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Conference oass::babynames

Title:A list of All the BABYNAMES (shadow copy)
Notice:BABYNAMES is now on-line and writable! Enjoy...
Moderator:OASS::BURDEN_D
Created:Tue Feb 13 1996
Last Modified:Fri May 30 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:996
Total number of notes:7139

895.0. "Help with baby #2 Mehring..." by AMCUCS::MEHRING () Tue Aug 03 1993 19:36

Well, it's about time I enter my own note in here requesting some assistance
for choosing a name for my second, due in mid-October. My 2-yr-old son is
Collin Richard (Richard is my dad's name), so it has to complement that.

We've pretty much narrowed it down to the following, but I'd like to hear
som other impressions from a "neutral" audience.  Also, after looking at the
same names for awhile, they do seem to loose some of their "appeal". I guess
I like uncommon names, but with fairly easy spellings, and not "too unusual"
or trendy names.  Of course it has to sound good with Mehring (ugh!) and not
have any bad connotations for my husband or myself (tough order!).

		Boys:                 		Girls:

	Tanner Michael Mehring		Morgan Kathleen Mehring
	Chad Anders Mehring		Cassidy ___?___ Mehring
	Chad Peter Mehring		Delaney Suzanne Mehring

	Outside contenders (I like, but husband doesn't really):

	Jay Anders Mehring		Valerie Jade Mehring
	Cooper ___?___ Mehring	    	Shay Kathleen Mehring

I do like the middle name to have some family connection (key below), but
it's not essential - if not, then it can't be too common (like Marie, Lynn...)
For instance, with Cassidy I thought of Rae or Jayne, but it should probably
be something definitely feminine, right?

	Michael = my brother (has 2	Kathleen = my grandmother
	  girls and is not having more)	  (last surviving)
	Anders = my mom's maiden name	Suzanne = my favorite aunt
	Peter = my husband              Patricia = my mom
					Brigitte/Briggie = my m-i-l

So, any opinions, votes, or other ideas out there?  You all may find this
hard to believe, but I don't own a single babyname book (yet)! I just have
this fixation on names that I see/hear I guess...

Thanks for your input,
-Cori (and Peter & Collin)
[see also note 685 for reference on round 1]
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895.1KYOA::CHANGWed Aug 04 1993 10:1012
    Congratulations, Cori.  
    
    From the names you offer, I like Chad Peter and Morgan Kathleen.
    
    For additional girls names:  Morgan Brigitte
                                 Victoria Kathleen
    			         Victoria Brigitte
    
    Best of luck to you.
    
    Chris
    
895.2STUDIO::B_MCCULLOUGHWed Aug 04 1993 10:5910
    Travis Michael              I like Morgan but not Morgan Mehring
    Trevor John                 Taylor Paige
    Brett Michael               Delaney Kathleen
    Kendall Anders              Devon Faye
    Chase Anders                Holly Kathleen
    Dalton Peter                Courtney Paige
    Bradford Anders             Brooke Kathleen
    Conner Michael              Shauna Bridgette
    
    
895.3Not easy, but funAMCUCS::MEHRINGWed Aug 04 1993 14:5135
RE: .1 - Thanks, Chris... Funny, but Chad and Morgan are the only 2 "survivors"
from round 1 of this name game.  I still like them both, but have started
hearing of more baby girl Morgan's, so I'm a bit hesitant on that one. I just
don't want it to become the next "Megan" in popularity!  I hadn't thought of
Victoria - I like it, but am not too keen on the inevitable Vicky nickname.
Actually, I do like Monica (your daughter's name, no?) too, but I don't know
what my husband thinks.

RE: .2 - Some great suggestions in there, although for one little nit reason
or another, I would really only seriously consider Bradford or Brett. Either
friends/neighbors have already used the name (i.e. Connor, Taylor, Devon, Ken,
Holly), or it sounds odd to me with our names (i.e. Courtney too close to Cori).
At one point, I really liked Brette for a girl, so I have trouble seeing it
for a boy now.  I do like Brooke, except my husband's sister's maiden name
is Brooks (and I'm not into Brooke Shields, which is the first thing I think
of when I hear that name) so it didn't get on the "list". Maybe as a middle
name though...Cassidy Brooke Mehring?  Also, what exactly doesn't sound good
to you about Morgan Mehring - too sing-songy or just the M-M or the r's??? I
also have some doubts about how well this fits.

Noone so far has commented on Tanner or Cassidy though... hmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Do
they sound too trendy or yuppie? I like the simplicity of them - both easy to
spell - and the fact that they both are derived from surnames (fits with
Collin).

I guess my current favorites are Chad Peter and Delaney Kathleen/Suzanne, but
I'm sure that will change over the next 2 months - not to mention what opnions
my husband might have! He's not "into" it as much as me, but occasionally will
mention a name possibility (Melissa, Tanya) and so far agrees with the list
in note .0.

The fun continues... I appreciate this sounding board - the more opinions the
better! Thanks again,

-Cori
895.4STUDIO::B_MCCULLOUGHWed Aug 04 1993 15:478
    I do like Tanner and Cassidy.  The double letters go with Collin.
    I actually like the trendy names.
    
