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Conference yukon::christian_v7

Title:The CHRISTIAN Notesfile
Notice:Jesus reigns! - Intros: note 4; Praise: note 165
Moderator:ICTHUS::YUILLEON
Created:Tue Feb 16 1993
Last Modified:Fri May 02 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:962
Total number of notes:42902

211.0. "When we sin " by TOKNOW::METCALFE (Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers) Fri Jul 23 1993 14:50

We all sin and no one is guiltless.  Some sins are "bigger" than  others
because of repercussions of the consequences.  All sins sever a tie to a Holy
God Who is without sin.  Sin cannot abide in the presence of holiness.

So, what we do with our guilt becomes the issue. And I'm not talking about a
guilt feeling, but a guilt condition.  People can be guilty without feeling
guilt (and some can feel guilty where they shouldn't).

Contrition (feeling sorry) of the heart is an important part of repentance. But
when forgiveness is requested without commitment to turn from sin, (determining
not to sin again), our hearts can become hardened, our consciences seared, and
all the more difficult to pray the prayer of deliverance from sin and evil. 
This is a far greater danger than committing a sin - dulling the sense of
contrition - because it pulls one farther and farther away from the ministry of
the Holy Spirit. 

The Bible says that "if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive 
us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."  (1 John 1:9)  I am
told this is a verse for Christians who fall into sin.  But be careful of the
definition of Christian - Christ follower, or Christ imitator.  So there is
forgiveness to be had, praise the Lord, for I would be lost, as would the rest
of the world.  I cannot condemn you for your sin - I couldn't if I wanted to;
that belongs to God.  In saying so, God condemns sin, but He also forgives sin.  

Be careful of the sin of presumption because it is so dangerous because; it
lulls one to sleep, a false sense of security that I can come to God anytime I
choose and He'll forgive me, because He's forgiving and loving.  Understand
this: we don't come to God anytime we choose (even with free choice).  God is
Sovereign and extends an invitation.  That invitation can be withdrawn.  Be
thankful that He is a longsuffering God who is not wearied (as we humans are)
in His mercy.  But also, Galatians 6:7 says  "Be not deceived; God is not
mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap."

And in each instance of sin and repentance, Christ says, "Go and sin no more." 
And this is part of the equation of repentance, forgiveness, and restoration.

You know, sin isn't rational.  I'm sure it seems perfectly rational to gratify
urges and selfish ambitions.  It is rational to follow impulse.   But after the
fact, you find the truth of it, making it the irrational choice.  It didn't
give you what you thought, because whatever pleasure you may have had has been
paid for with a steep price; a price in your feelings, and a price in the blood
of Jesus Christ, who, "while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."  

Righteousness is perfectly rational in the practical and spiritual sense.  In
the practical, because the human being deals with conscience and physical
consequences of his actions; and in the spiritual, because no unholy thing can
have fellowship with the Creator, Who is Holy.

And this is why Paul talks about the war between natures within us all (within
our members).   The war of desire and impulses of "the flesh" (carnality) and
the desires and impulse of the [born again of the] Spirit.  The flesh, this
earth, everything that centers around the *I*, self, will pass and end; it is
temporal.  

Time inexorably kills every one of us.   And for those whose focus is in the
here and now, time is an enemy over which they have no power, and they go
deeper and deeper into despair. BUT! for those whose focus is on the eternal,
time is merely a precious commodity in which we can perform as much good as
possible, storing up "treasures in heaven."  (I do not speak of a "works
righteousness" but of the focus on the heavenly home and not this temporal
train station we call life). Grace alone saves by faith; holiness living is
what the Lord calls His saved and elect people to live.  And the pleasures of
His realm are perfectly rational and indescribably joyous and pleasurable; even
moreso when compared to the fleeting trivialities of this temporal existence.

Let me leave you with an analogy I heard and transcribed sometime ago:

    One day a father bought his daughter a plastic beaded necklace of
    simulated pearls.  It was only costume jewelry but she LOVED it.

    Some time passed and the father sat down by the fireplace one
    evening. Calling his daughter to his lap he asked, "Daughter, do
    you love me?"

    She responded, "Yes! Very much!"

    He replied, "will you give me your necklace?"

    "Oh, you wouldn't want my necklace," she demurred with a giggle,
    surprised at such a question.  So with that, the father left the
    matter alone.

    The next evening the same conversation began.

    "Daughter, do you love me?"

