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Conference yukon::christian_v7

Title:The CHRISTIAN Notesfile
Notice:Jesus reigns! - Intros: note 4; Praise: note 165
Moderator:ICTHUS::YUILLEON
Created:Tue Feb 16 1993
Last Modified:Fri May 02 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:962
Total number of notes:42902

17.0. "Christian Singles" by TOKNOW::METCALFE (Eschew Obfuscatory Monikers) Wed Feb 17 1993 10:36

    
    				Christian Singles
    
    This note is dedicated to posting of events that come up for Singles. 
    
    Also any kind of Sharing you may like is permitted.
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17.3Will keep you Posted.SHARE::ARNOJesus Loves us allThu Mar 18 1993 11:1510
    
      I will hold off the get together for Yangtze River until after
      Lent. 
      So more people can join us.
    
      Keep your eyes open.
    
      Ann
    
    
17.4It's Been too Long !SHARE::ARNOJesus Loves us allThu Apr 01 1993 17:5225
    
    
    			Lets get together 
    
    Place:   Yangtze River, Littleton, Ma.
    Time :   6:00 PM
    Date :   April 16
    
    
    Directions =
    
    
      Get off Exit 31 from 495 and go towards Littleton Center and take
      a Left at the Lights. Yangtze River will be on your Left on Route
      110 LKG will be in the back of it. If you see Kimballs Ice Cream
      stand you went too far. 
    
    
       Let me know if you would like to join us. 
    
       Share::Arno
    
       Ann
    
    
17.5Spring Singles RetreatTAPE::LKLHe is not silent, We are not listening!Mon Apr 05 1993 08:5619
    
              Grace Baptist Church of Marlboro announces...
    
                        All singles Spring Retreat
                       Fri / May 21 - Sun / May 23
    
                  Camp Berea, Newfound Lake, Hebron, NH
    
                      Dr. Pablo Polischuck speaks on
                  "Between Intimacy and Self-Protection"
    
    Dr. Polischuck has been a professor of Psychology at Harvard Meical
    School and has served on the staff of Mass General Hospital.  He is
    currently a profess of Psych Counseling at Gordon-Conwell Theological
    Seminary.  
    
    
    For more information call Pastor David Johnson 862-6499 x136 
    Carpooling is available. 
17.6Singles activitiesTAPE::LKLDavid & The Giants 5/26 7:30pm Hudson HighMon May 24 1993 10:1437
    
    More events sponsored by Grace Baptist Church of Marlboro.....
    
    If you want more details on any of these events or the Singles 
    Ministry of Grace, contact Jean & Pat Coyne 393-3844 or
    the church office at 481-8288.  RSVPS need for many of these events.
    
    
    MAY 29	9:30 am - Mt. Wachusett Hike - bring picnic lunch
    
    June 4	7pm - Miniature Golf at in Berlin at rotary 
    
    June 12	8:30am - Bike ride on Cape Cod.  Bike rentals available.
    
    June 18	7pm - Pizza at Papa Ginos in Sudbury & bowling too.
    
    June 26	8am - Canoe trip and picnic lunch on Ipswich River
    
    July 2	6pm - Movie and pizza night
    
    July 11	Lunch after church at "HAts Off" in Hudson
    
    July 17	4:30am - Deep sea fishing trip out of Plymouth
    
    July 24	10 am - Picnic/BBQ at Hopkington State Park
    
    July 31	6pm - Jordan Furnitures - Motion Odessey Machine
    
    August 5	7pm - DooWops Karaoke and dancing
    
    August 14	12 noon - walking tour of Boston
    
    August 22 	after 8:30 service - Tanglewood for concert
    
    August 28	6pm - miniature c=golf in Natick followed by Chi-Chis
    
    September 11 9am - climb Mount Manadnock and picnic
17.7Singles partyTAPE::LKLRaise morals, not taxesThu Jul 22 1993 07:5224
    
    This Saturday night in Maynard is a huge party and singles from
    Park Street Church in Boston, Grace Chapel in Lexington, New Life
    Community Church in Concord, and others have been invited.
    
    This same group has organized dances, semi-formals and other 
    parties in the past that have been great fun.
    
    I have been asked to pass the word around about this event....
    
