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1823.1 | I wouldn't | TERSE::FANTOZZI | | Wed Nov 03 1993 08:57 | 8 |
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I think of riding alone, like skiing alone, a thing not to be done.
It's not only the wackos, but what if something happens, like you get
thrown of the horse gets injured out on a trail? No one is there to
help you or go get help.
Mary
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1823.2 | Let Someone Know Where Your are Going | FSAEUR::LOTHROP | | Wed Nov 03 1993 10:19 | 18 |
| If you plan on riding alone (which sometimes is nice to go off
just you and your horse, especially if you've had a tough
day), I would make sure that someone knows where you are planning
to go and what time you expect to be back. That way, if something
happened, people would know where to look for you.
At my barn in the States, we would never leave the property without
telling someone where we were going. These days, it's better to
be safe than sorry!
Here in Germany, I always see people riding alone in the fields
near my house - there are horses everywhere, and the crime rate
isn't close to what it is in the States - I feel much safer living
here. I've never gone out on a trail ride alone here, but if I did
I would make sure someone knew where I was going and when I expected
to return - just like when you were a teenager living at home!
Janet
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1823.3 | | CSLALL::LCOBURN | Plan B Farm | Wed Nov 03 1993 10:20 | 36 |
| I am into endurance as well, and I ride alone frequently, for basically
the same reason as you....my mare is much quicker than most horses,
even at a walk, and in order to condition her properly I need to go at
my own pace, and for further distances than most of my nearby riding
'partners' like to go. I have never run into a 'wacko', in fact I
suspect there is far more danger from them in the city and shopping
malls than the woods. I do carry a small spray bottle of pepper guard
attached to one of the dee-rings on my saddle, just in case.
As far as getting injured while alone, well it can happen. I did have a
fall once a few years ago, my mare slipped on a hidden spot of spring
ice and went down onto her left side...and it happened so suddenly I never
had a chance of bailing out. It tore ligaments in my left knee and
badly sprained my left shoulder. I was about 5 miles from home. My mare
was totally unhurt, I climbed back on and rode the rest of the way home. No
permanent damage done. The areas I ride in are not so remote that I
could not get to a house and ask for help in a reasonably short
distance, if neccessary. The time of my fall I could have, but I was
concerned about getting the horse home more than my knee (which really
did not hurt badly until the next day, as it was). I also carry a pack
with me on longer rides, with a few first aid items...bandages/small
scissors/hoof pick, etc. and am planning on also getting a loud whistle.
I also NEVER go without telling someone where I will be, how long I
expect to be gone, and do NOT change those plans. If Im home alone and
decide to go out, I tell my neighbors, who also ride and do the same
at times. A little common sense goes a long way, and riding alone is
like any other sport, with risks involved. I probably would not do so
with a spooky or green horse, but my mare is as bomb-proof as they
come, will freeze and stand motionless on command, and is as
sure-footed as a billy goat...I have enormous confidence in her. The
only time I wont go in the woods alone is hunting season, for the
obvious safety reason, and even when I stay on the roads I have a loud
sleigh bell attached to my saddle, a blaze hunting jacket and helmet
cover, and stay near areas I know to be posted against hunting. For the
most part though, I tolerate sticking to ring work for the duration.
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1823.4 | | SAC::WALTHER_E | Never trust sheep. | Wed Nov 03 1993 10:21 | 20 |
| There are times when I do feel I need to ride alone. I've been trying to
"unlearn" Rocky of his herd-bound tendencies on the trail, and the only
way he is going to learn to be courageous and brave at new experiences and
places is to go out on his own without the security of his pals.
Having said that, from a safety point of view, I never take Rocky far from
home on his own and on longer rides always ride with others.
A good idea is to make sure you've got a card somewhere on you (mine is
in the lining of my helmet) with your name, address (or at least address
where your horse is kept), contact telephone number, etc. in case of
accident, etc. In thinking about this, it would probably also be a good
idea to have some sort of info card like this actually attached to the
saddle somewhere, in case your horse gallops off into the sunset and
doesn't know his way home!
Fortunately the only time I got thrown hard enough to "lose" my horse,
we were only a few fields away from home.
Ellen
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1823.5 | | CSLALL::LCOBURN | Plan B Farm | Wed Nov 03 1993 10:35 | 12 |
| .4 reminded me of i.d...I do also carry identification, in the pack
attached to my saddle and in my own back pocket, in case of horse/rider
seperation.
You don't need to be worried about the horse getting lost should you
fall and he bolts, unless you have trailered to an unfamiliar area
(which I would *not* do alone), your horse invariably knows his way
home. I put the id in the horse's pack in case someone tries to catch
her thinking they are being helpful, which they are, the last thing I
want is her running down roads loose!