    "Yes, daddy.  You know I love you."  This time, she was more
    nervous.  She knew her father was going to ask for it again.  He
    was serious.  What did he want with her favorite thing in the
    whole wide world?

    "Will you give me your necklace?"

    "But daddy, what do you want with it?  I love it.  Ask me for
    anything, but not for the necklace that you gave to me."

    So the father left the matter alone again.

    It happened the next night as well, and on for quite a few nights
    thereafter. The daughter began to feel afraid of her father, and a
    little hurt, that her father would ask for something so dear to
    her, just to prove her love for him.  She DID love him, but could
    he love her asking for the most precious thing in the world to
    her?

    The next evening, he called his daughter to his knee and asked,
    "Daughter, do you love me?"

    The little girl burst into tears and gave him her necklace, all
    the while sobbing into his breast.  To her absolute horror at what
    happened next, he took the necklace and threw it into the
    fireplace where it quickly began to melt and catch fire.

    He then calmly reached into his pocket and pulled out a beautiful
    string of genuine pearls and fastened it around the child's neck. 
    It was the most beautiful necklace she had ever seen!

    The father kissed her and said, "I know you love me.  But now I
    know you love me more than the dearest thing to your heart (which
    were only  imitation pearls; costume jewelry). Now I can give you
    these pearls in exchange for your costume jewelry as a token of my
    love for you, because I know you love nothing more than you love
    me.  You have held nothing back from me and I will hold nothing
    back from you."

Do you understand the point of this story?

In Mark 4, Jesus deleivers the parable of the soils.  Each of the three bad
soils showed that the seed fell onto people with limited focus on the
temporal, gathered up by birds, received gladly but soon die because no
eternal root is set, or received but choked by deceit and cares of the
world - all temporal pursuits.  The good soil hears the word, receives it
and brings forth fruit.  You can't do that unless you're around for the
long haul - setting your sights beyond the here and now.

If you sin, stop; and sin no more. Be careful of the sin of presumption.
Set your sights on the eternal and not the temporal.  Trade in those
imitation pearls you hold so tightly to without thought of reward (the
daughter demonstrated her love without knowing she was going to receive
something of real value).

Mark M
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211.1PRIDECOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Jul 23 1993 15:20100
PRIDE is putting self in the place of God as the center and objective of
  our life, or of some department thereof.  It is the refusal to recognize
  our status as creatures, dependent on God for our existence, and placed
  by him in a specific relationship to the rest of his creation.

 Irreverence.  Deliberate neglect of the worship of God every Sunday in
  his Church, or being content with a perfunctory participation in it. 
  Disregard of other Holy Days or of additional opportunities for giving
  God honor.  Failure to thank God or to express our gratitude adequately.

  Disrespect for God or holy things by deliberately treating them, in
  thought, word, or deed, in a profane, contemptuous or over-familiar
  manner.  Use of holy things for personal advantage, or the attempt to
  bribe or placate God by religious practices or promises.

 Sentimentality.  Being satisfied with pious feelings and beautiful
  ceremonies without striving to obey God's will.

 Presumption.  Dependence on self rather than on God, with the consequent
  neglect of the means of grace -- sacraments and prayer.  Dispensation
  of ourselves from ordinary duties on the grounds that we are superior
  persons.  Satisfaction or complacency over our spiritual acheivements. 
  Refusal to avoid, when possible, immediate occasions of temptation. 
  Preference for our own ideas, customs, schemes, or techniques.  Foolish
  optimism.

  Failure to recognize our job as a divine vocation, or to offer our work
  to God.  Unwillingness to surrender to and abide in Christ, to let him
  act in and through us.  Failure to offer to God regularly in intercession
  the persons or causes that have, or should enlist our interest and support.

 Distrust.  Refusal to recognize God's wisdom, providence, and love.  Worry,
  anxiety, misgivings, scrupulosity, or perfectionism.  Attempts to discern
  or control the future by spiritualism, astrology, fortune-telling or the
  like.  Magic or superstition.

  Over-sensitiveness.  Expectation that others will dislike, reject, or
  mistreat us; over-readiness so to interpret their attitude, or quickness
  to take offense.  Unfounded suspicions.

  Timidity in accepting responsibility, or cowardice in facing difficulty
  or suffering.  Surrender to feelings of depression, gloom, pessimism,
  discouragement, self-pity, or fear of death, instead of fighting to be
  brave, cheerful, and hopeful.

