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Conference quark::human_relations-v1

Title:What's all this fuss about 'sax and violins'?
Notice:Archived V1 - Current conference is QUARK::HUMAN_RELATIONS
Moderator:ELESYS::JASNIEWSKI
Created:Fri May 09 1986
Last Modified:Wed Jun 26 1996
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1327
Total number of notes:28298

1214.0. "Curiosity about partner's past" by --UnknownUser-- () Mon Oct 28 1991 15:01

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1214.1direct your attention, don't be passiveCORREO::BELDIN_RPull us together, not apartMon Oct 28 1991 15:386
    Yes, fill your mind with something more substantial than this vain
    speculation.  There are more profitable things to do, read a book, see
    a film, listen to a concert, go to a museum, but don't sit around with
    your mind empty.  It will fill up with moths or worse.
    
    Dick
1214.2More interested in other aspects of her life than who she has been withTROOA::AKERMANISԥ�Mon Oct 28 1991 15:4510
From my perspective as a male, I do not recall ever being all that curious of my
SO's past to any great extent. Mind you, she has been far more curious of my past,
but at the same moment, I may ask something, but never anything to deep.

In any relationship, there are always two sides, we all have our reasons for
baling out of a relationship. I guess as humans, we tend to be curious and about
our SO's past, but my interests focus more on other aspects of her past than who
she has been with.

John