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Conference quark::mennotes-v1

Title:Topics Pertaining to Men
Notice:Archived V1 - Current file is QUARK::MENNOTES
Moderator:QUARK::LIONEL
Created:Fri Nov 07 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 26 1993
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:867
Total number of notes:32923

41.0. "Male pill, a straw poll" by RDGE43::KEW (I-Tal, VITAL) Wed Dec 03 1986 05:16

Given that a male pill existed, with very similar side effects etc etc



A)  Would you take it?

B)  Would you work some sort of year/about cycle with your partner?

C)  Would you be trustworthy to take it, after all, the pregnancy risk is 
    of more serious consequence to your partner?



Jerry
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41.1Could I still drink and ....?RDGE40::KERRELLTest drive in progressWed Dec 03 1986 06:2416
A)  Would you take it?

	Yes.

B)  Would you work some sort of year/about cycle with your partner?

	I'd have about n years to make up!

C)  Would you be trustworthy to take it, after all, the pregnancy risk is 
    of more serious consequence to your partner?

	My partner trusts me, however we would have a 'reminder pact'.

The only thing that might hold me back is the safety aspect.

Dave.
41.2No problemJAWS::COTEWhat is the frequency, Kenneth?Wed Dec 03 1986 09:237
    Yep.
    
    Every mornin' right next to the Flintstone chewable.
    
    I *prefer* to be the 'responsible' partner.
    
    Edd
41.3Newsflash!KRELL::FRASERDamn few, and they're a' deid!!Wed Dec 03 1986 11:498
        
        A 'Pill' for men already exists - you keep it in your shoe,
        

        
        and it makes you limp.
        
                
41.4CSCMA::STRAITDon't PANIC (well maybe just a little)Wed Dec 03 1986 13:253
    A = Yes
    B = N/A  (no steady partner)
    C = No problem
41.5try anything oncePERCH::SCOTTWed Dec 03 1986 17:457
    A   Yes
    
    B   Would I have to "catch up" first?
    
    C   I'm sure Julia would remind me!!
                    
    Roland
41.6BCSE::RYANMannish BoyWed Dec 03 1986 17:576
	re: "with very similar side effects" - what are the commonly
	accepted side effects of the female Pill now, seems to me
	every few months the doctors change their minds about it. I
	presume you don't include the Pill's effect on periods:-).
	
	Mike
41.7RDGENG::LESLIEAndy `{o}^{o}' Leslie, ECSSE. OSI.Thu Dec 04 1986 01:3610
    
    No, I don't think I would. But then again Wendy doesn't take the
    Pill either.
    
    We long ago jointly decided that the health risks of the Pill were too
    high in her case.
    
    I have a phobia about taking any pills. 

    Andy   
41.8I would !!BALZAC::ROGGEBANDA Suivre ===>Thu Dec 04 1986 04:4913
    Yupp! I'd gladly take it. For several reasons :
    
    o	I don't think it's fair that it should always be my partner
    	who has to take the inconvenience of looking after the
    	"contraception" aspect of our relationship.
    
    o	The only available male contraceptives are very unpleasant,
    	both for her and for me.
    
    o	I am not very keen on her taking the pill for long periods of
    	time. I think an "alternating" scheme is a very good idea. 
    
    				Philippe.
41.10Yes, but....TOPDOC::STANTONI got a gal in KalamazooThu Dec 04 1986 21:1514
    
    a) Yes
    b) Yes
    c) Yes
    
    Having said all this I don't think it would make any difference.
    Most women I've talked to reject the idea of male birth control
    because they don't trust men to follow through (after all, the
    consequences of not taking the pill are incurred by the woman).
    My wife feels the same way, with the added caveat that she feels
    male birth control would be yet another intrusion by men into
    the woman's domain (male doctors, male gynocologists, etc.), and
    she would never relinquish control. Can't say I blame her.
    
41.11RDGE43::KEWI-Tal, VITALFri Dec 05 1986 04:4016
>A)  Would you take it?

Yes


>B)  Would you work some sort of year/about cycle with your partner?


Yes

>C)  Would you be trustworthy to take it, after all, the pregnancy risk is 
>    of more serious consequence to your partner?


Yes

41.12Prefer Low TechVAXUUM::DYERIt's Bedtime for BonzoThu Dec 11 1986 04:5811
I wouldn't take such a pill, nor would I expect my partner to wreck her body
 by taking one.  I prefer less drastic measures, done in combination.  When
  methods are used in combination, the likelihood of their failure shrinks
   a lot.  For example, if two methods have a 98% success rate, using them
    together gives you a 2% of 2% chance of failure, which is a lot lower
     than 2%.

By "less drastic" I mean low tech stuff like condoms, cervical caps or
 diaphragms, spermicides, etc.  For added security, things like fertility
  awareness are also good to keep in mind.
   <_Jym_>