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| 412.1 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Pas Fini! | Mon Jan 20 1997 11:19 | 56 |
| 412.2 | | QUOKKA::3324::CURRAN | | Mon Jan 20 1997 11:33 | 22 |
| 412.3 | More on the situation | QUOKKA::30086::BLASKO | | Mon Jan 20 1997 12:41 | 35 |
| 412.4 | | MIASYS::HETRICK | | Mon Jan 20 1997 13:01 | 62 |
| 412.5 | | QUOKKA::39702::SPICER | | Mon Jan 20 1997 13:08 | 22 |
| 412.6 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Pas Fini! | Mon Jan 20 1997 13:35 | 23 |
| 412.7 | | MKOTS3::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Tue Jan 21 1997 10:29 | 15 |
| 412.8 | Jurisdiction | QUOKKA::30086::BLASKO | | Wed Jan 22 1997 11:31 | 10 |
| 412.9 | | QUOKKA::3324::CURRAN | | Wed Jan 22 1997 12:32 | 7 |
| 412.10 | | QUOKKA::24661::DEWITT | running on fire and dreams... | Wed Jan 22 1997 12:55 | 4 |
| 412.11 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Pas Fini! | Wed Jan 22 1997 15:31 | 24 |
| 412.12 | He's changed roles now!!! | QUOKKA::30086::BLASKO | | Mon Jan 27 1997 13:59 | 24 |
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I have got to type this in here...........................
I guess now that Jane agreed to what Dick wanted he is feeling powerful.
He had to drive to Conn to get his daughter this past weekend because
Jane wasn't able to meet him or drive her the whole way. Needless to
say, he didn't want to take his daughter if he had to drive. His
daughter really wanted to go and talked to him which is why he did it.
He had alot of nasty words for Jane because of it. Anyway,
while have the daughter for the weekend he told her things like your
mother is only moving to keep us about, your mother refused to drive
you to me because she doesn't want me to see you etc.. Now never that
we know of has he done this in the past. Now that he has
joint custody he changed. He's very nasty and not working with Jane
at all!!! WHY can't these ignorant people understand thier hurting
their kids? It erks me to know end. He even kept half the clothes
she sent!!! uuugghhhh And of course, she's having a hard time with
her daughter because of it!!!!!!!!
venting........
deb
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| 412.13 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Pas Fini! | Mon Jan 27 1997 17:47 | 10 |
| re .12
> venting........
Ah, If only people were anywhere near as upset when literally
thousands women pull this type of *^&^%@.
MEGO :== My Eyes Glaze Over
fred();
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| 412.14 | | MKOTS3::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Tue Jan 28 1997 09:21 | 13 |
| A friend of mine, whose ex and children moved to WV 2 years ago, has
joined them. He, the friend, was a blue color worker, and although
will miss his family in New Hampshire, also knows that his children,
despite the crap that goes on in divorce, need him too. I am not
promoting all divorced dads quit their jobs and follow the kids around
the country. But, its a good sign of faith in his behalf. I know that I
was ready to follow my ex to be a father to my daughter, had things
gone the wrong way. I realize the debate over who and why the move. But
in the end, its for the kids. Perhaps the ex might quit the running.
Perhaps in Janes case, she, like many others, should consider what
these moves can do. Dick can be a dickhead alright, but, children are
NOT exclusively moms nor dads.
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| 412.15 | | MKOTS3::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Tue Jan 28 1997 10:12 | 9 |
| ...and one last soap box entry,, it would be thoughtful, if the cp
looks at the support group where the family is, as in, if the cp is
planning on moving away, not only to get away from the ncp, what of the
aunts, uncles, cousins, and other such extended family members. Will
the children of the cp get a chance to see all grow together, or will
the have distant relatives that have no face and life other than a
named place in a fictional town, like Lake Woebegone.
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| 412.16 | more input | QUOKKA::30086::BLASKO | | Tue Jan 28 1997 12:12 | 26 |
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The only the reason why jane is moving is because she can't afford
it where she lives in Conn.. She has family that already lives in
North Carolina that can help them out. Her parents are there along
with her brother and his kids. She also has a grandparent that lives
in Florida. If anything the daughter will get to see more of relatives
than what she did. Only the father see's her here. his side of the
family doesn't have too much to do with her. Not for any reason just
one of those, that's the way it goes. Jane gets along very well with
his side of the family. Matter of fact, his sister and Jane are very
close.
She's not running from her ex by no means and wouldn't. Like I said
before, she's gotten along very well with him and has gone out of her
way to have her daughter see Dick. This is her 2nd move to N. Carolina
and the last time he ok'd the visit and didn't careless whether he saw
the daughter or not. That was about 4 yrs ago. She was by herself at
that time and was lonely not knowing anyone other than family so came back.
I feel bad for the daughter. I realize males along with females bad
mouth to the kids. Either way it's not exceptable and I can't see
why they'd do it to them.
Deb
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| 412.17 | | MKOTS3::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Wed Jan 29 1997 07:10 | 7 |
| Still the mens chances of seeing their children graduate from high
school deminish with each passing year. Men become the distant
uncle/relative in the childs life. Mother and child are paramont to
father and children when it comes to fair and just visatition. When it
comes to money and children, money is paramont to visatation. So, what
does the male see as the common message when it comes to divorce?
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