 Disobedience.  Rejection of God's known will in favor of our own interests
  or pleasures.  Disobedience of the legitimate (and therefore divinely
  ordained) laws, regulations, or authority of the Church, state, husband,
  parents, teachers, etc.; or slow and reluctant obedience.  Failure when
  in authority to fulfil responsibilities or to consider the best interests
  of those under us.

  Refusal to learn God's nature or will as revealed in Scripture, expounded
  in instructions or expert advice, or discernible through prayer, meditation,
  or the reading of religious books.  Absorption in our own affairs, leaving
  little time, energy, or interest for the things of God.

  Violation of confidence.  Breaking of legitimate promises or contracts.
  Irresponsibility.  Treachery.  Unnecessary disappointment of another,
  or the causing of shame or anxiety to those who love us.

 Impenitence.  Refusal to search out and face up to our sins, or to confess
  and admit them before God.  Disregard of our sins or pretense that we
  are better than we are.  Self-justification or discounting our sins as
  insignificant, natural, or inevitable.  Self-righteous comparison of
  ourselves with others.

  Refusal to accept just punishment or to make due reparation when possible.
  Deceit or lying to escape the consequences of our sins, or allowing
  another to suffer the blame for our faults.  Overcompensation or attempts
  at self-reform or self-vengeance, to avoid surrender to God in humble
  penitence.

  Shame (hurt pride), sorrow for ourselves because our sins make us less
  respectable than we like to think we are, or because we fear punishment
  or injury to our reputation, rather than sorrow for what sin is in the
  eyes of God.  Refusal to admit we were in the wrong or to apologize. 
  Refusal to accept forgiveness from God or others.  Doubt that God can
  forgive our sins, or failure to use the means of getting assurance of
  his forgiveness when we need it.  Unwillingness to forgive ourselves.

 Vanity.  Crediting to ourselves rather than to God our talents, abilities,
  insights, accomplishments, good works.  Refusal to admit indebtedness to
  others, or adequately to express gratitude for their help.  Hypocrisy.
  Pretense to virtues we do not possess.  False humility.  Harsh judgments
  on others for faults we excuse in ourselves.

  Boasting, exaggeration, drawing attention to ourselves by talking too
  much, by claiming ability, by eccentric or ostentation behaviour. 
  Undue concern over, or expenditure of time, money, or energy on looks,
  dress, surroundings, etc., in order to impress others; or deliberate
  slovenliness for the same purpose.  Seeking, desiring, or relishing
  flattery or compliments.

 Arrogance.  Insisting that others conform to our wishes, recognize our
  leadership, accept  our own estimate of our worth.  Being overbearing,
  argumentative, opinionated, obstinate.

 Snobbery.  Pride over race, family, position, personality, education,
  skill, achievements, or possesions.
211.2ANGERCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Jul 23 1993 15:2028
ANGER is open rebellion against God or our fellow creatures.  Its purpose
  and desire is to eliminate any obstacle to our self-seeking, to retaliate
  against any threat to our security, to avenge any insult or injury to
  our person.

 Resentment.  Refusal to discern, accept, or fulfil God's vocation. 
  Dissatisfaction with the talents, abilities, or opportunities he has
  given us.  Unwillingness to face up to difficulties or sacrifices. 
  Unjustified rebellion or complaint at the circumstances of our lives. 
  Escape from reality or the attempt to force our will upon it. 
  Transference to God, to our parents, to society, or to other
  individuals of the blame for our maladjustment; hatred of God, or
  antisocial behaviour.  Cynicism.  Annoyance at the contrariness of
  things; profanity or grumbling.

 Pugnacity.  Attack upon another in anger.  Murder in deed or desire.
  Combativeness or nursing of grudges.  Injury to another by striking,
  cursing, or insulting him; or by damaging his reputation or property. 
  Quarrelsomeness, bickering, contradiction, nagging, rudeness, or
  snubbing.

 Retaliation.  Vengeance for wrongs real or imagined, or the plotting
  thereof.  Harsh or excessive punishment.  Hostility, sullenness or
  rash judgment.  Refusal to forgive, or to offer or accept reconciliation.
  Unwillingness to love, to do good to, or to pray for enemies.  Boycotting
  or ostracizing another for selfish reasons.  Spoiling others' pleasure
  by uncooperativeness or disdain, because we have not got our way, or
  because we feel out of sorts or superior.
211.3ENVYCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Jul 23 1993 15:2117
ENVY is dissatisfaction with our place in God's order of creation,
  manifested in begrudging his gifts and vocation to others.

