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Conference yukon::christian_v7

Title:The CHRISTIAN Notesfile
Notice:Jesus reigns! - Intros: note 4; Praise: note 165
Moderator:ICTHUS::YUILLEON
Created:Tue Feb 16 1993
Last Modified:Fri May 02 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:962
Total number of notes:42902

77.0. ""Right or Wrong" vs. "The Will of God"" by VICKI::LOVIK (Mark Lovik) Fri Mar 26 1993 11:49

    A question posed in topic 76.0 (whether it is all right for a Christian
    to be married before a justice of the peace) got me started.  In this
    issue, as well as almost all questions that start with "Is it all right
    for...", etc., though, I have one overriding answer:  What is the will
    of God?  It is beginning to bother me more and more (i.e., I am
    becoming more and more sensitive to) when someone asks "is there any
    thing wrong with....", implying that if there is no prohibition
    according to the word of God, then something is all right. IT IS NEVER
    SO!  We are not called to walk according to right and wrong,
    permissible and prohibition, etc.  We are called to walk according to
    the will of God for our lives.  Just because something is permissible
    doesn't mean that God wants it.  Also, because something is God's will
    for one person does not make it God's will for another.

    As human beings, we tend to have a sort of evaluation scale of right
    and wrong.  Certain things (murder, assault, etc.) are at the clear end
    of "wrong" in most people's minds.  Certain things are also at the
    clear end of "right" (helping people, giving to the poor, etc.) as
    well.  A common error is to think that when one becomes a Christian,
    the same sort of "scale" exists for the Christian life, with perhaps
    the point between right and wrong shifted more to the "right", and a
    few more things added to the "right" side.  I believe that this is a
    totally erroneous view of the Christian life.  Rather than trying to
    live by a scale, we are called to a wonderful liberty of walking in the
    light according to the will of God.  If something is God's will for
    us, it is right.  If something is not God's will, it is wrong,
    regardless of whether such a thing would be considered "permissible" or
    not by others, or even if it is the will of God for another.

    One thing that this does is place a tremendous amount of responsibility
    on the individual.  We can (and should) seek Godly guidance and
    counsel, but ultimately the responsibility for the choice rests on the
    individual.  We need to walk closely with the Lord, to be His sheep
    that hear His voice.  I don't believe that God will buy the argument
    "so-and-so told me to" when we stand before Him.  Indeed, if someone is
    foolish enough to tell someone to do something which is not God's will,
    the foolish counselor will answer to God for that as well.  More and
    more, I find that counseling should not end up in the counselor coming
    up with the decision for the "counselee", but rather helping the
    counselee to come to a realization of God's will.

    Mark L.
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77.1Romans 14:23bEVMS::PAULKM::WEISSTrade freedom for security-lose bothFri Mar 26 1993 12:181
"For whatever does not proceed from faith is sin."
77.2Eat the Tree of Life!LEDS::LOPEZA River.. proceeding!Fri Mar 26 1993 12:3924
re.0 (Mark)

	Yes.

	Right and wrong is just another name for the tree of knowledge of
good and evil as symbolized in the garden of Eden. If we are living our 
christian life according the knowledge of good and evil we are on the wrong 
tree! We may say that to do such and such is good but to do that is evil. 
Humanly speaking it is better to do good than evil (I'd rather my children 
give to charity than to rob banks! 8*). Yet, one can do good or right and still
miss what God really desires. For a christian to live according to the knowledge
of good and evil is to live in the wrong realm. What God desires is that we live 
according to His indwelling Spirit of Life! This is symbolized by the Tree of 
Life in the garden of Eden.

	Forget about right and wrong, good and evil. If you take God as your
life and your choosing element you will not only be correct before men, but 
more importantly you will satisfy God's desire also.

	Good topic Mark, not bad for a mid-westerner.  8*)

Regards,
ace
77.3VICKI::LOVIKMark LovikFri Mar 26 1993 13:0010
    Ace,

    Indeed, a lot of what I wrote came out of considerations we (my
    fellowship) have had around the two trees.  A major part of our study
    was based on Bohnhoeffer's book "Ethics" -- I think we spent two full
    days covering what was an excerpt from the first chapter or so.  That,
    coupled with past considerations on identification with Christ, has
    been a great blessing to us.
    
    Mark L.
77.4I Agree in other wordsSWAM1::BOHN_ERBoo-Boo BohnFri Mar 26 1993 14:2912
    Well done Mark! (Good Note)
    
    I personally think God's will is instilled into our hearts as desires. 
    Whether we take those desires seriously or take them as God's will in
    the first place is in my opinion the difference between sin or faith. 
    So with this in mind I agree with everyone so far with an added point,
    just in other words.
    
    Warm fuzzies to everyone!
    
