| Of course your Dr. recommended the program if he's involved with
it, and can make a buck off you. You must know that what your
boyfriend is saying is right. Any quick fix won't last in the long
run. Even Oprah Winfrey agrees to that. I had 49 pounds to lose
and I spent a lot of time before deciding on the Jenny Craig plan.
This is discussed in note 527. All I can say is That in 8 weeks
I have lost 18 pounds, do not feel like I am depriving myself, am
still able to go to a restaurant and dine with friends, and am
learning so many new techniques about eating taht once the weight
is gone, I know it will never come back. My advice is to think
twice about a quick fix.
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Hi,
Thanks for your feedback!!
I have tried other methods of weightloss, one of them being Weight
Watchers which is a slow loss and you are more likely to keep it off.
I know how to eat right....I know what I should/shouldn't eat. I know
all the reasons why I should eat healthy, I just can't. I'm so
disgusted with the way I look, I can't go to the health club and
exercise cuz I'm embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I'd love to really
get out there and have fun. I'd love to go swimming and bicycling and
all kinds of atheletic things, but I just can't.
I have no clothes. I forgot to mention that I was down 40lbs a little
over a year ago (I had lost 20 lbs on WW and put on 40). I have zero
clothes. I have nothing to wear this winter and can't imagine myself
in a sweater and jeans. God how I'd love to wear a big, bulky sweater
and a nice pair of tightish blue jeans. I can't get into **any** of my
old clothes and my wardrobe is so slim now...I can't afford any new
clothes.
If I do the medifast, I should be down to my goal weight by Christmas.
Which isn't that far away. Has anyone out there succeeded in losing
and maintaining a weightloss on Medifast???
My dr is a fitness finatic and he's not the type to push anything
unhealthy. I really have faith in him and like the idea of him
watching over me weekly while I do this.
Donna
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| I'm not trying to sell you on any particular program. You know
what's best for you. And believe me when I tell you, I know exactly
how you feel, I have been there myself. I'm still working to overcome
the whole weight issue.
But after the 50 pounds is gone, after Christmas, say next summer...
are the 50 puonds still going to be gone? Maybe it's more
pshchological than just overeating. All I'm trying to say is that
I really want you to be successful, this should be your last weightloss
program. Knowing yourself, do you think just losing 50 puonds is
going to solve your weight problem?
Please don't think I'm being negative, because that is not my intent.
And maybe I'm projecting some of my own issues in this note, But
we all learn from each other. Whatever you decide, I'll give you
100% of my support.
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| Donna,
As I said in an earlier response, my best friend and I went on the
buddy system to lose weight. She went to a nutritionalist, and started
the medifast program, and I supported her by dieting too. She has done
well on the program, and has kept her weight off. But the most
important thing to stress is that she also went through behavioral
modification therapy. We both did. The reason most people regain their
weight - I was told, is that they still have a self image of being a
fat person. I maintain a slim image of myself now, and if I close my
eyes, that's what I see.
After a year and a half, that image is still picture clear, and I feel
so good about the way that I look now. My self-esteem is as high as
it's ever been. There's nothing that I think I can't do. Once, you get
it in your mind to think about the foods you CAN eat, as opposed to the
foods you CAN'T eat, you'll be surprised how much easier it will get.
You have a right to be apprehensive about failing. All of us have. I've
failed more times than I care to count. That's why I can relate to what
you're going through. It's so easy for someone to say, " All you have
to do is eat right and exercise." Sure, that's easy for a thin person
to say. The problems which led to my weight gain, and weight retention
was to due to the depression - divorce, finances, etc. It would have
been impossible to overcome had I not had someone to really talk to.
Find someone whom you can confide in and really get to the core of the
apprehensions you have. I'd recommend another female friend, or an
objective outsider. I'd be more than willing to talk to you, and
support you when you need a shoulder. After all, someone was there for
me...
I very best to you,
Barb
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