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82.1 | | VMSMKT::KENAH | Escapes,Lies,Truth,Passion,Miracles | Wed Jul 28 1993 10:24 | 4 |
| Why is it that the people who talk about the pore in condoms have never
heard about surface tension?
andrew
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82.2 | | QUARK::LIONEL | I brake for rainbows | Wed Jul 28 1993 11:12 | 9 |
| Nobody I know of uses the term "safe sex", and especially "truly safe sex"
anymore. "Safer sex" is the common parlance. Are condoms 100% effective?
No. Do they significantly reduce the chance of infection and pregnancy?
Yes. So what's the idea? Don't use condoms because they might fail? That
seems rather backwards to me. If the hidden agenda is "Just say no", that's
fighting against an innate physical drive in human beings. I'd rather tell
people "If you're going to have sex, use a condom."
Steve
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82.3 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Wed Jul 28 1993 15:15 | 15 |
| re .2
>If the hidden agenda is "Just say no", that's
>fighting against an innate physical drive in human beings. I'd rather tell
>people "If you're going to have sex, use a condom."
The problem a lot of people have with the "just us a condom" crowd
is the message has been (although it is beginning to change),
"Go ahead and have all the sex you want. Just use a condom and you
will be ok". These crowd also screams bloody murder every time
anyone dares to mention that abstinence and monogamy (with an
uninfected person) are the only "safe" sex.
fred();
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82.4 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | a period of transition | Wed Jul 28 1993 15:58 | 8 |
| re .3, why do you care if other people go ahead and "have all the sex
they want"? Basically, as long as people use condoms, what is the
problem? I mean, afterall, there is going to be a limit to how much
sex most people can *get* unless they're rock stars, or sports stars,
with groupies.
Lorna
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82.5 | | CALS::DESELMS | Vincer�! | Wed Jul 28 1993 16:37 | 8 |
| RE: 4
I think the problem is that a lot of people think that if everyone has
sex willy-nilly, then it will degrade the "moral fiber" of our society.
Not that I agree. I don't think of it as degradation, but evolution.
- Jim
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82.6 | | GRANMA::MWANNEMACHER | Neck, red as Alabama clay | Wed Jul 28 1993 17:22 | 7 |
|
RE: .4 Because my tax dollars will fund the search for the cure for
the next deadly std that comes down the pike and my tax dollars will be
used to care for these people. We have a vested interest.
Mike
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82.7 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | a period of transition | Wed Jul 28 1993 17:51 | 9 |
| re .6, there's always going to be something that your tax dollars go
for, that you don't agree with. If it's not one thing, it's another.
It's beyond your control, so don't waste your time worrying about it.
Better to just be thankful *you* aren't one of the people dying of a
dreaded disease that other people don't want to pay for because they
think you caught it by engaging in immoral behavior.
Lorna
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82.8 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Wed Jul 28 1993 18:54 | 8 |
|
re .7
It's this type of attitude that has us $4T in debt and getting in
deeper to the tune of $350M/yr, and has the government confiscating
over 25% of my hard earned pay check.
fred();
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82.9 | Nill | MACNAS::MOBOYLE | | Thu Jul 29 1993 03:06 | 8 |
| Ime gona get sick.!!
If you lived in Ireland like I do you would pay 49% tax PLUS
8% Social Security which adds up to 57 % of your pay packet being
confiscated each week.
Thats 2.3 Times what you pay.
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82.10 | This topic - again ! | GYMAC::PNEAL | Hi, I'm DECresource 111xxx | Thu Jul 29 1993 07:09 | 15 |
| You people are in a sorry state - just do a double take on this line of
conversation. You've moved from condoms to the national debt inside 7 replies !!!
Steve and Lorna have their fingers on the pulse. I'd only add that in my opinion
it would be wrong of society to decide when, where and how much sex individuals
enjoy, it's better to provide people with an opportunity to protect themselves
and educate them accordingly.
You can choose to wear a condom, or you can choose not to. A woman can choose to
take the pill, or she can choose not to. You can choose to abstain, or you can
choose not to. It's your choice. I support that freedom 100%.
