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GETTING REAL
"Real isn't how you are made" said the Skin Horse. "It's a
thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long,
long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then
you become Real."
"Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit.
"Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always very truthful.
"When you are Real you don't mind being hurt."
"Does it happen all at once, like being wound up," he asked, "or
bit by bit?"
"It doesn't happen all at once," said the Skin Horse. "You become.
It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't often happen to people
who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully
kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has
been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the
joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because
once you are Real, you can't be ugly, except to people who don't
understand....but once you are Real, you can't become unreal again.
It lasts for always.:
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| This topic is like d�j� vu. My wife just yesterday showed me a
sweatshirt sized for our little one that had a scene from the book
painted on it, along with a caption pertaining to "..and finally the
rabbitt was real" or something similar. She picked it up (where else?)
at a craft fair a few weeks ago.
The passage quoted in .1 was one that my wife had me read from the book
a few weeks ago, too. What a strange coincidence.
I like to (try to) read the book to Kacie. She does real well for a few
pages, then it's off to the races. :-)
The Doctah
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| I don't think that it is only through the love of someone outside that the toys
became 'real'. If you recall, toys that broke easily didn't often become real.
To become real, that love has to have meaning and be important to the toy,
and be returned.
Jim.
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