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Conference quark::mennotes-v1

Title:Topics Pertaining to Men
Notice:Archived V1 - Current file is QUARK::MENNOTES
Moderator:QUARK::LIONEL
Created:Fri Nov 07 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 26 1993
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:867
Total number of notes:32923

589.0. "Utne Reader cover story on Men" by ICS::KMATTSSON (Pedestrians Unite!) Thu May 02 1991 13:36

The Utne Reader (May/June 1991 issue) had as their cover story "The New
Politics of Masculinity - Beyond drumming groups and wilderness retreats".
It has a number of articles by different authors all about different aspects
of men's lives.  The topics include:

	A Time for Men to Pull Together
	Four Men, One Boy and a Rusty Tractor (3 generations of men trying
		to fix a tractor)
	Husbandry - Reawakening a Lost Masculine Ethic (Eco-Masculinity)
	A Manifesto for Men
	Why are Gay Men so Feared?
	The Men We Carry in Our Minds (...and how they differ from the
		real lives of most men)
	Angry Young Men - Is violence a shortcut to respect for men with
		no future?
	Men as Success Objects - "Hey, get a load of the big wallet on
		that guy"
	Are Men Still the Breadwinners?
	Do You Know Who Your Friends Are? - Why most men over 30 don't have
		friends and what they can do about it.


Overall, it's a great set of articles and very interesting.  Has anyone
else read it?

>>>Ken
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589.1R2ME2::BENNISONVictor L. Bennison DTN 381-2156 ZK2-3/R56Thu May 02 1991 14:421
    Sounds great.  Is this commonly available at newstands?  - Vick
589.2USWS::HOLTquiche and fernsThu May 02 1991 15:262
    
    yep, especially at leftleaning bookshops..
589.3R2ME2::BENNISONVictor L. Bennison DTN 381-2156 ZK2-3/R56Thu May 02 1991 15:351
    Are there any left-leaning bookshops in New Hampshire?   :^)
589.4ICS::KMATTSSONPedestrians Unite!Thu May 02 1991 15:377
>>    Are there any left-leaning bookshops in New Hampshire?   :^)

I don't know about that, but you can pick it up at the Paper Store in 
Maynid (Maynard for those of you who didn't grow up here 8-), which is
about as middle-of-the-road as you can get.

>>>Ken
589.5DATABS::HETRICKPedalShiftPedalPedalShiftPedalBrakePedalPedal...Thu May 02 1991 16:114
>    Are there any left-leaning bookshops in New Hampshire?   :^)

    Probably not :-), but I picked it up at the BookSmith at the Pheasant
Lane Mall.
589.6I'll never see it ...MORO::BEELER_JEIacta alea estThu May 02 1991 16:159
    .2> especially at leftleaning bookshops ...
    
    I'll never see it in Beelersfield then.  If I had it mailed to me it
    would have to be in a plain brown wrapper and sent to a post office
    box ... I would never allow it to be delivered to my home.
    
    Summary of the articles may be in order.
    
    Bubba
589.7SWAM1::ANDRIES_LAand so it goes ...Thu May 02 1991 16:4110
    Nah, Jerry.  I'd send it to you in a large red envelope labeled
    "COMMUNIST PROPAGANDA ENCLOSED".  Most likely it'll remain on
    your doorstep until you return home late in the day.
    
    My morning you'll be run out of town ... :^)
    
    Seriously, could the basenoter enter an excerpt from one of
    the articles?
    
    LArry
589.8Ramblings on the topicsICS::KMATTSSONPedestrians Unite!Thu May 02 1991 17:0061
>>    I'll never see it in Beelersfield then.  If I had it mailed to me it
>>    would have to be in a plain brown wrapper and sent to a post office
>>    box ... I would never allow it to be delivered to my home.

It's not as totally left-leaning as you might think it is.  The article
following these is about why one woman decided she needs to carry a pistol.
Not very PC to me.
    
>>    Summary of the articles may be in order.

I'll see what I can do.  These will be very brief overviews. 