    DATE:  07/24/93
    PLACE: 20-7 Deer Hedge Run in Maynard
    
    DIRECTIONS:
    
    Take route 2 West from Route 128
    Go past Emerson Hospital to the next set of lights (route 62)
    Turn left onto Route 62 (toward West Concord)
    Take a left at the 99 restaurant
    Go two miles past Purity Supreme and Digital
    Take a left at the Deer Hedge Run sign
    Go up a hill and take your first left
    First condo on the right #20-7  phone 508-897-0994 (ask for Dave)
                                    
17.8Any thoughts to offer?RT95::STELINSun Dec 05 1993 14:1327
    I've got some thoughts...while at church one Sunday, the priest
    mentioned that in some cases, single people are closer to God because
    they don't have the sometimes hectic schedules/dealings with family. 
    They don't have a family or a partner to take them away from constant
    contact or total devotion with God.
    
    Now I disagree somewhat because you can be a family or be in a
    relationship and be highly religious too.
    
    What I'm getting at is I've been single for some time now and am very
    close to God but I would like to meet other people, friends, who
    believe in God.
    
    I've recently meet lots of new people and I know it takes a while to
    get to know someone but if I met some people from this file, at least
    I'd know they were on the right track to start off with.
    
    Not that I'm saying the new people I've met aren't.  I don't know yet. 
    I think sometimes I'm there to plant the seed.  
    
    I did found out someone already in the group was very involved in the 
    church and the impressions I got is that he is mocked by some of the 
    others.
    
    I don't know if this is the right crowd to be hanging around with.
    
    any thoughts to offer?
17.9My 2�....DEMING::SILVAMemories.....Mon Dec 06 1993 13:5729
| <<< Note 17.8 by RT95::STELIN >>>

| I've got some thoughts...while at church one Sunday, the priest mentioned that
| in some cases, single people are closer to God because they don't have the 
| sometimes hectic schedules/dealings with family. They don't have a family or 
| a partner to take them away from constant contact or total devotion with God. 
| Now I disagree somewhat because you can be a family or be in a relationship 
| and be highly religious too.

	I think the keywords here are, "in some cases". It doesn't apply to
all. I do agree with you that one can be in a relationship or be in a family
and have everyone be close to God. 

| I did found out someone already in the group was very involved in the
| church and the impressions I got is that he is mocked by some of the
| others. I don't know if this is the right crowd to be hanging around with.
| any thoughts to offer?

	If I were you I woudn't let others decide this for you. This is
something that you should be talking to God about. You know how YOU view this
person, and you have a general idea how some of the others feel about her. But
do you know how God feels about her? If you leave it in God's hands, He will
show you the correct path that should be taken. If you leave it for everyone
else to decide, then you're letting humans control a decision that can only be
made by someone infallible, God.



Glen
17.10CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be readyMon Dec 06 1993 14:3045
RE:                        <<< Note 17.8 by RT95::STELIN >>>
                          -< Any thoughts to offer? >-

   > I've got some thoughts...while at church one Sunday, the priest
   > mentioned that in some cases, single people are closer to God because
   > they don't have the sometimes hectic schedules/dealings with family. 
    
     
    I'm single (with kids who live with their mom).  I'd like to think I'm
    close to God, but I know I can be closer.  I have a hectic schedule, mostly
    with church stuff but my relationship with Christ must come first.  That
    goes for a family as well. If the schedule is too hectic to squeeze God in,
    the schedule needs adjustment.

    Seek ye first the Kingdom of God..

    >They don't have a family or a partner to take them away from constant
    >contact or total devotion with God.
    

    Family should not take them away from contact or devotion to God..it should
    draw them closer to God..Yes, people get busy and there are distractions..
    but I'd question what it is that causes one to spend less time with God.


    



  >  I don't know if this is the right crowd to be hanging around with.
    
  >  any thoughts to offer?


     That's hard to say without having a bit more information.  However, I
     would thinkn if you are wondering, perhaps your concern is valid.  Will
     they hinder your relationship with Christ?  Will they cause you to stumble,
     put you in situations where there is temptation?  I recently experienced
     the loss of a friendship because of a stand I took for Christ..there are
     times we have to do that..