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1823.6 | hazards | MTADMS::DOUGLAS | | Wed Nov 03 1993 10:45 | 23 |
| Riding alone is sooo lonely! Why don't we plan a pleasure
trail ride next year and we can finally all meet. Wouldn't
that be fun? We could plan it in the southwestern NH, or
western Ma area, which would get a great number of us.
Was this ever done in the notesfile before?
Anyways, I always leave a note, or tell somebody where I am
going and my ETA. My husband wants me to carry a small gun
but I am afraid as clumsy as I am that I would shoot myself!
I always ask my non-horsey husband to check for bad signs, like
a horse that is tacked up in the yard with no rider, the sound
of horses screaming, etc...
My saddle has my name on it and I also carry my license on me.
Alot depends on the horse too, they should be bomb-proof and
dependable. I can take my stallion anywhere alone and I feel
safe on him. My mare on the other hand is a different story,
when she is not busy bucking and rearing, she is spinning to
go home.
Tina
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1823.7 | I'd love to host a ride in Douglas MA! | STUDIO::PELUSO | PAINTS; color your corral | Wed Nov 03 1993 11:08 | 28 |
| As far as personal safety, I always wear a hard hat. My saddle has a
name plate on it and currently the area I ride now and where I'll be
moving to in the future there are many people near by who are the
horsey type and would really wonder if they saw a horse tacked up alone!
I always try to either tell someone or leave signs at the barn
that I'm out. I like the ideas of good ID on the person and horse.
I guess my concerns arise from all the media covering the escaped
cop killers, the missing children and a few other cases where
isloated woodsy areas are the scenes of crime. I've thought about
a small gun, but I think if I ever had to use it - it would be used
on me first, besides they are illegal ;^). I like the idea of
a loud wistle (opps, no dictionary) and the peppermace. I also
thought if I asked her to, my mare would probably run someone over...
buying me a few seconds to escape. I am also considering getting
a large German Shephard who would be trained in protection. Anyone
have experiences w/ riding and dogs?
I would love to host a ride when I finally move to Douglas (so soon
I can taste it). The state forest has miles and miles of trails
everywhere. And the main trails are frequented by hikers, bikers and
riders.
But the media sometimes can really get under my skin with all this
horrible crime.....
Michele
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1823.8 | | CSLALL::LCOBURN | Plan B Farm | Wed Nov 03 1993 11:22 | 22 |
| I do have a German Shepard, not protection trained, but protective
instinctively none the less....Id say it's probably not a good breed
for riding with though. Mine LOVES to herd my horses, it's a real pain!
That's not to say one couldn't be trained to behave appropriately, of
course. It would take a lot of training though, with a loose dog you'd
risk offending land owners, the dog chasing wild animal smells, and
danger if you do any riding on roads where cars are a threat.
I also wonder if it would really be neccessary ? If you are mounted on
a horse, the chance of someone actually sneaking up close enough to
grab you are slim, you and/or the horse would here them coming, and
a horse can easily outrun a human, especially on unsure footing like
loose rocks, etc. I doubt you'd be in any danger from anyone unless
they had a gun, in which case a big dog isnt going to make the least
bit of difference. I carry the pepper guard because it has a pretty
good spray range (I dont remember exactly what it is), so an attacker
can be sprayed before they are close enough to the horse to grab you if
you are cornered or injured and cant' run, and also for instances of
attack by loose dogs, etc. Id be terrified riding with a loaded
gun..what if you fall and the darn thing goes off accidently?
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1823.9 | Those erasable boards work well, too(pen freezes tho) | WITNES::MANDILE | Constant Cravings | Wed Nov 03 1993 12:34 | 7 |
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I have a clipboard, pencil and paper hanging in the barn.
If I or someone else goes out trail riding alone, the mandatory
rule is to leave a note, including what time you left, direction
and approx return time.
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1823.10 | If someone grabbed my reins from the ground, could I still incite my horse to riot? | DCEIDL::WILPOLT | Carrie Wilpolt, dtn 381-1884 | Wed Nov 03 1993 15:47 | 22 |
| I think I agree that being on a horse probably does lend some
safety (from personal attack), especially if your horse is
easily revved-up! (Gee, I'd feel safer if I rode with a whip
in my boot, too) On the other hand, I would feel pretty
vulnerable alone on the trail if my horse and I separated.
Carrying the pepper spray in a pocket would at least afford
some personal protection in that case.
One of my trail riding friends who does go out alone told me that
when she comes upon people in the woods, she tells them that her
horse doesn't like people. It just so happens that her horse CAN
tolerate people on bikes, etc, but is more likely to 'act up' in
the presence of people on foot (on trails only). Cindi also said
that even if her horse didn't act up, she'd goad him into some
silliness, to keep people away. I suppose I'd do that if I was
concerned about a particular person, but I also might just take
off.
