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Title:BAGELS and other things of Jewish interest
Notice:1.0 policy, 280.0 directory, 32.0 registration
Moderator:SMURF::FENSTER
Created:Mon Feb 03 1986
Last Modified:Thu Jun 05 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1524
Total number of notes:18709

1264.0. "DEC's Lack of Sensitivity for Jews" by EMIRFI::SEGAL (Len Segal, MLO6-1/U30, 223-7687) Fri Sep 25 1992 16:26

From:	LESREG::SEGAL "Len, 223-7687, MLO6-1/U30  25-Sep-1992 0854" 25-SEP-1992 09:00:28.86
To:	ICS::POMIANSKY
CC:	HUBIE::ETHERRIEN,SEGAL
Subj:	DEC's Insensitivity (Valuing Differences) on Ken's Farewell Party

    Wayne,
    
    Once again  DEC  shows  it's  total  insensitivity  to the DEC Jewish
    population!!  Planning  Ken's  farewell  "party" on one of the 3 most
    Holy days in the  Jewish religion is the ultimate "slap-in-the face",
    and again shows DEC's true stripes regarding "valuing differences".
    
    Almost every year DEC plans  a  major event (usually DECWorld) on one
    of the major Jewish Holidays, and  each  time this is pointed out DEC
    apologizes and promises "not to do it  again".  It doesn't take a lot
    of effort to check a calendar and ask  someone  of  the  Jewish faith
    prior to setting important DEC events, but in my  12+ years at DEC it
    has  become quite obvious that this is too much to  expect  from  our
    Company.
    
    As an engineer that has worked 11 years in the Mill  and  has had the
    privilege of chatting with Ken a few times in the past, I  am  deeply
    insulted  that  DEC  has  made it impossible for me to say goodbye to
    Ken.  I have the utmost respect for Ken, and I am sure that  he would
    be appalled if he were to know that his "party" was being held on the
    Jewish New Year.
    
    Although I seriously doubt that anyone will pay attention to it, I am
    attaching a copy of  a  recent  MAIL  message  which lists the Jewish
    Holidays  through  1999 and includes  a  brief  description  of  each
    holiday.  [You may note that numerous people in Personnel were copied
    on the attached  MAIL.    This proves my point that Personnel doesn't
    "truly" value differences!]
    
    Len Segal    

From:	NAME: STEINHART                      <STEINHART@TNPUBS@USCTR1@MRGATE@USCTR1@MRO>
Date:	15-Sep-1992
Posted-date: 15-Sep-1992
Precedence: 1
Subject: Jewish holidays calendar.  OK to distribute as you see fit.
To:	PROCTOR.BARCY@A1



                     The Major Jewish Holy Days

    Digital's Jewish VoD Group knows that our holy days, which follow an
    adjusted lunar calendar, can be confusing.  We provide this 
    information to reference when you schedule Digital events. 

    Sometimes staff events or business functions have been scheduled at
    times when Jewish employees or customers  haven't been able to attend. 
    Perhaps this calendar can prevent such oversights.

    As in many cultures, not all Jews observe the major holy days or the
    Sabbath.  However, their observance is extremely important to those
    who do observe them.  Please ask people and respect the needs of those
    who are bound by religious obligations.

    Holy days and the Sabbath (Saturday) begin at sunset of the preceding
    common calendar day and end about an hour after sunset of the following
    day.  An observant Jew may not travel on a holy day or on the Sabbath
    and must allow travel time from work to reach home 20 minutes before
    sunset.  In New England sunset varies from about 3:45 pm in December to
    about 8 pm in July. 

    The description of the holy days below follows their sequence through
    the common year (January to December). Specific holy day  dates from
    1992 to 1997 are also attached for your information.  The holy days do
    not occur on the same day of the common calendar each year because the
    Jewish year is based on a lunar calendar, in which the month begins
    with the new moon.

    Chanukah is not a major holy day and has no work or travel
    restrictions.

