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Title:Welcome to the Non-Custodial Parents Conference
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Moderator:MIASYS::HETRICK
Created:Sun Feb 25 1990
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:420
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32.0. "A tragic situation to a single mother" by CSC32::K_JACKSON (Better living through alchemy!) Thu Mar 22 1990 21:51

  In the following reply, is an article that was obtained from the Associated 
Press News Service.  The article pertains to a very tragic situation where it 
appears that a divorced/single mother apparently murdered her children and then 
committed suicide.

  It is a tragic situation and I know it will be on alot of minds.  There are
several statistics that were quoted which I'm sure will be brought up here 
so I thought I would go ahead and take the liberty of posting the article so 
everyone will know what the story is about.

  Since it is such a tragic story, I would like to see the discussion about
the statistics be addressed in another note, so I will be putting a write 
lock on this note.  If you wish to discuss the tragedy, then feel free to.

  Also feel free to contact me if you have any questions or objections.



Your friendly moderator,


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32.1The articleCSC32::K_JACKSONBetter living through alchemy!Thu Mar 22 1990 21:5258
   Plea Scrawled at Scene of Family Slaying: `God Please Forgive Me'
                          By BRUCE V. BIGELOW
                        Associated Press Writer

   LOS ANGELES (AP) - A 15-year-old girl who squeezed through a dog
door at her friend's house found the message scrawled in black
crayon on the dining room wall: ``God please forgive me.''
   Elsewhere, she found the bodies of an out-of-work single mother
and her three children, all shot to death in what police described
as an act of desperation by a woman overwhelmed by her marital and
financial difficulties.
   The family dog also had been shot and killed.
   ``We're about 99 percent complete with the initial investigation
and we're pretty sure what happened there was a murder-suicide,''
Detective Rick Swanston said Thursday. ``There isn't anything
pointing in any other direction.''
   Crystal Erickson discovered the bodies in suburban Reseda after
school Wednesday afternoon.
   She also found a five-page suicide note by Roxanne Fernandez
Jones, 32, who said she loved her children and hated to put them
through living in a world full of strife, the Daily News reported.

   Investigators found Brandy Fernandez, 16, and her sister
Leticia, 13, in their beds, each shot in the head and chest,
Swanston said. Jeremiah Jones, 7, was shot to death in his mother's
bed, and her body was found nearby with a small-caliber rifle.
   For police, the remaining task involves examining evidence and
tying up a few administrative loose ends, Swanston said.
   But for Jones' relatives, friends and neighbors, there remain
questions that may never be answered.
   ``People suffer behind closed doors,'' said Gloria Allred, an
attorney involved in women's rights issues.
   ``It's a common problem with single parents after separation and
before legal proceedings to be in a financial and emotional
crisis.''
   Jones had been receiving support from her first husband, Joaquin
Fernandez, and she was recently separated from Jeremiah's father,
police said.
   ``If there was an informal arrangement for him to pay some of
the bills, I don't know,'' Swanston said.
   Studies by Harvard sociologist Lenore Weitzman have shown that
single mothers tend to suffer the most in the first year after
divorce, experiencing a 73 percent decline in their standard of
living. By contrast, men typically experience a 42 percent
improvement in living standards.
   Jones recently had stopped working for the Salvation Army and
apparently had been unable to find steady work, friends and
neighbors said. She had been baby-sitting and picking up odd jobs
for extra money, and recently asked neighbors for small amounts of
money.
   Brandy, her eldest, had contributed her pay from a pizzeria to
help feed the family before she was laid off from her job a week
ago, said her boyfriend, Derek Shelton, 18.
   ``Everything just wasn't going well for her,'' Lance Johnson, a
neighbor and friend, told the Los Angeles Times.
   ``I can't believe she did this,'' said Joyce Pacheco, who lives
around the corner. ``Roxanne never seemed depressed about
anything.''