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Conference taveng::bagels

Title:BAGELS and other things of Jewish interest
Notice:1.0 policy, 280.0 directory, 32.0 registration
Moderator:SMURF::FENSTER
Created:Mon Feb 03 1986
Last Modified:Thu Jun 05 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1524
Total number of notes:18709

770.0. "Jewish-oriented daycare" by CLYPPR::WASSERMAN (Deb Wasserman, DTN 264-1863) Tue Sep 12 1989 10:42

    I'm looking for Jewish-oriented full-time daycare in the Nashua/Hollis
    area starting in mid-February.  I've always thought home daycare was
    better for infants than a daycare center, but my husband and I are a
    little uncomfortable with the idea of having our baby taken care of in
    a strongly non-Jewish home, especially around holiday-time, etc.
    
    I'm aware of the DEC referral program, and will be starting to check
    out the references they sent me.
    
    -  Do any other BAGELer parents have the same concerns over daycare?
    
    -  Does anyone have any referrals they could offer?
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770.1JEWISH ORIENTED DAYCARE??JAIMES::FOXTue Sep 12 1989 15:3720
    Deb:
    
    I HAVe had similar concerns; my two children have been in non-Jewish
    family day care, and we had (in the past) 2 non-Jewish nannies.
    I was not comfortable. Even now, in the supposedly non-sectarian
    daycare center where the kids are (they're 3 and 5), a BIG fuss
    is made over Christmas and an attempt made to make a somewhat
    comparable fuss over Chanukah (obviously no know that Chanukah and
    XMAS are not comparable in scope in within their respective religions).
    I've tried to do a bit of ad hoc educating but some of what I've
    talked about seems so EXOTIC (e.g. Shavuot, keeping Shabbat, 8 days
    of Sukkot) even to the Jewish teeachers!!
    
    So...what is my point. We're thinking of day school for the kids,
    in the Boston area where we live.
    
    Regarding your situation, I'd mention to the R & R counselor you
    wqork with that you're looking for a Jewish family day care home
    (if you haven't already done this). I'm not sure there are many
    Jewish families doing daycare in your area..but it's worth a try.
770.2LDYBUG::PINCKAmy Pinck, Long Live the DuckWed Sep 13 1989 10:3310
    
    I know this is not much, but it is a pointer.  Last
    Sat. I remember seeing something on the office window
    at Temple Israel in Natick.  I am not sure of any
    details but it was about day care.  Maybe it
    is worth giving the synogogue a call?
    
    Good luck,
    Amy
    
770.3Call ALL local synagoguesUSEM::ROSENZWEIGFri Sep 15 1989 18:017
    Call all the synagogues in the area.  Look in the phone book....
    and call the Chabad center in Boston...there is a very large
    orthodox network on this.  The reform and conservative synagogues
    should also know of something to answer your needs.
    
    Good luck.
    	
770.4Let 'em know you're there!ULTRA::OFSEVITcard-carrying memberMon Sep 18 1989 11:0221
    	I don't know what's available in southern N.H., but I do know that
    the CJP and related social service agencies in the Boston area are
    trying to stimulate Jewish-oriented services for preschool children, to
    the tune of some serious startup money to get Jewish nursery schools
    started.  I'm  not aware of whether they're actively working on daycare
    centers yet, but once you get into the subject (of what to do about
    preschoolers) it's hard to avoid daycare.  

    	If your local federation (again, I don't really know what passes
    for a CJP equivalent in N.H.) isn't aware of this, or isn't working on
    it, you might give CJP (617-524-8080) or the Jewish Family and
    Children's Service (617-227-6641) a call.  They might be aware of
    something.

    	Certainly, Jewish adults in the childbearing years are in the same
    boat as the general population, needing more and better child care,
    with more extended hours, as families increasingly become dual-income. 
    I applaud the desire to include some Jewish component in this.  Every
    little bit helps.

    			David