             Condensed Guide to the Jewish Holy Days 

    PASSOVER (PESACH) - Commemorates the Exodus of the Jewish people from
    ancient Egypt. Special dietary restrictions begin the morning of the
    previous day and continue for eight days.  The SEDER, a family or
    communal meal and ritual, is conducted with family and friends the
    first two evenings.  The first two and last two days of Passover are
    holy days.

    PENTECOST (SHAVUOT) - Celebrates the giving of the Torah (law)  and Ten
    Commandments to the Jews at Mt. Sinai.

    JEWISH NEW YEAR (ROSH HASHONAH) - A two-day observance that starts the
    High Holy Days season.  It includes extended synagogue services.

    DAY OF ATONEMENT (YOM KIPPUR) - Fast day and extended  synagogue
    services, with many special prayers.

    FEAST OF BOOTHS (SUKKOT) - Commemorates the Jewish people's wanderings
    in the desert. Meals are eaten in the SUKKAH, a special temporary
    festival hut.  The first two days of Sukkot  are holy days.

    EIGHTH DAY OF ASSEMBLY (SHEMINI ATZERET) AND REJOICING IN THE TORAH
    (SIMHAT TORAH) - Special two-day celebration  closing the High Holy
    Days season that began on Rosh Hashonah. 





                        1992 Major Jewish Holy Days

     Sa Apr 18 Passover, 1st day        M  Sep 28 New Year (5753), 1st day
     S  Apr 19 Passover, 2nd day        T  Sep 29 New Year, 2nd day
     F  Apr 24 Passover, 7th day        W  Oct 7  Day of Atonement
     Sa Apr 25 Passover, 8th day        M  Oct 12 Feast of Booths, 1st day     
     S  Jun 7  Pentecost, 1st day       T  Oct 13 Feast of Booths, 2nd day
     M  Jun 8  Pentecost, 2nd day       M  Oct 19 Eighth Day of Assembly
                                        T  Oct 20 Rejoicing in the Torah

                        1993 Major Jewish Holy Days

     T  Apr 6  Passover, 1st day        Th Sep 16 New Year (5754), 1st day 
     W  Apr 7  Passover, 2nd day        F  Sep 17 New Year, 2nd day
     M  Apr 12 Passover, 7th day        Sa Sep 25 Day of Atonement
     T  Apr 13 Passover, 8th day        Th Sep 30 Feast of Booths, 1st day
     W  May 26 Pentecost, 1st day       F  Oct 1  Feast of Booths, 2nd day
     Th May 27 Pentecost, 2nd day       Th Oct 7  Eighth Day of Assembly
                                        F  Oct 8  Rejoicing in the Torah

                        1994 Major Jewish Holy Days

     S  Mar 27  Passover, 1st day       T  Sep 6  New Year (5755), 1st day
     M  Mar 28  Passover, 2nd day       W  Sep 7  New Year, 2nd day
     Sa Apr 2  Passover, 7th day        Th Sep 15 Day of Atonement
     S  Apr 3  Passover, 8th day        T  Sep 20 Feast of Booths, 1st day
     M  May 16 Pentecost, 1st day       W  Sep 21 Feast of Booths, 2nd day
     T  May 17 Pentecost, 2nd day       T  Sep 27 Eighth Day of Assembly
                                        W  Sep 28 Rejoicing in the Torah

                        1995 Major Jewish Holy Days

     Sa Apr 15 Passover, 1st day        M  Sep 25 New Year (5756), 1st day
     S  Apr 16 Passover, 2nd day        T  Sep 26 New Year, 2nd day
     F  Apr 21 Passover, 7th day        W  Oct 4  Day of Atonement
     Sa Apr 22 Passover, 8th day        M  Oct 9  Feast of Booths, 1st day
     S  Jun 4  Pentecost, 1st day       T  Oct 10 Feast of Booths, 2nd day
     M  Jun 5  Pentecost, 2nd day       M  Oct 16 Eighth Day of Assembly
                                        T  Oct 17 Rejoicing in the Torah