Time to pull together - Talks about the change in the role of men from husbands 
and farmers to the father who works all day and then comes home and is too
tired for the kids.  Sites statistics that are three to four times more likely
to abuse alcohol and drugs, commit suicide, and have stress related illnesses 
such as cancer and heart disease.  Even worse for minority men.  "Homocide is
the leading cause of death among black males ages 15 to 24."  60% of high
school drop outs are male.  80% of the homeless are male.  

It also talks about the *Male Mystique*, i.e. this is the way men are.  The
author's point in this essay is that men are more like this because the the
culture than biology.  

There's a lot more to this article than I have time to type in right now.



Husbandry - Talks about man's connection to the land.  Whereas the women's
movement has focused on woman as nuturers of the land (and therefore more
in touch with it), men should see themselves more as protectors of nature,
similar to protectors of the family.


Men we Carry in our Minds - The author talks about the hard life of the men
in his native Appalachia and how life for them was incessant, backbreaking
work which made the men of that area old before their time.  In his eyes,
the women had a much better deal than the men.  Then, when he managed to 
go to college, the people there came from middle and upper class families,
the lives of the people were very different.  For them, the men had all the
power, and the women saw the men as the oppressors.  The author points out
that men are not the oppressors by the fact they are male, but by their 
position.


Angry Young Men - The author (a women) points out that some young men who
commit horrible crimes are the same young men who in the past would have
worked in well-paying manufacturing positions, but now only have low-paying 
services jobs to look forward to.  In other words, it's hard to get ahead
and grab part of the American Dream when you don't make enough money to 
hope to buy a house and support a family.



These are very broad generalizations.  Please let me know if you got a
different interpretation.  (I might have a different interpretation an
hour from now 8-)  

I'll write more when I can.

>>>Ken  
589.9Attention, TOL (The Offended Legion) -- smiley face -> jokePENUTS::HNELSONResolved: 192# now, 175# by MayThu May 02 1991 17:0116
    I think that "vertical" is considered left-leaning in New Hampshire. In
    Bubba's territory, left-leaning is anything other than prone (the
    leftward extreme being supine -- slightly obscure sexual reference here).
       
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       |  ^  |    Smiley-face stolen from B. Ashforth, 1991
       \ \_/ /    (my mods - flat-top haircut and minimal cranial capacity)
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    I'm pretty sure that Utne (means "flouride" in leftspeak) is available
    at the Out-of-Town in Harvard Square (naturally). Sounds like it's
    worth a trip, and I'm game for typing in some highlights. We need some
    meat in this conference (THERE'S a red-blooded male expression!).
    
    - Hoyt
589.10R2ME2::BENNISONVictor L. Bennison DTN 381-2156 ZK2-3/R56Thu May 02 1991 18:341
    Booksmith in PLM is sold out.  - Vick
589.11Who? Me? Yep.MORO::BEELER_JEIacta alea estThu May 02 1991 19:0617
>    I think that "vertical" is considered left-leaning in New Hampshire. In
>    Bubba's territory, left-leaning is anything other than prone (the
>    leftward extreme being supine -- slightly obscure sexual reference here).

No, in Bubba's territory anything "left-leaning" is anything that's not
white-Anglo-Protestant-male-heterosexual-driving a red pickup truck-gun
rack in back-Republican-beer drinking-women chasing-bluejeans-cowboy hat-
cowboy boots-and chawin' tobacco.

DEC sent me out here because I blend right into the woodwork ... now ...
back to more serious matters ... I called the largest magazine distributor
in town and asked 'em if they had that one ... they asked me if had
anything to do with the Ute Indian tribe (seriously) .. so .. keep
posting the summaries.

Thanks,
Bubba_the_DECredneck
589.12WAHOO::LEVESQUEl'homme de vertuFri May 03 1991 09:1815
>It's not as totally left-leaning as you might think it is.  The article
>following these is about why one woman decided she needs to carry a pistol.
>Not very PC to me.