    E. Bontonovinchentvangogholivianewtonic hairspray
    
77.5How intimate are we with God?JUPITR::DJOHNSONGreat is His FaithfulnessMon Mar 29 1993 10:5711
    I received this by hearsay so I don't know how true it is but according
    to the story I got, St. Francis of Assissi(sp?) was told by God to
    "build My church" and being a wealthy man he started building churches
    all over Italy.  It wasn't until he was broke that he realized what God
    meant by "build My church".  The will of God was to spread the gospel,
    etc.  In our flesh it is very easy to misinterpret the will of God
    which is why it is so important to steep ourselves in His word and
    spend much time with Him in prayer so we can not only recognize His
    voice, but *hear* what He is saying.
    
    Dave
77.6St. Francis of Assisi InfoPCCAD::RICHARDJPretty Good At Barely Getting ByMon Mar 29 1993 12:0518
    
    The word that St. Francis received from Christ was, " Francis, rebuild
    my Church, for as you see, it is falling into ruin." Francis, although
    from a wealthy family, had left his home and begged for materials to
    rebuild the church buildings in and around Assisi. The Lord spoke to
    Francis three times using the same words before Francis realized that
    Christ was telling him that it was the faith of the Church which was 
    falling into ruin, and not the buildings. Francis began to live out the 
    gospel of Christ, preaching repentance and a conversion of hearts to 
    Christ. He served the poorest of the poor of his day. Besides receiving 
    the gift of faith and holiness, Francis also was blessed with the five 
    wounds of Christ, the stigmata. Francis was founder of the religious order 
    of Franciscans which are still well known today. Also, Francis was the one 
    who invented the Christmas creche, or manger scene. St. Francis was 
    canonized in 1226, two years after his death.
        
    Peace
     Jim
77.7CHTP00::CHTP05::LOVIKMark LovikMon Mar 29 1993 14:317
    Ace,
    
77.2>	Good topic Mark, not bad for a mid-westerner.  8*)

    I guess I've been spending too much time in New England of late. :-)
    
    Mark L. who_can_claim_west_coast_birth_and_east_coast_raising
77.8Down, Boy.TOKNOW::METCALFEEschew Obfuscatory MonikersThu Apr 01 1993 13:4334
This is another story from the man I referred to in 49.4.

Matthew 16
  22 Then Peter took him, and began to rebuke him, saying, Be
  it far from thee, Lord: this shall not be unto thee.
  23 But he turned, and said unto Peter, Get thee behind me,
  Satan: thou art an offence unto me: for thou savourest not
  the things that be of God, but those that be of men.

This man had a german shepherd named Baron.  It was a german shepherd and
this was the german name that he thought of to give it.  Baron was a 
loving dog and wouldn't harm anyone.  The worst he could do is rest his
paws on a person's shoulders and lick their face.

This man's wife was planting a garden and Baron would go about digging
up what was being planted then running around in circles as if he had
done something wonderful for the family.  

The man returned to the person from whom he got the dog as asked what should
he do. (I don't know if this next part is Indian culture.)  He responded
to hold the dogs head ina buacket of water and when he realizes that he
is about to die, you'll get his attention.  The man hadn't the heart to
do this, so instead he got a stick, which he never used; he only waved
it to say "Down boy!"

The man said that Jesus was simply saying "Down, Boy" to Peter when he
said "Get thee behind me, Satan."

Man did that hit home.  How often have I dug up some of God's plantings
thinking, as I wag my tail, how well I've done, only to find out I
haven't understood it.  I want to do right for the Master.  Sometimes
He has to say "Down, boy" even when we think we're doing what's right.

Mark
77.9CHTP00::CHTP05::LOVIKMark LovikThu Apr 01 1993 13:5724
    .8 reminds me of a story of a believer in India that I know.  His name
    is Bakht Singh.  Early in his Christian life (he is now quite elderly)
    Bakht Singh wanted to serve the Lord, so he would enthusiastically go
    out every day preaching the gospel to everyone who would listen.  This
    went on for some weeks with no visible fruit (i.e., no one who at the
    time responded to the gospel).  Getting somewhat discouraged, Bakht
    Singh was praying about the lack of results of his evangelism, and the
    Lord simply spoke to him, "I never told you to do that."
    
    This reminds me of the experience shared by an old missionary from
    Brazil named Tom Young.  Tom used to use train oxen for plowing, which
    involved getting two oxen to work together in a yoke.  He would yoke a
    young, spirited ox with an older, experienced one, and let them loose
    to learn.  The young ox would try to lunge ahead, but would be held
    back by the more steady gait of the older one.  The real test would
    come when they came upon a small tree between them.  The young ox would
    buck and struggle, while the older ox just waited patiently until the
    young learner stopped struggling to go its own way and relented to
    follow the path of the experienced.  The Lord Jesus says "Take my yoke
    upon you, and learn of me."  We are often like the young ox, trying to
    bring Him along to go our way, as He patienly waits until we realize
    that the only true way is to follow His leading.
    
    Mark L.
77.10RE:.9DNEAST::GILPATRICK_ROn a major learning expedition here!Mon Apr 05 1993 16:442
    AMEN!