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Title: Weight Loss and Maintenance
Notice:**PLEASE** enter notes in mixed case (CAPS ARE SHOUTING)!
Moderator:ASICS::LESLIE
Created:Mon Jul 09 1990
Last Modified:Tue Jun 03 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:933
Total number of notes:9931

594.0. "HELP!! DISCOURAGEMENT SETTING IN!!" by DELNI::G_KELLY () Wed Aug 08 1990 15:07

    I am getting so discouraged......for the last month, I have been going
    to aerobic classes at least 5 times a week, and I have also been trying
    very hard to cut down on the amount of fat I eat.  Sometimes I eat
    things I shouldn't, but for the most part, I feel like I've really cut
    down and cut out alot of fat.  I had lost 10 pounds, but in the last
    week or so, I put 5 back on...WHY????!!!! No, it's NOT that time of the
    month, and no, I'm not one who usually retains water.....I've also been
    trying to drink more water too.....I just feel so defeated right
    now....like, why should I even bother.......I'm obviously doing
    something wrong, but WHAT??!! I guess maybe it's time I joined WW or
    Diet Workshop or something that's structured.....I don't know...I'm
    at the point where I just don't know what to do anymore.....
    
    Anyone have any suggestions for me?? 
    
    I can use all the hhelp I can get......
    
    thanks,
    
    Gen
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594.1COOKIE::BELLKerry Bell, Colorado Springs, COWed Aug 08 1990 16:3420

	Gen,

	Have you thought about the possibility of gaining muscle??
	Aerobics five times a week is quite a bit of exercise.
	It could have shifted things around a little.  How are your
	clothes fitting?  Don't look at the scale for a while and
	concentrate on how you're *feeling*.  AND DON'T GIVE UP!!
	You have the right idea with the water, exercise, and decreased
	fats.  How's the amount of fruit and veggies compare to the
	amount of refined carbos you're eating.  Try and get 5 servings
	a day of fruit and/or veggies.  Think LONG TERM!!  You're gonna
	start feeling better.  That's the first step.  Keep up the
	routine and the weight *will* come off.  Also, how close are
	you 'til goal?  If you're real close you know it's just gonna
	take a while.  This notes conference and the PROGRESS conference
	are a great means of support for me.  Keep in touch!

	Kerry
594.2STAY OFF THE SCALE!!!!DELNI::G_KELLYWed Aug 08 1990 16:5919
    Thanks Kerry....I really don't want to give up.....and I know that I
    should stay away from that stupid scale!!  I mean, my clothes
    definitely fit better than they did a month ago.......
    
    I'm not even close to goal.....I have approx. 45 lbs to lose, so I
    figured that it should be coming off quicker than it is.....ya, I guess
    there is the possibility that I am gaining some muscle, which is good,
    but shouldn't I still be losing fat/weight at the same time???
    
    O.K...that's it!!  I'm not going near my scale for at least another
    week!! And I'm not giving up either!!  I just have to try to be more
    patient and realize that this isn't going to happen overnight......
    
    Thanks again, Kerry......
    
    Have a good day...
    
    Gen
                                              
594.3You win twice with muscle weight...CLOSUS::TAVARESJohn--Stay Low, Keep Moving!Wed Aug 08 1990 20:169
It can be discouraging when you exercise to lose weight and you
wind up gaining.  I've also attributed this to muscle weight, and
I find that it takes up to a couple of months to see any real
weight loss...of course, as the body tightens, the clothes fit
better!

Look at it this way, not only are you burning calories
in exercise, but more importantly, the muscle tone you're putting
on will burn more calories by just being there.  
594.4O.K...I'll be patient.....DELNI::G_KELLYWed Aug 08 1990 20:438
    Ya...you are right about gaining muscle and in turn the muscle burning
    fat......so I will try as hard as I can not to get discouraged, and I
    will watch my diet very carefully, and I will NOT GIVE UP!! And I will
    try as hard as I can to stay away from the stupid scale!!
    
    thanks!!
    
    Gen
594.5The one who endures to the end wins....RHETT::WILLIAMSWed Aug 08 1990 23:3515
Also remember to stay at the low end of your target heart zone while doing
aerobic activity or else you are not buring fat, you are buring blood
sugar and working your cardiovascular system.  I learned this from someone
in the Aerobics notesfile.  Aerobics 5 times a week is what I am striving
for too.  Keep up the good work.  It will come off...albeit slow..but it
will be for sure!!!!

One sure way to see a change is to take measurement at least twice a month.
This way you will see the inches dropping...Someone once told me that muscle
gain is not really fast especially for women...If there is a difference in
your clothes there is a difference that just isn't showing on the scale yet.

"Be encouraged, hang in there, don't give up, you can make it" ---words from
my favorite song.   "Run and not get weary - Nicoleous"
Loretta
594.6I'll watch it more carefully.....DELNI::G_KELLYThu Aug 09 1990 17:0518
    Hi Loretta...and thanks...
    
    Y'know, I have a feeling that I may be going way above my target alot
    of the time.....I know I should try to keep it low cuz I know I should
    to burn fat....the problem is that I always have a hard time finding
    my pulse.....even the instructors have a hard time finding it
    sometimes...maybe I should get one of those watches that takes your
    pulse.....hmmm......that's a thought, then I could really monitor it
    perfectly and make sure I'm not too high......
    
    Thanks for the encouragement, and I WON'T GIVE UP!!!  I like the words
    to your favorite song!!  
    
    Good luck to you too!
    
    Gen
    
                               
594.7COOKIE::BELLKerry Bell, Colorado Springs, COThu Aug 09 1990 20:4825
	Gen,

	Staying off the scale is a good idea.  Doesn't WW not allow
	you to weigh yourself at all except at their meetings?
	I weigh myself every morning (no clothes on, after the first
	visit to the bathroom).

	Even tho I weigh in every day, I only *count* the one on 
	Monday mornings before I post my weight in the PROGRESS conference.  
	Sounds weird but I've learned to ignore the weights inbetween 
	Mondays and use them just for my own information/motivation, etc.
	I can flucuate a lot during the week...  If I went day to day
	rather than Monday to Monday, I'd drive myself nuts!
	Also, I picked Monday to do my weigh-in cuz it helps me
	do a little better on the weekends where I usually have
	the most trouble.

	But until you are disiplined enough to ignore the daily weight
	and concentrate on the weekly one, definately stay off of it!
	
	And I had a feeling your clothes were fitting better!  Good for
	you!!  

	Kb