 How did they treat it? Did they enter snide editorial comments? The use of 
language can convey alot more meaning than the literal, and this ability is 
frequently exploited by writers who hold agendas. I'd be interested in seeing
what nuances were used to color the story, if any.

>I think that "vertical" is considered left-leaning in New Hampshire.

 I think that "slightly inclined from supine" is considered not only 
right-leaning, but neo-fascist in Massachusetts. :-)

 The Doctah
589.14I want a copy, too...COOKIE::CHENMadeline S. Chen, D&SG MarketingFri May 03 1991 17:205
    
    I'm going to check our local stores here - but in Colorado, I think
    neo-facist is considered left-leaning.   
    
    -m
589.15stridentVAXUUM::KOHLBRENNERMon May 06 1991 09:5330
    I received a "reduced rate, money-back-if-you-don't-like-it"
    subscription offer last year from Utne Reader.  I thought I
    would like it, so I sent for it.  I read the first copy from
    cover-to-cover, and sent them a letter asking for my money
    back.  (I got it.)
    
    Too strident for me.  Every article seemed to be screaming at
    me.  Every article seemed to be negative about everything.
    I don't have the energy to be that angry about the state of
    the courts, infrastructure, crime, graft, race relations, 
    relations of the sexes, ecological disasters, etc, etc.
    
    A friend (at work) gave me a copy of one of the articles 
    from the issue on the men's movement.  As I began to read it, 
    I noticed that the second page of the article was missing.  
    So, I found my friend, got the magazine and copied the second
    page.  Then I read the second page, and realized I could have
    done without it.  The second page was just paragraph after
    paragraph of how bad it is for men, what a terrible thing it
    is to be male in the United States in 1991, blah, blah, blah.
    I realized I could have read the article without the second
    page and it would have made no difference, except that I 
    would have been less "steamed up" about it, or less "overwhelmed"
    by it.  The second page was only meant to raise my blood
    pressure and make me either fanatical, or depressed.
    
    Maybe it is useful to raise other people's consciousness by
    screaming at them.  But it doesn't help me.
    
    Wil
589.16RUTLND::RMAXFIELDThirty second storyMon May 06 1991 12:549
    There's a left-leaning magazine store in Portsmouth (but I
    think that's because it's in a 200 year old building whose
    foundation is sinking ;-).
    
    Ken, if I can't find an issue, I might impose on you
    for a copy of "Why are gay men so feared?"  Can you
    give the highlights of the article?  Thanks,
    
    Richard
589.17No probs.ICS::KMATTSSONPedestrians Unite!Mon May 06 1991 14:288
>>    Ken, if I can't find an issue, I might impose on you
>>    for a copy of "Why are gay men so feared?"  Can you
>>    give the highlights of the article?  Thanks,

Didn't bring it in today, but I'll try to tomorrow.

>>>Ken

589.18SSDEVO::RICHARDRead my mips - no new VAXes!Mon May 06 1991 18:0611
In Colorado Springs, one can find the Utne Reader at Hathaway's on No.
Tejon St., just north of the Chinook Book Store.  

It was a good series of articles.  I read them all during a bout with
insomnia this morning; usually reading puts me back to sleep under those
conditions, but this was just too good to put down.

Did anyone read the original series of articles in Utne around five years
ago?  I don't think that back issue is available anymore.

/Mike
589.19Can't wait for a "whine-athon" .. :-)MORO::BEELER_JEIacta alea estWed Jul 10 1991 23:4817
    Too bad we didn' get the articles posted.  The July/August issue of
    "Utne Reader" had some interesting comments on the articles:
    
    "It is with great disappointment that I note on your editorial page
    that you tout Andrew Imbrell's article 'A time for men to pull
    together', as visionary.  It is neither 'timely' nor 'visionary'.
    
    "This whine-athon ....."
    
    "Warren Farrell's article 'Men as success objects' is whining trying to
    masquerade as informed opinion...Come on, Warren Farrell, talk to some
    real people and join the late 20th century".
    
    The one that really caught my eye was the "whine-athon" comment ...now
    my curiosity has been inspired ...
    
    Bubba