- Paul.
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82.11 | | AIMHI::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Thu Jul 29 1993 09:54 | 8 |
| .10 Gee, I dont see anyone going off track. It all boils down to two
things sex and money. We pay for it either way.....:)
Bet there is some social problem that you don't like the goverment
spending money on. Like guns, bombs, and nerd gas.:) Bet you might do a
dance on the ol key board about that topic. Yet, when someone else
brings for this in an unrelated topic in you eyes. Its off
track......:)
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82.12 | I luf it | TNPUBS::STEINHART | Back in the high life again | Thu Jul 29 1993 11:13 | 9 |
| George, you did another great one!
>Bet there is some social problem that you don't like the goverment
>spending money on. Like guns, bombs, and nerd gas.:)
NERD GAS! :-) :-) The cure for the computer industry's woes?
thanks,
Laura
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82.13 | | GYMAC::PNEAL | Hi, I'm DECresource 111xxx | Thu Jul 29 1993 11:29 | 15 |
| Re.11
It comes down to a little more than just Sex and Money and
this isn't a question of paying taxes.
However, in my opinion tax money can be spent trying to
avoid or minimise potential problems or it can be spent trying
to cope with the consequences. I'd rather tax money was spent
trying to avoid single parent families, abortions or the incidence
of HIV. I'd rather young people had a choice about how their
lives turn out.
That's a worthy cause for my tax dollars.
- Paul.
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82.14 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | raised by hermits | Thu Jul 29 1993 11:40 | 10 |
| re .12, Nerd gas? Better yet, perhaps it's a cure for the dating woes
of many single women?!!! :-)
(He's talking about computers again? Where's that convenient purse
sized can of nerd gas?? Just one quick spray and we'll be discussing
books, movies, music, relationships and the meaning of life!!)
Lorna
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82.15 | It may sound harsh, but.... | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Thu Jul 29 1993 12:57 | 13 |
|
Last time I checked, having sex is not an inalienable right.
If it were, rape would be legal. Nor is it a "right" to come
stick your hand in my pocket to pay for someone else's
irresponsibility.
I have every sympathy for those who contract HIV through blood
transfusion or other circumstance out of their control, but I
have little sympathy for those who contract the disease through
their irresponsible actions, especially when when they then want
_me_ to take away form my family to pay for their irresponsibility.
fred();
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82.16 | | QUARK::LIONEL | I brake for rainbows | Thu Jul 29 1993 14:05 | 5 |
| Re: .15
Ah, the "good AIDS" and "bad AIDS" distinction. Very popular choice.
Steve
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82.17 | | AIMHI::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Thu Jul 29 1993 14:13 | 1 |
| Nerd gas. Its not just a name. Its a fame!:)
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82.18 | | GRANMA::MWANNEMACHER | Neck, red as Alabama clay | Thu Jul 29 1993 14:28 | 6 |
|
RE: .16 The truth hurts sometimes.
Mike
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82.19 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Thu Jul 29 1993 14:33 | 19 |
|
re .16
>Ah, the "good AIDS" and "bad AIDS" distinction. Very popular choice.
I take it that you mean that that is a bad argument. That being
a _popular_ choice somhow makes it a bad choice. I associate it
with someone who drives off a mountain pass by accident vs someone
who tries to jump a canon with a motorcycle. The one the person has
control over, the other he may not.
The "I have a _right_ to be as irresponsible as I wanna be, then
if something bad happens I have a _right_ tho have _you_ pay for
it" attitude to be very shallow and childish in the least. If
people who get HIV have a right to have society support and care
for them, then I think society has a right to expect some level
of responsibility to not get HIV in the first place.
fred();
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82.20 | NOT the Age of Aquarius... | CARTUN::TREMELLING | Making tomorrow yesterday, today! | Thu Jul 29 1993 15:05 | 11 |
| re: <<< Note 82.19 by CSC32::HADDOCK "Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back" >>>
I'm with you, Fred. Society covering the consequence of poor/unhealthy
choices just makes it that much easier for more people to make
poor/unhealthy choices - a negative and downward spiral.
