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Conference oass::babynames

Title:A list of All the BABYNAMES (shadow copy)
Notice:BABYNAMES is now on-line and writable! Enjoy...
Moderator:OASS::BURDEN_D
Created:Tue Feb 13 1996
Last Modified:Fri May 30 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:996
Total number of notes:7139

506.0. "name association/suggestions" by DELNI::SBERGERON () Tue Feb 27 1990 11:32

    Hi Everyone!
    
    I'm fairly new to notes and I think Babynames is a great topic. I am
    not married yet but am working on it, (We're trying to get financially
    stable at the moment), but we often think ahead and try to think of
    names for our possible children. There is only one problem, when one of
    us thinks of a possible name, one of us will associate that name with
    someone we know (and may dislike for whatever reason) and refuse to
    name our child that particular name. Are we the only ones that do this?
    Does anyone have suggestions for girls or boys names? Our last name
    will be Lyons. We hope to make it official soon!
    
    Thank you in advance.
    Serena 
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506.1You are not aloneSTEREO::FAHELAmalthea Celebras, LuincarandirTue Feb 27 1990 13:3023
    No Serena.  You aren't the only ones to do that!
    
    One name that my husband and I were thinking of for a boy was "David",
    but we chose against it because we didn't want a David we know to think
    that we were naming a child after HIM.
    
    Names I would never choose because of association:
    
    Rebecca
    Virginia
    David
    Valerie
    Jennifer
    Stephanie
    Meagan 
    Eric
    
    (Incidentially; Serena is a BEAUTIFUL name!  One I may keep in file for
    future possibilities)
    
    There have also been other examples all over this notesfile!
    
    K.C.
506.2You're not aloneCHCLAT::HAGENPlease send truffles!Tue Feb 27 1990 13:3010
>    names for our possible children. There is only one problem, when one of
>    us thinks of a possible name, one of us will associate that name with
>    someone we know (and may dislike for whatever reason) and refuse to
>    name our child that particular name. Are we the only ones that do this?

I swear EVERYONE does that.  And THEN, when you and your husband have narrowed
it down to one or two names that you both agree on, EVERYONE in your family will
eventually say - "I knew someone with that name in high school and I
hated them" or "I used to know someone with that name and they were a real
jerk" ... Or something along those lines.
506.3You're not aloneSKIWVA::FSCNOTue Feb 27 1990 13:4310
    Serena,
    
    No you aren't the only one who thinks like that. There are certain
    names that my husband and I both don't care for by associating them
    with people that we know. For example, I would never name a child
    of mine Sharon because I have known too many Sharons that I didn't
    care for. (apologies to any Sharon reading this column) Maybe thats
    why I try to pick uncommon names for my children.
    
    Cindy
506.4JeremyBARTLE::WHITCOMBMon Mar 19 1990 11:1412
    Yes, I fall into that category, too.  Names I would never pick
    as names for my children are:
    
    Margaret
    Shannon
    and the list goes on...
    
    I think we all do that. By the way... for your future 
    plans, I think "JEREMY LYONS" is a very beautiful combination
    for a boy.
    
    Jennifer
506.5Thanks!!DELNI::SBERGERONMon Mar 19 1990 14:4211
    Jennifer,
    
    I agree. I like the name Jeremy. Thanks for the suggestion. Do you have
    any suggestions for girls' names? I would like something different but
    not strange and definately not something the child will hate. I really
    like the name Amanda but unfortunatley everytime I say that name I
    associate it with someone that turns my stomach. (I really wish there
    was a way around that!!)
    Thank you again Jennifer.
    
    Serena
506.6more suggestions...JAIMES::WHITCOMBThu Mar 22 1990 08:3115
    I really like these names for girls:
    
    Lauren
    Lindsay
    Alicia (pronounced A-LEE-CEE-A, accent on LEE)
    Alison
    
    I actually have quite a list of both girls and boys
    names that I like, but I can't think of them all off
    the top of my head, and I won't bore you with names
    you've already seen in this file. 
    
    Hope this helps!
    
    Jen
506.7Positive AssociationKYOA::CHANGThu Apr 05 1990 09:467
    Another approach to naming a baby is to think of names of family
    members and friends (living or deceased) that you and your spouse 
    really like.  Instead of being concerned with possible negative 
    associations, you will be starting off with a very positive approach 
    and can pick a first and/or middle name that way.  Just a suggestion.
    Chris
    
506.8DELNI::SBERGERONMon Apr 09 1990 12:446
    Chris,
    
    Thanks for the suggestion. I guess I always tend to think the worst.
    I've been trying to turn a new leaf and look at things more positively
    and why not start with this subject. Thanks again.