                        1996 Major Jewish Holy Days

     Th Apr 4  Passover, 1st day        Sa Sep 14 New Year (5757), 1st day
     F  Apr 5  Passover, 2nd day        S  Sep 15 New Year, 2nd day
     W  Apr 10 Passover, 7th day        M  Sep 23 Day of Atonement
     Th Apr 11 Passover, 8th day        Sa Sep 28 Feast of Booths, 1st day      
     F  May 24 Pentecost, 1st day       S  Sep 29 Feast of Booths, 2nd day
     Sa Sep 25 Pentecost, 2nd day       Sa Oct 5  Eighth Day of Assembly
                                        S  Oct 6  Rejoicing in the Torah

                        1997 Major Jewish Holy Days

     T  Apr 22 Passover, 1st day        Th Oct 2  New Year (5758), 1st day
     W  Apr 23 Passover, 2nd day        F  Oct 3  New Year, 2nd day
     M  Apr 28 Passover, 7th day        S  Oct 11 Day of Atonement
     T  Apr 29 Passover, 8th day        Th Oct 16 Feast of Booths, 1st day
     W  Jun 11 Pentecost, 1st day       F  Sep 17 Feast of Booths, 2nd day
     Th Jun 12 Pentecost, 2nd day       Th Oct 23 Eighth Day of Assembly
                                        F  Oct 24  Rejoicing in the Torah

                        1998 Major Jewish Holy Days

     Sa Apr 11 Passover, 1st day        M  Sep 21 New Year (5759), 1st day
     S  Apr 12 Passover, 2nd day        T  Sep 22 New Year, 2nd day
     F  Apr 17 Passover, 7th day        W  Sep 30 Day of Atonement
     Sa Apr 18 Passover, 8th day        M  Oct 5  Feast of Booths, 1st day
     S  May 31 Pentecost, 1st day       T  Oct 6  Feast of Booths, 2nd day
     M  Jun 1  Pentecost, 2nd day       M  Oct 12 Eighth Day of Assembly
                                        T  Oct 13 Rejoicing in the Torah

                        1999 Major Jewish Holy Days

     Th Apr 1  Passover, 1st day        Sa Sep 11 New Year (5760), 1st day
     F  Apr 2  Passover, 2nd day        S  Sep 12 New Year, 2nd day
     W  Apr 7  Passover, 7th day        M  Sep 20 Day of Atonement
     Th Apr 8  Passover, 8th day        Sa Sep 25 Feast of Booths, 1st day
     F  May 21 Pentecost, 1st day       S  Sep 26 Feast of Booths, 2nd day
     Sa May 22 Pentecost, 2nd day       Sa Oct 2  Eighth Day of Assembly
                                        S  Oct 3  Rejoicing in the Torah
	 

         Thank you for your consideration,

         The Jewish Constituency Group

To Distribution List:

ANNETTE ALBRIGHT @MSO,
NAME: Allan Csiky @MSO <CSIKY.ALLAN AT A1 at ICS at PKO>,
NAME: BRUCE DAVIDSON <DAVIDSON.BRUCE AT A1 at ICS at PKO>,
NAME: LAURIE MARGOLIES <MARGOLIES.LAURIE AT A1 at ICS at PKO>,
NAME: JOHN MURPHY <MURPHY.JOHN AT A1 at ICS at PKO>,
JOSE RAMIREZ @MSO,
HENRY BURNETT @MSO,
cromwell@ics@vmsmail,
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JAY PALERMO @MSO

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1264.1Personnel Memo on Ken's Farewell PartySEGAL::SEGALLen Segal, MLO6-1/U30, 223-7687Fri Sep 25 1992 16:48104
    The following memo from Personnel is what spawned my scathing memo to
    the authors of  the  attached  memo.  It never ceases to amaze me the
    amount  of  lip service  we  pay  to  Valuing  DIfferences,  but  the
    follow-through (at least to those  of  the  Jewish  faith)  is always
    lacking.    [For  new-comers, there are  numerous  Notes  here  about
    DECWorld/DECVille, etc.  falling on Passover and  the  High Holidays,
    almost every year that they are run.]
    