This is one example of thinking I call part of 'The Age of Entitlement'.
The general theme is 'I deserve to do whatever I want to do without having
to face any negative consequences'. I don't know if it's a U.S. or
worldwide phenomenon, but it scares me...
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82.21 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | hate is STILL not a family value | Thu Jul 29 1993 17:37 | 8 |
| John and Fred,
How many mailes are you running a week these days? Do you eat
barbequed red meat? do you or have you ever smoked? do you drive to
church on Sundays? How many hours a week do you spend in front of a
terminal and/or TV?
Meg
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82.22 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Thu Jul 29 1993 17:50 | 6 |
|
re 21
?
fred();
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82.23 | Mmmmm, question time. | GYMAC::PNEAL | Hi, I'm DECresource 111xxx | Fri Jul 30 1993 09:07 | 8 |
| I'm not sure where you're coming from Fred so I'm going to ask
you to clarify for me.
From what information or experience are you concluding that single
parent families, HIV positives or other people in need have acted
irresponsibly ?
- ??_of_Munich
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82.24 | it's easy to point the finger at others | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Fri Jul 30 1993 10:39 | 8 |
| re .23, or that people who are not in those situations *have* acted
responsibly?
Personally, I think luck and coincidence both account for a lot more
than most people are willing to admit.
Lorna
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82.25 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Fri Jul 30 1993 11:13 | 12 |
| re .23
> From what information or experience are you concluding that single
> parent families, HIV positives or other people in need have acted
> irresponsibly ?
From what information or experience are you concluding that they have?
Actually in this day, "sleeping around" is the next best thing to
playing Russian Roulette (no non politically correct slam against
Russians intended).
fred();
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82.26 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Fri Jul 30 1993 11:17 | 10 |
| re .24
> Personally, I think luck and coincidence both account for a lot more
> than most people are willing to admit.
HIV is one of the easiest diseases _not_ to catch. As they say.
"You can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket".
fred();
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82.27 | | CSC32::M_EVANS | hate is STILL not a family value | Fri Jul 30 1993 11:23 | 4 |
| Fred,
with the possible exception of running, (and I have seen enough
"scoped" knees to wonder about this, everything I listed is a high risk
behaviour, which can result in medical costs.
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82.28 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Fri Jul 30 1993 11:24 | 15 |
| Ever notice how easy it is for happily married people to tell single
people they should be perfectly happy with abstinance?
I have.
Also, you know, Fred, everyone who has HIV+ hasn't led a promiscuous
lifestyle. I hate to be the one to shatter your illusions on that, but
that's the way it goes I guess.
I agree that people should be selective, use condoms, and not take
chances, but pointing the finger at dying people, and telling them it's
their own fault seems rather smug to me.
Lorna
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82.29 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Fri Jul 30 1993 11:34 | 16 |
| re .27
> with the possible exception of running, (and I have seen enough
> "scoped" knees to wonder about this, everything I listed is a high risk
> behaviour, which can result in medical costs.
In these days breathing and drinking water could be considered "high
risk" activities. But there's a difference between drinking "purified"
water and sucking up a few gallons of the Mississippi.
With the exception of smoking I'd question the "high risk" part. To
try to justify irresponsible sex by people driving to church
or people eating red meat would be laughable if it weren't so scary
to consider just how far this attitude has gone.
fred();
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82.30 | ex | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Fri Jul 30 1993 11:44 | 22 |
|
re .28
> Also, you know, Fred, everyone who has HIV+ hasn't led a promiscuous
> lifestyle.
Lorna, you don't get HIV from wet toilet seat. A _few_ get it
from blood transfusions, but the _vast_ majority get it from
1) having sex with an infected person, usually male, and 2)
intervenous drug use.
>I hate to be the one to shatter your illusions on that, but
> that's the way it goes I guess.
Would you also say "that's the way it is" if Congress cut off funding
for Aids research and for taking care of Aids patients? I doubt it.
But neither do I accept "that's the way it is" that anyone can behave
any way they wish, then come stick their hand in my pocket to pay for
it. One more time...If they want society to pay for their behavior,
the society has a right to say something about their behavior.
fred();
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82.31 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Fri Jul 30 1993 11:56 | 22 |
| re .30, okay, what if one woman meets a man and falls in love with him.
