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Conference quark::human_relations-v1

Title:What's all this fuss about 'sax and violins'?
Notice:Archived V1 - Current conference is QUARK::HUMAN_RELATIONS
Moderator:ELESYS::JASNIEWSKI
Created:Fri May 09 1986
Last Modified:Wed Jun 26 1996
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1327
Total number of notes:28298

838.0. "breast cancer" by CSC32::S_CONNOR () Thu Sep 07 1989 17:23

    I have checked Note #362 in this conference concerning cancer but did 
    not see the outcome as far as a separate conference for it.
    
    Anyhow, does anyone out there have any infomation, stories about breast
    cancer? My ex-wife told me she has breast cancer. I guess she knew
    about it 6 - 7 months ago, but did not do anything. Now she is real
    sore there and has no choice.
    
    I guess right now I'm concerned about whether it may have spread
    somewhere else. Its bad enough she will probably lose her breast.
    
    Any ideas/experiences would help ease my mind some. I feel bad for her,
    for in divorce your life goes on, but something like this tends to
    bring out care/concern, and even guilt, which I suppose in retrospect
    has nothing to do with her getting breast cancer.
    
    thanks,
    	-steve C.
    
    
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838.1Tell her not to play waiting games....TRNPRC::SIGELWelcome to Your LifeFri Sep 08 1989 11:4210
    Steve
    She should have it treated ASAP, it could spread if she does not,
    in the early stages it is very treatable. I know a couple of woman that
    have it and have been cured because they treated it early.  Tell her
    not to take any chances, or it could mean losing her life if she lets
    it go to far.
    
    good luck
    
    Lynne
838.2my grandmother died from breast cancerHANNAH::OSMANsee HANNAH::IGLOO$:[OSMAN]ERIC.VT240Fri Sep 08 1989 12:2411
    
    yes, I would have liked to meet my mother's mother.  She died before
    I was born.
    
    It was extremely frustrating for my grandfather, who was a doctor
    no less.  His wife was stubborn and afraid, so she didn't do anything
    about her lump.
    
    So she died, and could have still been alive today !
    
    /Eric
838.3Don't play with fire....you could get burned. SSDEVO::GALLUPwalking in a winter wonderland....Wed Sep 13 1989 12:1714

A rather close subject with me.....  I never knew my family had a history of
breast cancer, because they were too "embarrassed" to say anything...My great 
grandmother lost both of her breasts, my grandmother one...and my aunt
lost both as well.

They were too embarrassed to say anything to the rest of the family, but I
finally found out about 3 months ago....

It's a serious thing, and not to be taken lightly.  You can be assured I'm
goin to be MUCH more aware from now on.....

/kath
838.4Have a mammogram as a regular part of your annual examVCSESU::KINNEYThu Sep 14 1989 16:0825
    Over Labor Day Weekend (1989), I found a lump.  On Tuesday, I went to
    see my doctor.  She found two more lumps.  One Wednesday, I went back
    into see my doctor, and she did a "needle aspiration" (extract some of
    the fluid via a needle to examine).  Due to the color, light yellow,
    she felt that there was no need for alarm, but insisted that I go
    into Hahnemann Hospital on Thurs. for a mammogram.  So, on Thurs.
    I did go into the hospital.  I had never had a mammogram before, and
    I am a very modest person.  The radiologist was extremely sensitive
    to me and she was very gentle.  I waited right there for the results.
    She came back into the room, and said that the doctor who was going
    over the x-rays wanted me to have an "ultrasound" done, so I consented
    and I was brought into yet another room.  I saw the results instantly.
    On the screen, the lumps looked like black stones - which kind of
    scared
    me.  The doctor came in, and told me that these lumps were completely
    normal (just had fluid in them) and that nothing more need be done.
    I was so relieved.  I had been a basket case for about 5 days.
    I should have been having mammograms all along - and from here on in
    I will definitely be sure to have at least one per year.
    
    I heard that a mammogram can find a lump several years before it even
    "surfaces".  That's really something.  I guess that's why after age 40,
    it's suggested that woman have a mammogram on a pretty regular basis.
    It's like an insurance policy, and I highly recommend it.
    
838.5CSC32::WOLBACHThu Sep 14 1989 17:317
    
    
    I'm not sure of your age, but once a year is not necessary in
    most cases.
    
    Deborah
    
838.6CSC32::BLAZEKthe devil may care but I don't mindThu Sep 14 1989 18:558
	My doctor advises self-examination once a month.  I tend to 
	sort of forget about it and just have it done once a year as
	part of my yearly check-up.  I've never heard it advised to
	have it done less than once a year, regardless of age.

							   Carla

838.7CSC32::WOLBACHThu Sep 14 1989 19:0612
    
    
    Agreed.  Self breast-exam monthly, with a breast exam
    performed by a physician yearly.  .4 advocated a mammogram
    yearly, and that is not the normal recommendation.
    
    (alas, I've forgotten what the schedule for mammograms is,
     but it's based on age, modified by a family history of
     breast cancer)
    
    Deb
    
838.8VAXRT::CANNOYdespair of the dragons, dreamingFri Sep 15 1989 10:175
    I don't know for sure, but if your family has a history of breast
    cancer and you already have fibrocystic disease, I'd personally think
    yearly was a good idea.

    Tamzen
838.9The Cancer Information ServiceCURIE::LEVINEInsert Witty Remark HereMon Oct 02 1989 18:1716
    
    I hope that by now your ex-wife has seen a doctor about her condition. 
    Cancer definitely spreads, and the sooner the condition is treated, the
    better the chances of getting all the bad stuff outa there!!!
    
    If you still have questions about breast cancer (or any other kind of
    cancer), there's a national Cancer Hotline.
    
    The number is:  1-800-4CANCER
    
    The people there can answer your questions and send you any information
    you need.
    
    
    - Sarah