 Jealousy.  Offense at the talents, success or good fortune of others. 
  Selfish or unnecessary rivalry or competition.  Pleasure at others'
  difficulties or distress.  Belittling others.

 Malice.  Ill-will, false accusations, slander, backbiting.  Reading
  false motives into others' behaviour.  Initiation, collection, or
  retailing of gossip.  Arousing, fostering or organizing antagonism
  against others.  Unnecessary criticism, even when true.  Deliberate
  annoyance of others, teasing or bullying.

 Contempt.  Scorn of another's virtue, ability, shortcomings, or failings.
  Prejudice against those we consider inferior, or who consider us
  inferior, or who seem to threaten our security or position.  Ridicule
  of persons, institutions, or ideals.
211.4COVETOUSNESSCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Jul 23 1993 15:2146
COVETOUSNESS is the refusal to respect the integrity of other creatures,
  expressed in the inordinate accumulation of material things; in the
  use of other persons for our personal advantage; or in the quest for
  status, power, or security at their expense.

 Inordinate Ambition.  Pursuit of status, power, influence, reputation,
  or possessions at the expense of the moral law, of other obligations,
  or of the rights of others.  Ruthless or unfair competition.  Putting
  self or family first.  Conformity to standards we recognize as wrong
  or inadequate in order to get ahead.  Intrigue or conspiracy for
  self-advancement.

 Domination.  Seeking to use or possess others.  Overprotection of children; 
  refusal to correct or punish lest we lose their affection; insistence
  that they conform to our ideal for them contrary to their own vocation.
  Imposing our will on others by force, guile, whining, or refusal to
  cooperate.  Over-readiness to advise or command; abuse of authority. 
  Patronizing, pauperizing, putting others under a debt of gratitude, or
  considering ourselves ill-used when others' affection or compliance is
  not for sale.

  Respect of persons, favoritism, partiality, flattery, fawning, or
  bribery to win support or affection.  Refusal to uphold the truth to
  fulfil duties, to perform good acts, or to defend those wrongfully
  attacked, because we fear criticism or ridicule, or because we seek to
  gain the favor or approval of others.  Leading, tempting, or encouraging
  another to sin.

 Avarice.  Inordinate pursuit of wealth or material things.  Theft,
  dishonesty, misrepresentation, or sharing in stolen goods.  Cheating
  in business, taxes, school, or games.  Making worldly success the goal
  of our life or the standard for judging others.

 Prodigality.  Waste of natural resources or personal possessions. 
  Extravagance or living beyond our income, to impress others or to
  maintain status.  Failure to pay debts.  Gambling more than we can
  afford to lose, or to win unearned profits.  Unnecessary borrowing
  or carelessness with others' money.  Expenditure on self of what is
  needed for the welfare of others.

 Penuriousness.  Undue protection of wealth or security.  Selfish
  insistence on vested interests or on claimed rights.  Refusal to
  support or help those who have a claim on us.  Sponging on others. 
  Stinginess.  Failure to give due proportion of our income to Church
  and charity, or of our time and energy to good works.  Failure to pay
  pledges promised to the Church or charities, when able to do so.
211.5GLUTTONYCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Jul 23 1993 15:2215
GLUTTONY is the overindulgence of natural appetites for food and drink,
  and by extension the inordinate quest for pleasure or comfort.

 Intemperence.  Overindulgence in food, drink, smoking, or other physical
  pleasures.  Fastidiousness, fussiness, demanding excessively high
  standards, or dilettantism.  Condemnation of some material things or
  pleasures as evil in themselves, attempting to prohibit their use
  rather than their abuse.

 Lack of Discipline.  Negligence in keeping the days of fasting or
  abstinence, or failure to use other needed means of self-discipline. 
  Neglect of bodily health -- not getting sufficient rest, recreation,
  exercise, or wholesome nourishment.  Failure to use or to cooperate
  with available medical care when ill.  Use of sickness as a means of
  escape from responsibilities.
211.6LUSTCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Jul 23 1993 15:2222
LUST is the misuse of sex for personal gratification, debasing it from
  the holy purpose for which God has given it to us.