Just for discussion's sake, let's just say that he is very open with
her about all but one thing, that he has had a few sexual experiences
with other men. Let's say that he tested negative several months ago,
and only had sex once, with a man since then, and they used a condom,
but it broke. So, this woman decides to have sex with this man, that
she is in love with. Let's just say that this will be the first time
she's had sex in over a year, and they use a condom. Once again, the
condom breaks. It turns out that he was HIV+, because of the other
guy, but didn't know it. Now, she gets it from him when the condom
breaks. So, in your opinion, is this woman an irresponsible tramp who
deserves to die?
It just seems to me, Fred, that you aren't willing to cut other people
much slack. It just makes me hope that all of your behavior is always
impeccable because I'd hate to think your conscience might ever give
you any trouble. Makes me hope you don't ever need any help yourself,
too, because you might end up dealing with people like yourself, and be
out of luck.
Lorna
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82.32 | | CALDEC::RAH | this is really a kungfu movie | Fri Jul 30 1993 12:23 | 6 |
|
theres a vast leap of logic in the assumption that because
someone feels people should excersize responsibility they
would condone someone's death from AIDS.
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82.33 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Fri Jul 30 1993 12:30 | 5 |
| re .32, I don't think it's that vast considering some of the comments
that Fred has made in this topic.
Lorna
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82.34 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Fri Jul 30 1993 12:47 | 26 |
|
re .31
The first statement I made in this string was that I have every
sympathy for those who truly get HIV by accident. To try to
equate the situation you describe with someone who has multiple
sex partners (per night?) and/or uses intervenes drugs (share needles?)
is stretching things a bit. Or how about people who _know_ they are
HIV+ who continue to have sex ( as .0 says there is no such thing as
_safe_ sex). Or how about someone who has sex with a person that
they _know_ is infected. This leads us back to .0. People who
think they can have all the sex they wan and be _safe_ because of
the condom sales pitch.
You have been one of the biggest fans of stringing up "deadbeat
dads". How would you compare someone having sex one time and
getting HIV to a man having sex one time and getting a woman
pregnant? I've heard some of the same people that promote
"have all the sex you want and if you get HIV then society should
take care of you" also trumpet "if you don't want to pay 'child
support' for twenty years don't have sex". Should not _both_ be
responsible for their actions.
fred();
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82.35 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Fri Jul 30 1993 12:54 | 14 |
| re .34, *I* have been one of the biggest fans of stringing up "deadbeat
dads"? Excuse me? Where? I don't even like the term. My
ex-boyfriend, who is a divorced non-custodial parent, found the term
very offensive because he felt it tainted *all* non-custodial parents,
whether they supported their children, or not, and I agreed with him.
His child support was taken right out of his paycheck, and he was
always broke because he had to pay so much.
Off course, I think that, ideally all parents should share equally in
supporting their children, but I have hardly made the stringing up of
"dead beat" dads a personal crusade.
Lorna
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82.36 | only Fred can make jumps in logic | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Fri Jul 30 1993 12:57 | 12 |
| re .34, and, when I earlier, suggested that all people who are HIV+ are
not promiscuous, your answer was to tell me that you can't catch AIDS
from a toilet seat.
Duh! Gee, you can't? Thanks for the info, Fred. Finally I'll get to
sit down when I use the MSO ladies room this afternoon, now that you've
enlightened me. It's been real tough trying to go standing up all
these months, but I was afraid I'd get AIDS if I sat down. What a
relief!!!
Lorna
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82.37 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Fri Jul 30 1993 13:15 | 8 |
|
re .36
Again it would be laughable. Until you consider just how far this
"nobody has a right to tell me what to do" and "entitlement" attitude
has gone.
fred();
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82.38 | | AIMHI::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Fri Jul 30 1993 14:03 | 17 |
| Loura,
The way your descriptions about AIDs were in earlier readings. I felt
that you to were implying:
1. AIDs can be caught easier than a parking ticket in Boston.
2. That Again, men were the sources of all evils in both AIDs and
Deadbeats.