    Morgan Mehring....  kind of M'y and too close sounding to each other.
    Just my opinion.  I do like the name Morgan.
    
    I never heard of Brette for a girl.  I like it.  I have heard of Bette.
    How about Brittany or Brittney?
895.5my vote for a boyGLITTR::WARRENWed Aug 04 1993 17:202
    Tanner Michael Mehring.
    
895.6KYOA::CHANGThu Aug 05 1993 11:1915
    Hi Cori,
    
    Tanner and Cassidy are very yuppie sounding to me.  I did wonder about
    Morgan Mehring, too, but like it best from your first list.
    
    My daughter's name is Emily Amanda - I like a feminine/traditional
    name and happened to have a favorite Aunt Emily as well.  So it all
    fit nicely for me.
    
    You mentioned Monica.  I guess I would feel the same about it as I
    do Morgan.  Someone else mentioned Paige.  I really like Paige -
    not too common as far as I know - Paige Kathleen or Paige Suzanne.
    I think it goes well with Collin, too.
    
    Chris
895.7One person's "yuppie" is another's "distinctive", etc.AMCUCS::MEHRINGThu Aug 05 1993 13:3317
Well, unfortunately I really *dislike* that name Paige for some reason. Never
knew anyone with the name to taint my view, but just phoenetically I can't
get into it - plus, the synonym Page just has dull or subordinate connotations
for me.  Oh well, different strokes for different folks, as they say.

RE: Yuppie-ness - I know what you mean. But, I also like them well enough to
use them, whereas some other names that people might find in the same category
are totally out for me (i.e. Chandler, Chase, Carter, Colby, Dallas, Evan,
Madison, Stanford, Weston....).  We'll see...

It's tough to find the right balance amongst all these criteria, but I suppose
it's also worth the effort in the long run.  We will probably go into the hos-
pital with a couple choices either way and decide after the baby arrives just
like last time, which is fine by me if the list isn't too long.

Thanks for all the input,
-Cori
895.8STUDIO::B_MCCULLOUGHFri Aug 06 1993 10:377
    a couple more girl names:
    
    Kelsey Suzanne
    Hailey Bridgette
    Tansie Paige
    Darcie or Darcey Brooke
    
895.9Darby?AMCUCS::MEHRINGFri Aug 06 1993 18:0018
I really like Hailey (or Hayley) but unfortunately a friend has already used
it, so since it wasn't my all-time *favorite* or anything, I stopped considering
it.

Never heard of "Tansie" - where does it come from?

Kelsey seems a little too "trendy" to me - maybe not now but over the past
couple years. I do like K names though...

Darcie just doesn't do much for me, but it reminds me of one I was considering
strongly when I first finished reading "The Pelican Brief" by John Grisham -
Darby!  I still like it, but I couldn't convince my husband - oh well...

Thanks again for some interesting choices.  I'm starting to get very anxious
to find out if it's a boy or a girl (intuition says boy FWIW), but not at all
ready for the great juggling act yet!

-Cori
895.10my 0.02cdnKAOFS::M_BARNEYDance with a Moonlit KnightTue Aug 10 1993 19:1316
    Hi Cori,
    some thoughts (congrats by the way!)
    
    For some reason I have fixated on Layla, Laila or Leila (actually
    pronouced "Lee-eye-la") for your last name. Not too trendy!
    
    I must admit I find Tanner, Cassidy somewhat trendy as well, like 
    someone is trying too hard to be chique. I cannot remember now which
    gender you wanted them for, but both are very masculine to me
    (so is Morgan, so I find it a little odd for a girl's name).
    
    On the other hand, in defense of Monicas and multiple M's; the 
    other Monica here at the Canadian CSC is "Monica Mandia", and I
    LIKE the combination!
    
    Monica
895.11Tanya or Kendra?CNTROL::STOLICNYWed Aug 11 1993 10:278
    
    Hi Cori,
    
    Two girls name come to mind that *might* fit your 
    criteria.   How about Tanya or Kendra?   I think 
    they both sound nice with Mehring.
    
    Carol
895.12 Chelsea SuzanneKYOA::CHANGWed Aug 11 1993 10:486
    
    What do you think of the name Chelsea Suzanne?  The name Kelsey
    reminded me of Chelsea.  I also just heard the name "Autumn" used
    for a girl.  I think I like Chelsea better, though.
    
    Chris
895.13Base noter's rebuttalAMCUCS::MEHRINGWed Aug 11 1993 15:3034
RE: Last few -

Monica,  Leila is pretty, but I kind of consider it on the "odd" side,
especially since it needs a phoenetic explanation for pronunciation... But
thanks for the support on the M-M issue!

Carol, I do like Tanya Mehring, but there is a certain "ethnicity" when I
hear the name that I can't quite pinpoint - like maybe it sounds like a
Romanian gymnast or something. Not that that is bad, just something I notice.
(And does it really fit with Collin? is something else I ask myself...)

As for Morgan, I find people are split about evenly on it - some love it and
some can't see it for a girl, etc. The first thing I think of when I hear it
is the type of horse (which I find very beautiful, sleek, and strong)...although
I've seen it plastered on so many huge moving vans too (sigh).

