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Conference taveng::bagels

Title:BAGELS and other things of Jewish interest
Notice:1.0 policy, 280.0 directory, 32.0 registration
Moderator:SMURF::FENSTER
Created:Mon Feb 03 1986
Last Modified:Thu Jun 05 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1524
Total number of notes:18709

789.0. "Jewish Marriage Encounter ?" by DNEAST::SPECTOR_DAVI () Thu Oct 05 1989 11:02

    
    
    My wife , who is Catholic, and I attended a weekend workshop called
    Marriage Encounter recentely. It was started and given by the Catholic 
    church and its intent is to get couples closer and communicating better by
    helping them focus in on feelings. The major component is a daily
    structured period called Dialogueing where the couple uses specific tools
    to accomplish this.
    
    I understand that the program is now spreading to both Protestant and
    Jewish adhearents. The basic program stays the same only the religious
    aspect would change to that particular belief.
    
    I'm interested in knowing if any of you have attended the Jewish
    version and, if so, how they approached the spiritual piece of it.
    
    
    Thanks,
    David 
    
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789.1we wentCADSYS::RICHARDSONThu Oct 05 1989 13:4422
    Paul and I went,  last January ('88).  It was over Martin Luther King Day
    weekend, since of course it could not start until after sunset on
    Saturday (not that we get Martin Luther King Day off around here
    anyhow, but some people do), down in or near Rhode Island someplace (I
    forget exactly where; anyhow, we drove there during a torrential
    rainstorm and were lucky to locate the hotel).  It started with a
    havdalah service and dinner, and one of the organizers was a rabbi (I
    think he is a Conservative rabbi, but I'm not sure).  A lot of the
    discussion centered on how a Jewish home works, and a lot of the
    attendees were more observant than we are (I am not sure if the food was
    certified kosher, but there definitely were no ingredients or mixtures
    of ingredients that were out-and-out treif).  It was a very nice
    experience (especially sitting around the tables after meals singing
    the blessing after meals - we usually don't do this except at formal
    occasions).  A lot of couples from our schul have attended at one time
    or another.  The experience certainly reminded me how lucky I am to
    have Paul around...!
    
    We haven't kept up the notebooks you write - I think most people don't,
    actually.
    
    /Charlotte
789.2Contact name and phone #?CURIE::TOBINFri Oct 06 1989 16:164
    Can anyone post a name and phone number to get more information about
    signing up for Jewish marriage encounter?
    
    Thanks
789.3ask our synagogue secretary; I expect it is in the filesHECTOR::RICHARDSONFri Oct 13 1989 14:333
    I don't have the contact phone number, but I imagine you can get it
    from our schul, since so many people have gone.  Congregation B'nai
    Shalom (Westboro, MA), phone (508)366-7191.