3. I am also happy pink that you will go to the ladies room this
afternoon and feel that you will not die sitting there......:)
I know a number of deadbeat moms too. Cannot wait to see them campain
an equal number of them. For there are more deadbeat moms showing up in
court rooms and in lidagation cases than originally thought.:)
Perhaps there could be a singles file for deadbeat moms and dads to
meet each other. Perhaps some Nerd gas could be applied.:)
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82.39 | | DPDMAI::MATTSON | It's always something! | Fri Jul 30 1993 14:10 | 11 |
| My perspective: regarding the base note, for quite some time now, the
American public has been lead to believe that if a condom was used
during sex, your would be "safe" ie. you would not "catch aides". This
article is merely pointing out this is not as true as was implied.
People need to *know* *all the facts* so they can make informed
decisions. One of my pet peeves, is that certain people, the press or
whoever, only feel that John Q Public only needs to know one side of
the issues! Everyone should know what the TRUE safety rate, if you
will, is of condom usage. Then they can make informed decisions, to
take the chance and hope they will be safe, or abstain or whatever.
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82.40 | This time difference makes it difficult - but not impossible. | GYMAC::PNEAL | Hi, I'm DECresource 111xxx | Mon Aug 02 1993 04:50 | 16 |
| Re.Fred "Actually in this day, "sleeping around" is the next best thing to
playing Russian Roulette..."
...and actually America's one large waterbed which burst
a couple of months back :-)
Re.39 "...the American public has been lead to believe that if a condom
was used during sex, you would be "safe" ie. you would not "catch
aides"."
Maybe we should distinguish between the American public and Americans
in this notesfile. Condoms are like safety belts (seatbelts) - they're
for protection - they don't work 100% in all cases - but they do
increase your chances of survival.
Simple solution = IF the condom breaks - stop.
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82.41 | Let them be as bad as you were | HELIX::SONTAKKE | Vikas Sontakke | Mon Aug 02 1993 10:50 | 12 |
| Here comes the "I_had_mine" and
"Damn_if_I_would_let_my_daughter_be_touched_by_someone_like_me"
brigade!!
How come all these people who are trying to ram the absitenence down
the throat of the others never checked their libido when they had the
chance to screw around?
The very same people are still bragging about their "scores" at various
places with difference "receipients".
- Vikas
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82.42 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Mon Aug 02 1993 11:10 | 16 |
|
> How come all these people who are trying to ram the absitenence down
> the throat of the others never checked their libido when they had the
> chance to screw around?
For one thing, if you'll check your history, AIDS is a fairly recent
development.
Before Penicillin, syphilis etc, were the big deterrents. For the
last few decades, sex itself was fairly safe as far as STD's go.
Now HIV comes along and is putting a crimp in the "sexual revolution".
Remember Herpes. It's still around. It's just been pushed off the
front pages by HIV.
fred();
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82.43 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Mon Aug 02 1993 11:16 | 9 |
| > How come all these people who are trying to ram the absitenence down
> the throat of the others never checked their libido when they had the
> chance to screw around?
All? I don't know about all. I for one don't expect anyone to abstain
more than I did myself. I waited until I got married. It wasn't all
that hard and I don't quite understand why others found it hard.
Alfred
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82.44 | | SMURF::BINDER | Sapientia Nulla Sine Pecunia | Mon Aug 02 1993 11:30 | 4 |
| > It wasn't all
> that hard ...
guffaw!
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82.45 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Mon Aug 02 1993 12:16 | 9 |
| re .43, I think it's generally referred to as having a sex drive.
:-)
Lorna
ps - each to their own, but, personally I've always found value in
comparison shopping
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82.46 | | CSC32::HADDOCK | Don't Tell My Achy-Breaky Back | Mon Aug 02 1993 13:38 | 13 |
|
re 45
> ps - each to their own, but, personally I've always found value in
> comparison shopping
In the age of HIV, "comparison shopping" can be hazardous to your
health. I suspect that befores penicillin, STD's had as much
to do with monogamy as did morality. It's becoming that way
again. Monogamy (with an uninfected person) is just plain the
"healthy choice". Even if you leave morality completely out of it.
fred();
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82.47 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Mon Aug 02 1993 14:27 | 7 |
| re .46, well, fortunately, for me, most of my shopping took place after
the invention of penicillin and before I ever heard of AIDS.