    Happy New Year to all Bagelers and their Families,
    
    Len Segal

    P.S.  I forwarded the previous MAIL to  Ann  Jenkins  as  well (Ken's
    Secretary).
    
From:	HUBIE::ETHERRIEN "MILL SITE EMPLOYEE RELATIONS / 223-9250  23-Sep-1992 1612" 23-SEP-1992 16:43:40.91
Subj:	FAREWELL GATHERING FOR KEN OLSEN



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                              		       INTEROFFICE MEMORANDUM
                                       		 			
	 				       DATE: 23 SEP 92 
                                       	       FROM: Wayne Pomiansky
					       DTN:  223-3263
					       NODE: ICS::POMIANSKY
	 				       MS:   MLO3-4/E95

    TO:  All Mill Site Managers	 					     
    

    SUBJ:  FAREWELL GATHERING FOR KEN OLSEN


    Please foward the attached memo throughout your organizations as
    quickly as possible to accommodate all who would like to attend 
    the September 29th farewell event.

    Thanks in advance for your cooperation.


    Wayne Pomiansky, Manager
    Mill Site Personnel Operations



	 
         
      
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                              		       INTEROFFICE MEMORANDUM
                                       		 			
	 				       DATE: 23 SEP 92 
                                       	       FROM: Wayne Pomiansky
					       DTN:  223-3263
					       NODE: ICS::POMIANSKY
	 				       MS:   MLO3-4/E95

    TO:  All Mill Site Employees	


    SUBJ:  FAREWELL GATHERING FOR KEN OLSEN	 
         
    
  
    After 37 years as Founder, Chairman and Chief Executive Officer, 
    Ken Olsen will be retiring from Digital on September 30th.  He leaves 
    behind him an unprecedented legacy to the computer industry and to our 
    Company.  As we all know, Ken started Digital here at the Mill and 
    led the Company to its position as the second largest computer corporation 
    in the world.
        
    Before he leaves the Mill to take up residence in Stow, an informal 
    opportunity is being provided specifically for Mill site employees to
    wish Ken well in a personal way.  This event will take place in the 
    cafeteria on Tuesday, September 29th, beginning at 2:15 p.m. and will 
    last for about 45 minutes.  All MLO employees are cordially invited to 
    participate.

    Looking forward to seeing you there!!



    Wayne Pomiansky, Manager
    Mill Site Personnel Operations
1264.2May be easier in the futureMR4DEC::RICHFri Sep 25 1992 19:2522
    I just attended a meeting that discussed the possibility of a corporate
    wide events strategy and calendar. In the last four or five years,
    nothing even close to this has existed. If and when this occurs, it
    will be much easier to sanity check events not just conflicting with
    OUR calendar needs, but those of other groups as well.
    
    There are at least a 1000 events of one kind or another planned at DEC
    every year (this is not hyberbole). Don't assume that people go out of 
    their way to be insensitive. Most of it is ignorance or lack of time.
    
    We need to be more pro-active and check dates ourselves. Ever called a
    meeting on ASH Wednesday? or the start of RAMADAN? Ever schedule an
    event where there was no alternative to a meat course for the
    vegitarians in the group? Ever vollunteer to cover work for someone on
    GOOD FRIDAY?
    
    With a strategy and calendar of ALL coroporate events, we will
    hopefully have enough lead time to meet all of the needs of our
    corporate colleagues and our customers too. (remember DECWorld on 
    High Hollidays makes it tough on Jewish customers too)
    
    Neil
1264.3Foresight clear as mudCSCMA::GILDERFri Sep 25 1992 19:4313
    I have the highest regard for KO and Ann Jenkins.  Neither one is
    brainless.  Rosh Hashanah is listed on our Desk Calendars.  As far as
    KO being appalled if he knew, that's something different.
    
    It is my understanding that many of the Jewish employees only take the
    one day off as opposed to the two.  
    