    Jim

17.11Choosing A Mate, some ideasJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit&#039;s Gentle BreezeWed Sep 14 1994 19:55103
    Introduction
    -------------
    Ephesians 5:22  Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as
    unto the Lord.
     23  For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the
    head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
     24  Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives
    be to their own husbands in every thing.
     25  Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church,
    and gave himself for it;
    
    Ever ask yourself the question about what qualities God would have in
    your mate?  After all he's created this union to be one flesh and we
    all now how personalities differ.  
    
    I've asked myself this question and hope that you will find some
    wisdoms in this exercise.
    
                             CHOOSING A MATE
    
    The book of Proverbs is rich in qualities that your mate should
    possess.  This holds true for both sexes.  Specifically some very good
    examples are in Proverbs 1:5,8,10,15 listed below:
    
    Proverbs 1:5  A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a
    man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels:
    
      8  My son, hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the
    law of thy mother: 
    
    10  My son, if sinners entice thee, consent thou not.
    15  My son, walk not thou in the way with them; refrain thy foot from
    their path:
    
    I think these are fairly self explanatory and would really like to list
    for you what I found in Proverbs in my study.
    
    1.  Choose a Saved Person 
    
    Amos 3:3  Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
    
    2Corinthians 6:14  Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers:
    for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what
    communion hath light with darkness?
    
    2. Baptized [shows obedience to God]
    
    3. Spiritual -  When talking with your potential mate/date does the
    conversation often turn to spiritual topics?  Do you talk about God's
    word and its Truths.  The verse below commands us to seek God first,
    does your potential mate show this characteristic.  It is evident in
    their service to God, their commitment to seeing others come to know
    Him and their willingness to support their church.
    
    Matthew 6:33  But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his
    righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
    
    4. Reputation
    
    This doesn't necessarily someone who has just been squeaky clean all
    their lives.  Someone's reputation could be that of a sinner come home. 
    The verse below states that the day of one's death is more important
    than the day of one's birth.  Why is that?  Because when one dies their
    reputation is all that is left for others to recall.
    
    Ecclesiastes 7:1  A good name is better than precious ointment; and the
    day of death than the day of one's birth.
    
    5.  Accomplishments
    
    Have they paid off a car.  Have they built or participated in a
    ministry of their church.  Have they balanced a check book.
    
    Seems like trivial things, but much of the time marital struggles are
    about financial issues.  Know the character of your potential mate's
    fiscal abilities. 
    
    6.  Responsibility - Do they finish things they start?  How is their
    follow through?
    
    7.  Mature 
    
    8.  Response to Authority
    
    Proverbs 9:9  Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be yet wiser: teach a
    justman, and he will increase in learning.
    
    Proverbs 12:1  Whoso loveth instruction loveth knowledge: but he that
    hateth reproof is brutish.
    
    9.  How they speak about their Parents
    
    10.  Enjoyable, not a bore
    
    11.  Compatibility
    
    12.  Communication
    
    13.  Similar upbringing
    
    14.  How they treat Children
    
    
17.12My pastor, the cut-up!CSC32::KINSELLAFri May 05 1995 15:2617
    
    I was just reminded of two jokes my pastor has about single women.
    He's a nut case, but we love him anyway!  One time my friend Laurie
    and I came into Wednesday night bible study just as Andy was going
    to start teaching therefore we were open game for ridicule.  He told 
    everybody that our 2 favorite verses were:
    
    If any man would come after me, let him.   
    
    and this one he said we quoted to the guys in our singles group...
    
    I would not have you my ignorant brother.   ;')
    
    I don't believe you need references on these as I'm sure you all
    realize...these are not scriptural.  :-}
    
    Jill
17.14CSC32::KINSELLAFri May 05 1995 15:575
    
    Yes I know, but I didn't want to mislead anybody else or get into
    some debate.  ;')
    
    Jill
17.15ICTHUS::YUILLEHe must increase - I must decreaseTue May 09 1995 05:2410
�    Yes I know, 

I though you must, which was why I was puzzled at them beiung unBiblical..

� but I didn't want to mislead anybody else or get into some debate.  ;')

Righto - I'll delete mine, in a worthy cause!

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