And, hey, I still enjoy antique shows and malls.
Lorna
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82.48 | | SMURF::BINDER | Sapientia Nulla Sine Pecunia | Mon Aug 02 1993 14:51 | 6 |
| Re .47
I don't mean to be smartass, Lorna, but a lot of comparison shopping
seems to have taken place before the shoppers ever heard of AIDS but
not before the shoppees had managed to contract it. Awareness is at
the core of this issue.
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82.49 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Mon Aug 02 1993 15:33 | 9 |
| re .48, yeah, well, I think there's a happy medium somewhere in between
cruising and hanging out at the public baths, and saving oneself for
marriage. It's not like the only behavioral choices people have are
rampant promiscuity and abstinance. Condoms break and planes crash,
but spending one's life totally abstaining from sex and travel, would
be very boring, IMO.
Lorna
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82.50 | | AIMHI::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Mon Aug 02 1993 15:41 | 3 |
| Dont take up flying Laura. The skys are not safe these days. Add you to
the list. WOW! You might have allot of us up all night putting rubber
padding to our roofs.:)
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82.51 | nope, that's not what I meant! | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Mon Aug 02 1993 16:03 | 5 |
| re .50, no, actually, I think you should just relax and enjoy yourself
until the plane falls on your head. :-)
Lorna
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82.52 | | SMURF::BINDER | Sapientia Nulla Sine Pecunia | Mon Aug 02 1993 16:39 | 3 |
| Speaking of planes, I just gotta wonder what the statistical
probability is of a condom's breaking while being used to further
membership in the Mile High Club...
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82.53 | | VAXWRK::STHILAIRE | you gotta sin to get saved | Mon Aug 02 1993 17:03 | 5 |
| re .52, I wonder how many children have been conceived while the
parents were becoming members of the Mile High Club? :-)
Lorna
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82.54 | Alfred, you are not one of them | HELIX::SONTAKKE | Vikas Sontakke | Mon Aug 02 1993 17:19 | 6 |
| RE: .43
But then I never said you were of the type to ram your belief down
other's throat. If I gave out such a feeling, I apologize to you.
- Vikas
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82.55 | | CVG::THOMPSON | Radical Centralist | Mon Aug 02 1993 17:37 | 12 |
|
> But then I never said you were of the type to ram your belief down
> other's throat.
I must be getting soft. :-)
>If I gave out such a feeling, I apologize to you.
No you didn't, but I do know some ram it down their throat people who
abstained as much as I did.
Alfred
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82.56 | what's the source? | CSSE::NEILSEN | Wally Neilsen-Steinhardt | Tue Aug 03 1993 13:28 | 31 |
| I see that the bae note gives an author and title, but not a publication. I'd
like to know if this was published in a peer-reviewed journal.
Not that I disagree with the idea that condoms are an imperfect defence
against HIV transmission. But the author seems to go much farther in saying
that condoms are ineffective. In fact, he seems to drop qualifying phrases
from his own sources, for example:
> Finally, the pregnancy failure rates and HIV transmission
>rates during condom use show that condoms are ineffective in
>stopping sperm or in preventing HIV infection 1,3,16. "Condom
>failure rates for HIV are substantially greater than for
>pregnancy", and they are "ineffective for lifelong protection
>from HIV-infected partners" 9.
There's a big difference between "ineffective" and "ineffective for
lifelong protection."
It's clear that abstinence or monagamous sex with a HIV- and (presumably)
monagamous partner is a relatively safe alternative.
Nothing in the base note suggests to me that using a condom in occasional
encounters with HIV? partners is a bad idea. The base note does suggest
(but does not prove) that using condoms in frequent encounters with HIV+
partners will make little or no difference. These is a big difference between
these two statements.
