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262.1 | Difficult Person No 1 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:17 | 8 |
| The Autocratic Dictator
Characteristics:
Stay in control by putting others down
Rule from a "command post"
Unwilling to hear opinions that differ from their own
May be subject to fits of temper and rage
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262.2 | Difficult Person No2 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:18 | 9 |
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The Fault Finder
Find fault with everything around them
Produce endless lists of complaints
Take no action to solve the problems they complain about
Claim to be helpless against any obstacle
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262.3 | No 3 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:19 | 9 |
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The Back Stabber
Attack from behind - never face to face
Operate by way of putdowns, criticism and gossip
Will pretend to be innocent of wrong doing
Like to "gang up" before an attack
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262.4 | No 4 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:21 | 7 |
| The Critical Advice Giver
Present themselve as "experts" on any subject
Use condesencion and aloofness to intimidate others
Intolerent of differences of opinion
Blame others for their mistakes and bad decisions
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262.5 | No 5 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:22 | 8 |
| The Soothing Delayer
Use stall tactics to avoid making decisions
Pleasant in attitude, but fail to move ahead
Agree with people to stay on their good side
Tend to wver on decision and change their minds
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262.6 | No 6 | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:23 | 8 |
| The Tight Lip
Refuse to offer information
Answer questions with "yes" or "no" responses
Escape responsibiliy by saying "I don't know"
Try to control a situation through silence
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262.7 | | CHEFS::WARRENJ | flashing lights & electricity | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:24 | 6 |
| The Downer
Feel they're life's "victims"
Claim that things will always get worse
Assess everything in negative terms
Attack optimistic and positive attitudes
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262.8 | training film | KAOFS::C_PLANT | It had to be you... | Tue Nov 22 1994 15:37 | 13 |
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Choc
I saw a training film with John Cleese on how to deal with difficult
characters..some of the above were there. There was also
some like Mr. Clam..etc....
The film was a hoot!
Chris
:)
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262.9 | | NETCAD::WOODFORD | AgeIsA NumberAndMine'sUnlisted. | Tue Nov 22 1994 18:01 | 10 |
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Hehehehe This is great Jackie!! I think I work with a
shmorgasboard(sp?) of all of the previous replies. :*)
Terrie
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262.10 | human-frailness???????????? | OFOS02::RAGUCCI | | Wed Nov 23 1994 00:32 | 4 |
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you've just described 1/2 the people in my family.
do you know them? ha!
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262.11 | | ADCA01::RAVISHANKAR | Chocoholics Inc. (estd 1966) | Wed Nov 23 1994 05:54 | 21 |
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Hey how about this guy...
Characterstics :
1. Loves to take responsibility ( only to show off ).
2. Take the credit but distributes the SH*T.
3. Tries to make himself indispensible and curses others for doing
so.
4. Technically and Mangerially incompetent.
5. Sucks up to his boss.
6. Doesn't allow his subordinates to talk to his seniors for the
fear of losing control.
7. Believes that delegation is all there is to responsibility.
I'd love to classify this type of a guy....why ? well i work under
one.. that why !! I call him PRIME PRI*K.
Ravi.
*8)
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262.12 | | KAOA01::CLESTER | | Wed Nov 23 1994 16:07 | 6 |
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Ravi....you have described the classic manager......heheheheheeh
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262.13 | John Cleese video series | TOOK::MORRISON | Bob M. LKG1-3/A11 226-7570 | Wed Nov 23 1994 20:42 | 9 |
| > I saw a training film with John Cleese on how to deal with difficult
> characters
Back in the old days here at LKG, we had a monthly video showing for this
sort of thing. We did a series of 4(?) of those John Cleese videos. I sat thru
two of them. Yes, they were funny, and one thing that made them funny was the
British humor!
Today nobody here has time to set up this sort of thing, and nobody has time
to attend.
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