I'd like to keep trail riding during hunting season (which just
started here in Massachusetts) but I'm not sure I own enough orange
clothing!
--carrie
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1823.11 | Good ideas! | ANGLIN::DUNTON | | Wed Nov 03 1993 15:57 | 13 |
| Since I just ride on the dairy farm where my Susie boards, I don't have
much worry about crazies or wild animals, etc. I usually have a
brigade of Sheepdogs, Setters, Bloodhounds, a French Bulldog,
Coonhound, Stockdogs, and a Dalmation following me around. We make
quite a group! They would not, however, get help for me if I got hurt,
and if Susie and I got separated, she'd just go back to her field to
graze. Nobody would see her. The idea of a loud whistle never occured
to me. So far we've only had one wreck. I only got the wind knocked
out of me, and Suz just got a little cut. If it were worse, I would
have laid there indefinitely. Not much fun when you can't breathe!
I'm going to get one tonight. There are some deer hunters out there
that I never considered, either. Hopefully Suz won't mind wearing a
sleigh bell.
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1823.12 | HANDGUNS WILL PROTECT,NOT DESTROY!! | AIMHI::CONNOR | | Wed Nov 03 1993 19:19 | 15 |
| When I ride alone or walk alone I have my dog with me.She's a
great barker but thats about it. I always carry a handgun when
walking or riding. I live in a really remote section of central
N.H. but up the road is a correctional prison,so I take no chances
and carry a semi-auto .308. I have owned handguns for over 20 years
and have taken many gun safety courses. With all the sh*t going on this
world today it sounds sad to have to carry a handgun on a pleasure
ride/walk but the gun does you no good hanging in the closet!!
Not to mention everytime I have gone into the woods I see many
Coyoties and several black bear tracks,so it aint just Man I'm
worrying about. Tina have Keith take you out behind the barn and
teach you how to aim that shotin iron!!!
JIMBO
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1823.13 | | MTWASH::DOUGLAS | | Thu Nov 04 1993 07:45 | 24 |
| re: .7
How fitting that I suggested a trail ride, and you may plan
one when you move to Douglas which is my last name! tee hee hee
re: .7
I took the gun safety course which the Police offered, and guns
are not "illegal" to carry. You DO NOT need a permit if the gun
is in your house only. And you DO NOT need a permit if the gun
is out of the house and is NOT loaded. But you DO need a permit
to "carry a loaded weapon". It is part of the constitution, the
right to bear arms.
RE: 12
Don't you worry Jimbo, I can shoot circles around you any day!
I can load my 38 Rueger blindfolded. I've shot 38's, 45's, 357's
M-16's shotguns and rifles. But I still think when riding a horse
that I would find a way to shoot my own leg off....
t
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1823.14 | | SAC::WALTHER_E | Never trust sheep. | Thu Nov 04 1993 08:13 | 16 |
| Actually, horses are certainly a powerful deterrent to would-be wierdos!
Where Rocky used to live, in Finchampstead (Berkshire) for a few weeks last
year there was a notorious incident of a man exposing himself to lone female
walkers and bikers on one of the paths.
One day (just before I was told of this man's existence) Rocky saw a donkey
alongside this path where the flasher had been seen and thus threw a
panic stricken fit all the way down the path. At the start of the path I
did notice a face popping out at the other end of the path but didn't think
much of it until later when I was told this man was known to come out of the
woods at the end of the path. Later that day I was approached by some people
in the area and asked if I'd seen him as he'd "flashed" a few people that
afternoon.
He must have seen Rocky's antics jumping up and down and trying to rear and
decided it was far safer to leave us a wide berth!!
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1823.15 | varies by state | KAHALA::HOLMES | | Thu Nov 04 1993 13:33 | 18 |
| >> I took the gun safety course which the Police offered, and guns
>> are not "illegal" to carry. You DO NOT need a permit if the gun
>> is in your house only. And you DO NOT need a permit if the gun
>> is out of the house and is NOT loaded. But you DO need a permit
>> to "carry a loaded weapon". It is part of the constitution, the
>> right to bear arms.
Heck of a rat hole but these laws all vary by state and city.
People moving from say Texas to Massachusetts have gotten themselves
into a heck of alot of trouble in MA. (Usually doing something incredibly
stupid.)
The prison breaks in MA the last couple of days makes everyone alittle
worried but I'd bet any of us are a million times more likely to
have a traditional riding accident than be attacked by a stranger.
Bill
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1823.16 | Worry more about the humans | CSLALL::LCOBURN | Plan B Farm | Thu Nov 04 1993 13:51 | 18 |
| I agree with Bill. I also believe that fear of coyotes and black bears
is unwarranted. I too live in a remote area, and we have them near us.
