
>> interested. It's very romantic!
Proceed please.
|
705.69 | Is that what you meant? | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Wed Apr 05 1995 18:11 | 14 |
| >Your argument is one in which Feminist thinkers have particular concern
>because the Over Developed EGo seems to be a male problem and not
>so much a female problem. With women the bigger problem is often the
>lack of self esteem.
I think I agree with you on this to a point. However, I believe if I'd
said this in another conference, I'd been eaten alive for sexism. :-)
In reality people male and female have problems in both areas. And to
base all feminism points of view on this argument lends towards
superiority wars versus true equality, imo.
Nancy
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705.70 | My wife is a Proverbs 31 woman! | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Wed Apr 05 1995 19:11 | 9 |
| My wife said at dinner that men and women do think differently.
She said that men think in pictures and women think in words.
Men insist on a picture representing a thousand words; women
insist on speaking all 1,000 words. (Her words, not mine.) ;-)
Seriously, though, she emphasized speaking in picture words (for both
sexes), such as Nathan's analogy to King David and Jesus' many parables.
Mark
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705.71 | | TRLIAN::POLAND | | Thu Apr 06 1995 09:36 | 3 |
|
:')
|
705.72 | "Joy" is in the Bible a lot! :-) | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Thu Apr 06 1995 10:20 | 50 |
| I read this to my wife one night substituting the third person for the
second person. "Who can find a virtuous woman? *your* price is far
above rubies. I do trust in you, so that I have no need of spoil.
You do me good and not evil all the days of your life...."
Husbands, try it some night. And don't let your wife's low self esteem
stop you! Ask her to allow you to love her with these words.
Mark
Proverbs 31:10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above
rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have
no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household,
and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she
planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by
night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her
hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household
are clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and
purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of
the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the
merchant.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to
come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of
kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread
of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he
praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the
LORD, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in
the gates.
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705.73 | Children do teach | JULIET::MORALES_NA | Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze | Thu Apr 06 1995 13:31 | 23 |
| Amen!!!
Absolutely, I have to admit as a woman who has suffered low self
esteem, the HARDEST thing was when one kind man wanted to love me with
his words. I couldn't receive them. This rejection created an
insecurity in the relationship that was never repaired and was a great
loss to me.
Women, listen to what Mark says...don't have false humility when
complimented. Receive it... My son Clayton taught me this last night.
I've been under a lot of pressure with work and other things and the
tension had begun to show in my face. Clayton said Mom I want to give
you a massage on your shoulders. And I said son No its late don't do
it, it's okay. I felt guilty for my son to "give" to me, when I should
have offered his poor tired baseball body the massage.
He got big tears in his eyes and he said this,
"Mom, it makes me feel really good inside when I can give to you.
Please don't take that away from me."
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705.74 | | PAULKM::WEISS | For I am determined to know nothing, except... | Thu Apr 06 1995 13:48 | 5 |
| > He got big tears in his eyes and he said this,
Me, too.
:-)
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705.75 | You will both be blessed | GAVEL::MOSSEY | | Thu Apr 06 1995 14:22 | 9 |
| re: .73
That's precious, Nancy. It's wonderful that your son is so "aware" of
these things at his age.
It reminds me of "It is better to give than to receive..."
...it's harder to be on the receiving end.
Karen
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705.76 | | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Thu Apr 06 1995 14:26 | 4 |
| My dad told me that to refuse to receive is to rob the giver of
the blessing. Don't rob people!
Mark
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705.77 | who said serving God isn't romantic?! | OUTSRC::HEISER | next year in Jerusalem! | Thu Apr 06 1995 15:02 | 1 |
| I read Proverbs 31 to my wife under the tallit every Sunday night.
|
705.78 | Psalm 112 - a reciprocal blessing for the man | MTHALE::JOHNSON | A rare blue and gold afternoon | Thu Apr 06 1995 15:35 | 25 |
| In our home, my husband reads Proverbs 31 to me and I read Psalm 112
which begins "Hallelujah, happy is the man who reveres Adonai" to him.