If I were HIV+, I think I would have a very hard time justifying to myself
anything but abstinence from penetrative sex, condom or no condom.
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82.57 | | AIMHI::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Tue Aug 03 1993 13:42 | 4 |
| �re .50, no, actually, I think you should just relax and enjoy yourself
�until the plane falls on your head. :-)
I am not taking up flying!:)
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82.58 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Aug 04 1993 10:54 | 56 |
| Excerpts from "Life, Love & Latex" by Joe Carrithers, July 16, 1993
Frontiers.
This month, Mariposa released the results of a more extensive study
of six brands, performed in association with Nelson Laboratories
in Salt Lake City and funded by AmFAR and the National Institutes of
Health, which again showed condom effectiveness varying greatly
by brand. Of 110 Ramses Non-Lube condoms tested, only one appeared to
exhibit any leakage, while 21 out of 92 Trojan Naturalube Ribbed condoms
leaked HIV-- a failure rate of 22.8 percent. The four other failure rates
were 6.3 percent (Lifestyles Conture, originally ranked #27); 9 percent
(Trojan Ribbed, #30); 10.3 percent (Tahiti, #26); and 100 percent
(Contracept Plus, #31; it is no longer on the market)...
The following is the original Mariposa Foundation study on
condom safety and HIV done in conjuction with UCLA and USC.
The score is based on a 100-point weighted test scale.
Rank Score Brand Manufacturer
1 *
2 91.3 Ramses Non-Lube Schmid
3 91.3 Ramses Sensitol Schmid
4 85.2 Gold Circle Coin Circle
5 83.7 Gold Circle Circle
6 83.7 Sheik Elite Schmid
7 81.7 Durex Nuform Schmid (London)
8 80.2 Pleaser Circle
9 78.7 Ramses Extra Schmid
10 77.3 Embrace Her Circle
11 77.2 Hot Rubber (Switzerland)
12 76.6 Lifestyles Stimula Ansell
13 75.3 Ramses NuForm Schmid
14 74.8 Excita Extra Schmid
15 74.5 Parrish Circle
16 71.9 Yamabuki #1 Fuju
17 71.4 Trojan-Enz Carter Wallace
18 71.1 Trojan-Enz Lubricated Carter Wallace
19 70.4 Duo Schmid (London)
20 69.9 Shields Ortho Pharmaceuticals
21 69.9 Trojan Plus Carter Wallace
22 68.4 Zero 0-2000 Fuju
23 68.1 Prime Ansell
24 66.8 Lifestyles Nuda Plus Ansell
25 64.1 Arouse National Sanitary
26 62.7 Tahiti Ansell
27 60.9 Lifestyles Contour Ansell
28 60.6 Lifestyle Nuda Ansell
29 57.7 Trojan Ribbed Natural Carter Wallace
30 50.9 Trojan Ribbed Carter Wallace
31 21.3 Contracept Plus National Sanitary
* The #1 condom, with a score of 98.9, was the Mentor brand manufacted
by Circle. It is no longer sold. Subsequent to this study, Mentor
was bought out by Carter Wallace, which, according to Consumer Reports,
has substituted its own, lower-ranked condoms under the Mentor name."
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82.59 | Condoms stop HIV infection, CDC says | QUARK::LIONEL | I brake for rainbows | Fri Aug 06 1993 10:53 | 36 |
| [From the Boston Globe, 6-Aug-1993]
ATLANTA (AP) - The government, seeking to end one of the biggest
debates of the AIDS epidemic, yesterday said latex condoms, used
properly, do indeed block the virus.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention said it must now
persuade Americans to use condoms correctly - every time they have sex.
"Our first message is to avoid intercourse with an infected partner,"
said the CDC's Dr. Bert Peterson. "But for the people who will take
that risk ... condoms can save your life.
"The biggest problem ... is failure to take the condom out of the
wrapper and use it. We need to shift our focus from the product, which
is reliable, to the user."
Twelve years into the epidemic, CDC surveys show that only 28 percent
of Americans think condoms are very effective against HIV, the AIDS
virus. And many do not know how to use them. Only 27 percent know
that lubricating condoms with baby oil or petroleum jelly will dissolve
them.