    I agree the arranger of the gathering should have planned better.
    
    I think it's sad that we who don't work at the Mill have the
    opportunity to say good bye.
    
    me
1264.4NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Sep 25 1992 20:274
re .3:

Only one day is listed on both of my DEC-issue calendars.  Of course, that's
no excuse.
1264.5NAC::OFSEVITcard-carrying memberFri Sep 25 1992 22:5966
    Folks,

    	I've been discussing this with a few people on the Jewish
    Constituency Group today.  Opinions on what to do are all over the map;
    a number of flame-o-grams (as well as tactful messages), supporting Len
    and dumping on whoever screwed this up, have been composed and
    discarded already.  

    	Apparently some people in the Mill who were responsible for this
    event have been informed that they goofed, and they feel bad about it
    and are much less likely to do it again.  It seems to have been a
    genuine error of omission, more a matter of lack of information rather
    than insensitivity.  As you can see in the attached memo, a notice did
    go out, but too late to save the current problem.

    	The Jewish Constituency Group has no hierarchy or spokespeople, so
    the following is strictly my opinion:  The KO party, however much
    people would like to attend it, is not a mandatory business meeting
    which will cause damage to the job of somebody who misses it.  We don't
    know whether the incidence of meetings scheduled on the holidays is up
    or down this year, but it is worth noting that Len's message included
    the holiday schedule that was published a few months ago.  You can look
    at it that the activity of the group has at least helped empower Len to
    send the memo.  Therefore, I'm not going to send *my* flame-o-gram, but
    I'm going to keep my antennae tuned for what happens next.

    	And, on that note, l'shanah tovah tikatavu to all, and if I have
    offended you knowingly or unknowingly, please forgive me.

    		David

    --------------------

From:	NAME: RON GLOVER                    
	FUNC: Corporate Employee Relations    
	TEL: 508-493-9569                     <GLOVER.RON AT A1 at ICS at PKO>
Date:	24-Sep-1992
Posted-date: 24-Sep-1992
Precedence: 1
Subject: Holidays                                                               1
To:     See Below



    In the interest of Valuing Diversity and good Employee Relations, I 
    would like to encourage you to remember the significant religious 
    cultural holidays and celebrations that occur throughout the year for 
    our employees.  It makes sense that a role we play with line managers 
    is to help them understand the significance of these and to be 
    sensitive to when holidays fall and what they mean.
    
    Next week marks the beginning of the Jewish High Holiday season.  Rosh 
    Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, is a two-day observance which includes 
    extended synagogue services and begins Sunday evening.
    
    Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, begins at sundown on October 6th and 
    is a one day holiday, including a fast and extended synagogue services.
    
    As in many cultures, not all Jews observe the major holy days nor do 
    all observe them the same way; however, I do urge you to ask your 
    managers to respect these days and not require presence, or plan 
    significant meetings or trips that would affect those who are committed 
    to these days.
    
    As the year continues, the U.S. diversity calendar will describe days 
    such as these to assist you and your management teams.
1264.6Worse Yet...Planner IS Jewish and Knew of Conflict!!EMIRFI::SEGALLen Segal, MLO6-1/U30, 223-7687Sat Sep 26 1992 00:3416
    To make  matters  worse,  the author of the memo in .1 IS JEWISH.  He
    sent me MAIL  today  advising me that he had consulted another person
    (an observant Jew) and  decided to go with the 29th anyway!!  Wayne's
    excuse was that there was  tight  scheduling and he was attempting to
    minimize any inconvenience to Ken!
    
    Wayne's reply only served to make  me  angrier.    It's  one thing to
    unintentionally (by ignorance) plan a "one-of-a-kind" event  for Rosh
    Hashanah, but it is unforgivable to do so  in  full knowledge of this
    conflict.
    
    We are our own worst enemies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    
    Happy New Year to All,
    
    Len
1264.7COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Sep 28 1992 14:351
Based on .6, I would suggest that the title of this topic be changed...