Both of these are reminders of who and how we ought to be. We've been
doing a study on Proverbs 31 in a group fellowship that meets in our
home. We've been using some material which looks at this poem parable
both on a direct or plain meaning level, and as a parable of spiritual
truths. I've been learning quite a bit about faith and behavior as part
of the process of looking a bit deeper at this poem, known as Eshet
Chayil - Woman of Valor.
In Genesis, when Chava is created, she is called an aizer k'negdo.
This is translated helpmeet in some versions, but it really should be
translated as a "parallel power" or "power equal to". The Revised
English Bible, which I enjoy for just reading because it flows so
nicely and elegantly, translates it as a "suitable partner". I think
suitable partner is a good way to put it.
Anyway, that partnership is not simply one of being able to partner in
physical and mental tasks and endeavors, but spiritual ones as well.
Man and woman, wife and husband, both have important and valuable
contributions to make to each other, their families, their communities,
and the world. These contribtutions encompass both the material and the
spiritual realms. It really does take two committed partners to make a
shalom bayit - peaceful home, characterized by wholeness and integrity
rather than strife, dissension, and disfunctionality.
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705.79 | Ref to Psalm 112 expanded | TOKNOW::METCALFE | Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers | Thu Apr 06 1995 15:41 | 20 |
| Psalms 112:1 Praise ye the LORD. Blessed is the man that feareth the LORD,
that delighteth greatly in his commandments.
2 His seed shall be mighty upon earth: the generation of the upright shall
be blessed.
3 Wealth and riches shall be in his house: and his righteousness endureth
for ever.
4 Unto the upright there ariseth light in the darkness: he is gracious, and
full of compassion, and righteous.
5 A good man sheweth favour, and lendeth: he will guide his affairs with
discretion.
6 Surely he shall not be moved for ever: the righteous shall be in
everlasting remembrance.
7 He shall not be afraid of evil tidings: his heart is fixed, trusting in
the LORD.
8 His heart is established, he shall not be afraid, until he see his desire
upon his enemies.
9 He hath dispersed, he hath given to the poor; his righteousness endureth
for ever; his horn shall be exalted with honour.
10 The wicked shall see it, and be grieved; he shall gnash with his teeth,
and melt away: the desire of the wicked shall perish.
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705.80 | like the idea | OUTSRC::HEISER | next year in Jerusalem! | Thu Apr 06 1995 16:47 | 5 |
| Leslie, is Psalm 112 typically read to the man on Shabbat or is that
something started by the Messianics.
thanks,
Mike
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705.81 | Answer to Mike's Question | MTHALE::JOHNSON | A rare blue and gold afternoon | Thu Apr 06 1995 17:32 | 12 |
| Mike,
It is not something started by Messianic Jews. Other Jewish families
would also use it, however not all families would. Every family
develops their own traditions based on a general sort of format which
includes candle lighting, kiddush & the blessing over the bread, family
blessings, remembering creation & the exodus from Egypt, and other
things. I can recommend a couple of books for those who are interested.
I'll have to get the information from home though as I don't have it with
me right now.
Leslie
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705.82 | See 382.72 | MTHALE::JOHNSON | A rare blue and gold afternoon | Fri Apr 07 1995 13:36 | 3 |
| Book recommendations are in topic 382.
Leslie
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705.83 | Ruth and the tallit | OUTSRC::HEISER | next year in Jerusalem! | Fri Apr 07 1995 14:18 | 67 |
| The book of Ruth provides us with an example of how the bride and groom stood
under the tallit while the wedding ceremony was performed. From the opening
chapter we know that Ruth's mother-in-law, Naomi, lost her husband and her two
sons (one of which was Ruth's husband). Ruth made a vow to stay with Naomi and
take care of her and to worship her God and to live in her land.