 Unchastity.  Violation of the Church's marriage laws.  Lack of
  consideration for one's partner in the use of the marital relationship.
  Refusal to fulfil the purpose of Holy Matrimony in the bringing forth
  and giving adequate care to children, or to take our full share in the
  responsibilities or work involved.  Unfaithfulness to one's spouse. 
  Sexual indulgence outside matrimony, in thought or act, alone or with
  others.

 Immodesty.  Stimulation of sexual desire in others by word, dress, or
  actions; or in oneself by reading, pictures, or fantasies.  Collecting
  or recounting dirty stories.

 Prudery.  Fear of sex or condemnation of it as evil in itself.  Refusal
  to seek adequate sexual instruction or the attempt to prevent others
  from obtaining it.  Stimulation of excessive and harmful curiosity by
  undue secrecy.  Repression of sex.

 Cruelty.  Deliberate infliction of pain, mental or physical.  Tormenting
  of animals.
211.7SLOTHCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Jul 23 1993 15:2323
SLOTH is the refusal to respond to our opportunities for growth, service,
  or sacrifice.

 Laziness.  Indolence in performing spiritual, mental, or physical duties,
  or neglect of family, business, or social obligations or courtesies. 
  Procrastination of disliked tasks.  Busyness or triviality to avoid
  more important commitments.  Devotion of excessive time to rest,
  recreation, amusement, television, light reading, or the like.  Waste
  of employer's time, or shoddy or inadequate work.

 Indifference.  Unconcern over injustice to others, especially that caused
  by currently accepted social standards; or unmindfulness of the suffering
  of the world.  Failure to become adequately informed on both sides of
  contemporary issues or on the Christian principles involved.  Neglect
  of duties to state or community.  Failure to provide adequately for,
  or to treat justly those in our employ.

  Ignoring of needy, lonely, or unpopular persons in our own or the
  parish family, or in the neighborhood; or unwillingness to minister to
  them.  Insufficent attention to the religious and other needs of our
  family.  Failure to fulfil our obligations of Christian missionary
  witness, or to take a full and informed part in the effort to make the
  Church's unity and holiness a manifest reality on earth.
211.8DECLNE::YACKELand if not...Wed Jul 28 1993 09:407
    
    John,
    
     Thanks for those replies, I have to admit I was not aware that there
    were such defined sins.  
    
    Yak
211.9COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Aug 04 1993 11:1444
From the Catechetical Instructions of Cyril, Bishop of Jerusalem [386]

If there are any slaves of sin here present, they should at once prepare
themselves through faith for the rebirth into freedom that makes us God's
adopted children.  They should lay aside the wretchedness of slavery to
sin, and put on the joyful slavery of the lord, so as to be counted worthy
to inherit the kingdom of heaven.  By acknowledging your sins you strip
away your former self, seduced as it is by destructive desires, and put on
the new self, renewed in the likeness of its Creator.  Through faith you
receive the pledge of the Holy Spirit, so that you may be welcomed into the
everlasting dwelling places.  Draw near, to be marked with the supernatural
seal, so that you may be easily recognized by your master.  Become a member
of Christ's holy and spiritual flock, so that one day you may be set apart
on his right hand, and so gain the life prepared as your inheritance.

Those whose sins still cling to them like a goatskin will stand on his left
hand because they did not approach Christ's fountain of rebirth to receive
God's grace.  By rebirth I mean, not rebirth of the body, but the spiritual
rebirth of the soul.  Our bodies are brought into being by parents who can
be seen, but our souls are reborn through faith: "the Spirit breathes where
he wills."  At the end, if you are made worthy, you may hear the words:
"Well done, good and faithful servant," when, that is, you are found with
no stain of hypocrisy on your conscience.

If any here present are thinking of putting God's grace to the test, they
are deceiving themselves, and they do not understand the nature of things.
You are but human; there is one who searches out human thoughts and hearts. 
You must keep your soul innocent and free from deceit.

The present is a time for the acknowledgment of sins.  Acknowledge what you
have done, in word or deed, by night or day.  Acknowledge your sins at a
time of God's favor, and on the day of salvation you will receive the
treasures of heaven.

Wash yourself clean, so that you may hold a richer store of grace.  Sins
are forgiven equally for all, but communion in the Holy Spirit is given in
the measure of each one's faith.  If you have done little work, you will
receive little; if you have achieved a great deal, great will be your
reward.  The race you are running is for you own advantage; look after
your own interests.

If you have a grudge against anyone, forgive that person.  You are drawing
near to receive forgiveness for your own sins; you must yourself forgive
those who have sinned against you.