Condom critics are spreading myths, the CDC said yesterday. It said
two new studies, the largest ever, show latex condoms are highly
effective.
In one study, none of 123 healthy Europeans who used condoms every
time they had sex with an infected partner became infected over a two
year period. Twelve of another 122 healthy Europeans - 10 percent -
who did not use condoms consistently became infected.
In the other study, only three - 2 percent - of 171 healthy Italians
who used condoms for two years became infected despite having sex with
an infected partner. Eight of another 55 Italians - 15 percent - did
not use condoms consistently and became infected.
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82.60 | | COVERT::COVERT | John R. Covert | Wed Aug 11 1993 17:23 | 53 |
| *** Clarinet articles may not be distributed outside Digital ***
LONDON (UPI) -- A test of 34 different brands of British-made condoms
found more than a quarter of the labels failed to stand up to tough new
European safety standards that go into effect later this year, a
consumer magazine reported Tuesday.
Which? way to Health, a magazine produced by the Consumer
Association, said three brands of condoms that failed the test -- Durex
Gold, Mates Natural and Gold Knight Extra Shield -- carried a seal
indicating they regularly underwent tests to meet safety standards set
by the British Standards Institution.
The magazine said the tests indicated the seal, known as the British
Standard Kitemark, was a ``reasonable guide to quality, but there's room
for improvement.''
The other condoms that failed one of the magazine's three tests were
the Aegis Ribbed, Aegis Rugged, Red Stripe, Skin Less Skin, Rubbers
(flavored) and Streetwise (colored and flavored).
The magazine used three tests to examine 500 of each of the 34
different brands of condoms. None of the nine failing brands passed the
airburst test, in which the condoms are inflated with air to determine
how much pressure they withstand. The magazine called the airburst test
the most rigorous test of overall strength.
Two brands failed the ``holes'' test, in which the condoms were
filled with water and suspended for a minute to determine if they
developed leaks. Two brands also failed the tensile test, in which a
section of the condom was stretched like a rubber band to determine its
elongation before breaking.
The magazine said it chose the three tests because they are part of
the European standards that are due to replace current British standards
later this year.
``Condoms can save lives,'' said David Dickinson, the magazine's
editor. ``They are very effective at protecting against sexually
transmitted diseases and HIV infection as well as preventing unplanned
pregnancies.''
``But they are not infallible. Some brands are clearly more reliable
than others, although our tests show poor quality condoms are thankfully
few and far between,'' he added.
Researchers conducting the tests discovered that more than half the
packets of one brand -- Gold Knight Extra Shield condoms -- carried the
Kitemark seal even though they were made in a factory that was not
licensed by the British Standards Institution.
The magazine said suppliers had agreed to recall all affected stocks
of Gold Knight Extra Shield condoms.
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82.61 | | HANNAH::OSMAN | see HANNAH::IGLOO$:[OSMAN]ERIC.VT240 | Wed Aug 18 1993 11:17 | 10 |
|
Can I ask a serious question here about condoms ? Given the actual performance
of them, would I be foolish to depend on them to prevent pregnancy between
my girlfriend and me ? Is the addition of foam therefore required ? Or is
foam plus condom generally considered overly cautious ? Directions in my life
make we ponder these things more... What do you do ?
/Eric
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82.62 | | QUARK::LIONEL | I brake for rainbows | Wed Aug 18 1993 12:30 | 7 |
| Foam plus condom is a combination often recommended for additional
protection. Condoms, used properly though, are highly effective. The
failure rates are as high as they are due to improper use, use of petroleum-
based lubricants, etc. If you use condoms with spermicide, that increases
the protection.
Steve
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82.63 | I wish I had the opportunity to wear one. | STRATA::WILCOX | | Tue Feb 14 1995 03:50 | 1 |
| I don't need condoms for safe sex, I'm usually alone.
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82.64 | | MKOTS3::RAUH | I survived the Cruel Spa | Tue Feb 14 1995 08:06 | 1 |
| .63 Or you have a great sex life. Now all you need is a partner!:)
|