In Ruth 1:9, the word "rest" actually means "covering, shelter, or haven" which
marriage was intended to provide for the wife. The idea here is to find rest
and covering under love ("...His banner over me is love..."). This is later
confirmed in Ruth 3:1. The word "rest" is taken as an indirect reference to the
tallit.
In Ruth 2 we have the establishment of the Goel - "Kinsman Reedemer," the
romance of redemption - a foreshadowing of how Christ redeemed us. The Goel is
prescribed in Leviticus 25:23-28. The basic idea here is that if you became
poor for any reason, your closest and willing relative (Goel) had the choice
of offering to buy out your debts in court for an agreed upon price and making
you debt free. Also, in the year of Jubilee (every 50 years) all debts were
automatically forgiven.
In this case, Boaz (means "strength") was the Goel, and was also from
Bethlehem, and would also take a Gentile bride (all pictures of Christ). This
was confirmed by Naomi herself in 2:20. Interesting to note how he blesses
his future Gentile bride, Ruth, in 2:4 when they meet for the first time.
Also, as Jesus commanded the servants in John 2 at the wedding, and offering
the Gentile woman a drink in John 7:37, we see Boaz treating Ruth the same way
in 2:9 and Ruth accepting his grace in 2:10.
In 2:12, we now have a direct reference to the tallit in the word "wings," which
is again used in 3:9. We know now that Christ has brought us this rest and
covering, which is symbolized in the tallit.
In 2:14-16 there are some more interesting parallels. Verse 14 sounds an awful
lot like Jesus feeding the 5,000 in the fact that they ate until satisfied and
had plenty left. Then we see Boaz continuing to care for his future bride by
having the servants treat her with respect and pulling grain for her.
In chapter 3 we finally get to the marriage proposal. Again, Naomi states in
verse 1 that she wishes to seek that security for Ruth. She lets Ruth know
where Boaz will be in the evening. Incidentally, they winnowed the wheat at
night so that the evening winds would separate the chaff from the wheat. Naomi
then instructs Ruth what she must do. As a Gentile, she may not have been
familiar with all the customs. It becomes clear that a relationship has
blossomed in chapter 2. In 3:9 we see Ruth's marriage proposal. She covered
herself with Boaz's tallit ("covering"), which you may recall they get married
under. As you continue on, you see that Boaz accepted the proposal of his
Gentile bride. They later became a key stepping stone in the lineage of Jesus
Christ. Their son Obed was King David's grandfather!
The romance of redemption part of Ruth continues on in 3:18 and peaks in chapter
4. As Christ, Naomi tells us in 3:18 that Boaz is a determined person. The
Hebrews states, "Until he has finished the matter," which sounds similar to
Christ's last words on the cross. It turns out in the early part of chapter 4
that there was another relative closer than Boaz who could've been the Goel.
However, like Christ, the Goel had to be willing to save as well as having to be
able to pay the price. In verse 6, it appears that this other relative didn't
really want a Gentile bride, which was part of the deal in verse 5. In verse 8,
the removal of the sandal was saying, "Stand in my shoes and take my place." In
verse 11, the blessing said by the court is a traditional Shabbat (Sabbath)
blessing that fathers say over their daughters. The romance of redemption is a
glorious view of Christ taking the Church as His Gentile Bride.
More tallit references can be found in Psalm 17:8, 36:7, 57:1, 61:4, and
Ezekiel 16:8. There's also a reply on the types found in the tallit in the
"Pictures of Jesus" topic.
Mike
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705.84 | | TRLIAN::POLAND | | Mon Apr 10 1995 13:25 | 2 |
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Thank you most kindly.
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705.85 | excellent study topic | OUTSRC::HEISER | Maranatha! | Tue Jun 20 1995 19:25 | 6 |
| My pastor's wife started an in-depth study on this subject a couple
years ago. I started going through the tapes recently and they're very
good. She's about half-way through the NT now (about 30 or so tapes).
If you're interested in getting some let me know.
Mike
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