Chris, I LOVE the name Chelsea and had that as my "definite" girl's choice for
many years (ever since a trip to Scotland in college days with my soccer team
where we discovered a clothing store called "Chelsea Girl", which became an
endearing term amongst the team...). However, it has seemed to become so popular
over the past couple years (plus with Clinton's daughter...) that I am afraid
of it being the next "Kimberly" or "Meghan" (both very pretty names that just
became SOOO common). And then there is the town of Chelsea, Mass. that doesn't
exactly have a sparkling reputation...

Why am I so darn analytical about all this??????????????????????????????? ;-)

I guess I would add to the girls' "list" then, Brette, Tanya, Chelsea, and Dana
(another old favorite), but still would keep Morgan, Cassidy, and Delaney too.
Another one I love for boys is Logan, but Boston's Logan International Airport
is a tough connotation to conquer! Hey, this is making it *harder*, not easier!

Thanks for all the ideas,
-Cori
895.14MORGAN MPGS::PHELANTue Aug 24 1993 14:0313
    My Goddaughter's name is Morgan Christina Montgomery.  I think the MM
    sounds GREAT together!!  SHe is adorable and very SMART!  She is 9 now
    and people do shorten her name to Morg or Morgie occassionally, which 
    she doesn't really care for Morg, but doesn't make a fuzz about it
    either.   So Morgan Mehring gets my vote.  How about:
    Morgan Saige Mehring or Morgan Sage Mehring. Or Morgan Kathleen
    (something more feminene)   Saige is also a pretty
    first name, but maybe should have a feminine middle name, say 
    Saige Kathleen Mehring.  I like Tate Mehring for a boy 
    
    Good Luck!
    
    Christina
895.15Still not thrilled with boys' names...AMCUCS::MEHRINGMon Oct 04 1993 18:4633
Okay, now that I'm about on my leave, the latest choices are:

	Logan Peter
	Tanner Michael
	Nathan Peter

(Peter just informed me he really doesn't like the name Chad...&*#@#%^&*)

Girls are still about the same and I'd be happy with any of these:

	Morgan Kathleen
	Delaney Suzanne
	Cassidy Brooke

My sister-in-law said Tanner doesn't really sound right with Collin
(my 2yr-old son) - actually, she said that Nathan or Chad sound the
best with Collin and her girls choice would be Morgan. I know it's just
one opinion, but it does confirm my thoughts... I hesitate to go with
Logan (because of the airport), but I kind of like it more than Tanner
now (but still less than Chad) and I know Peter doesn't like Nathan too
well (seems there's a chain of restaurants in NY called Nathan's that
has less-than-positive connations for him...). Sigh.

I even broke down and bought a babyname book, but after going through
the boys section three times, nothing struck me as fitting.  Guess we're
going to have to wing it or I will have to "pull rank" if this is a boy
(my suspicion) and I still want Chad Peter after he is born!

I'll try to post the "results" as soon as possible after the big event!

Thanks to all for being a great sounding-board!

-Cori
895.16SPARKL::WARRENMon Oct 04 1993 19:185
    Gee, I have just the opposite opinion from your SIL.  I think, of all
    your boys' choices, Tanner goes the best with Collin!
    
    -Tracy
    
895.17Boy or Girl?CSC32::L_WHITMORESun Jan 02 1994 22:255
    Cori - I was just catching up on some notes and was wondering
    whether you had a boy or girl and what name you finally decided
    on?   
      Lila
    
895.18It's a GIRL!!!!!!AMCUCS::MEHRINGThu Jan 13 1994 14:2129
Everyone:

	Well, much to my surprise, Morgan Kathleen made her debut back
	on Oct. 27th at 2 a.m. (after too many hours of labor to count).
	I had convinced myself it would be a boy, so when she finally
	appeared, I was kind of in shock when I saw she was a "she"!
	That did make the naming much easier (although my husband had
	okayed Chad Michael during the labor...) - we both thought she
	was more of a "Morgan" than "Delaney" or "Cassidy", and it
	fit best with the middle name (my grandmother's) too.

	Big Brother Collin, 2 1/2, is adjusting to his new role as
	protector, competitor, partner, and friend to his little sister.
	He has good days (kisses on Morgan's head/nose/cheek) and bad
	days ("Mommy, I want Morgan to go live at another house, not
	MY house..."), but overall has taken the transition very well.

	Today is Morgan's first day at daycare - the same place my son
	goes to - so it'll be awhile for us to adjust to that (I miss
	her so much already, and it's only been a few hours - yikes!),
	but I feel good about the people and the fact that her brother
	will be around to help comfort her in the new surroundings.

	I hope to catch up with these notes eventually, but thanks to
	everyone for the feedback and good luck to you others out there
	trying to decide on just the right name for your precious
	children.

	-Cori
895.19KYOSS1::CHANGFri Jan 14 1994 14:454
    Welcome back, Cori, and welcome to Morgan Kathleen.  I can imagine
    how you miss her, but it is almost the end of the day!!!
    
    Chris