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Conference quark::human_relations-v1

Title:What's all this fuss about 'sax and violins'?
Notice:Archived V1 - Current conference is QUARK::HUMAN_RELATIONS
Moderator:ELESYS::JASNIEWSKI
Created:Fri May 09 1986
Last Modified:Wed Jun 26 1996
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1327
Total number of notes:28298

440.0. "Relatives Who Impose" by --UnknownUser-- () Sat Dec 12 1987 07:38

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440.1A Fable On RelativesPSYCHE::WILSONDegasMon Dec 14 1987 14:4411
    One of Aesop's fables goes like this:
    
    Socrates was building a very tiny home for himself. One of the
    citizens of Athens laughed at him, mocking him for his small house
    and his lack of relatives.
    
    Socrates answered, ``It is small, yet my only hope that I have enough 
    true friends to fill it.'' 
    
    WW
    
440.2Breaking and entering...SSDEVO::YOUNGERGod is nobody. Nobody loves you.Tue Dec 15 1987 10:277
    I think the best (worst?) was one time I came home from work, found
    my brother in my apartment, helping himself to the contents of the
    refrigerator.  He had picked the lock on the front door to get in.
    He had something to discuss with me, and had "gotten hungry", so
    this is what he did.  
    
    Elizabeth
440.4Some family trees need trimmingSSDEVO::YOUNGERGod is nobody. Nobody loves you.Tue Dec 15 1987 14:0211
    Re .3
    Speaking of cleaning up, I have an aunt and uncle who used to come
    and visit and "clean up".  I mean, they would clean and/or fix anything
    that looked like it needed it (to them).  This was in some ways
    nice (we used to joke about when the "Cleaning Crew" were going
    to come visit), but they would usually break something - one glass
    out of a fancy light fixture, lose the faucet strainer out of a
    faucet that was at least 50 years old (try to find a new one!),
    accidentally push a mop handle through a window, etc.
    
    Elizabeth
440.5My relativesCADSYS::RICHARDSONTue Dec 15 1987 14:1719
    My father (deceased, unfortuneately) was always a very welcome visitor
    in my book - always wanted to know what things he could help with
    around the house, and would very happily tinker away during his
    visit, replacing the rotting molding around the back door, adding
    electrical wiring in the basement (he was both a licensed electrician
    and a professor of electrical engineering - a funny combination
    which he was very proud of - he claimed it showed he was both practical
    and theoretical!), etc. -- just as he did in his own home.  The
    house benefitted as much from his visits as its occupants did, and
    he had fun, too.
    
    My brother (much as I love him) is not such a welcome visitor: he
    takes the world's longest showers (in our single bathroom), using
    up both the hot water and the bath soap at a truly amazing rate
    (I don't know anyone else who can melt away an entire large bar
    of bath soap in a week - I don't know how he does it!  He CLAIMS
    he doesn't eat it...).
    
    I guess no one is foolish enough to REALLY impose on us!
440.7... but only if you let them get away with it ???BETA::EARLYBob_the_HikerThu Dec 17 1987 12:5221
    re: .0
    
    It seems that there are two kinds of relatives.
    
    Those that impose on the others
    
    and
    
    Those that let them !
    
    
    If I do it, then I'm crass ...
    
    
    If I let them do it ...........
    
    
    
    
    
    bob
440.8CEODEV::FAULKNERGOD, drives a camaro.Mon Jan 04 1988 18:374
    friends are chosen..relatives are not.
    
    The best part about having both is friends will say to our imposing
    relatives the things we will not!