I see them occasionally, or rather their tail ends as they rush to get
the heck away from us. I have been told, and tend to agree with, that
the only wild animal that is a danger to a horse is a moose in rutting
season (late fall, hunting season). Coyotes and black bears are shy
animals, and not at all easy to even get a decent look at. In fact, the
only wild animal I have seen that did not run off was a deer...it came
bounding across a dirt road in front of us, stopped dead and stared at
us for a few minutes, the slowly sauntered off sniffing the ground. It
was about 25' away, I was thrilled to get such a good look, my mare was
extremely curious and I had to hold her back from approaching it! T'was
cool! :-)
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1823.17 | Coyotes for neighbors | DECWET::JDADDAMIO | Seattle Rain Festival: 1/1-12/31 | Thu Nov 04 1993 14:22 | 20 |
| Having lived in the "boonies" on both coasts(NH and WA states) for many
years now, I agree that fear of wild life is no cause to carry a gun.
Even in Africa with all it's large predators, there's a saying that
with a little knowledge one can walk across the whole of Africa without
needing a gun...at least for the animals.
I've had many encounters with wild animals like coyotes and black bears.
As Linda said, mostly such critters take off at a run when they see/hear
you coming. Once in a while, a coyote will stick around out of
curiousity and watch you for a few minutes but generally they're gone
the minute they know you're there. The black bears just amble off.
While coyotes do occassionally kill pets(cats and small dogs) and
small livestock like sheep or even young calves, coyotes prey mostly on
small rodents like field mice, rabbits, moles etc.Believe it or not,
they supplement their diet with any fruit or veg that are in season. The
ones that live around us (in WA) eat raspberries, black berries, plums,
apples, tomatoes, etc ...Whatever happens to come their way...
John
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1823.18 | Are you both prepared? | XCUSME::BLAKE | Theory decides what can be observed | Fri Nov 05 1993 12:17 | 28 |
| Don't forget that any rabid animal will NOT run away from you.
It could even attack. It only takes a scratch to you or your
horse - to contract this dreaded disease.
We live in a very remote area of New Hampshire and I always have
and always will carry a gun. Whether it's just out to play in the
yard (with the horses) or working in the garden. I don't openly
display it, it's not there as a conversation piece. It's only for
protection of life and property (ie: me & my horse).
My horse has been trained around all our firearms. He may flinch
but won't freak out. There has been more than one occasion when I
honestly thought I was going to have to use my gun. I am very glad
that I didn't. Every situation that can be handled with out use
of a firearm should be. If I had to use it I know I could. You would
too if your husband was retired from the State Police. :-)
It's one thing to know you can handle a weapon... but what will your
horse do? If you get thrown you have increased your risk of what ever
it was that you were protecting yourself from.
I am fortunate that I have friends that are trainers and members of the
mounted patrol (from the state where he used to work, not NH). And
have made sure that both Pronto and I are as prepared as we can be.
Sad - these times we live in...
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1823.19 | Never ride alone!! | NQOPS::BUSH | | Sat Nov 06 1993 21:39 | 17 |
| Well, I guess I have a story to tell. And it's not about wild
animals. It's about my own horse, that I love, and trusted. Well
guess what???? While riding out on a new trail...pasture area, real
big and beautiful... my horse decided to rear straight up on me
and he lost control, and landed full body on mine. Thank GOD
my finance was with me. Normally I always ride a lone...feeling
good...etc.
I am recovering from a broken pelvis, etc, but the moral of the
story, is... I believe everyone should ride with a partner, no
matter what!! You never know what will happen out there on the
trails. You never know what could spook your horse, for whatever.
I thought I was so safe. Hey,.... you just never know. I was
lucky this time I had someone with me.
Think about it....
Jane
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1823.20 | I hate loud noises! | STUDIO::PELUSO | PAINTS; color your corral | Mon Nov 08 1993 09:22 | 12 |
| re:.18
The Norwegian Fjord Club puts on a Fjord bomb proofing clinic each July 4th
weekend in Vermont. Horse and rider are introduced to new experiences
to help build confidance and trust in both. Some of the activities
we did included handling flags, playing catch with a big ball, jump
roping (This was real fun....we demo it every year at the Equine Expo),
jumping over fire and firing a gun.
Well we did everything well, including jumping over fire, but the gun
firing.....my horse stood rock still and I had the nutty. ;^) oh
well....there is always next year....
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1823.21 | firearms are fun | KAHALA::HOLMES | | Mon Nov 08 1993 09:43 | 11 |
| re: firearms.
I didn't say one shouldn't carry a gun if it makes you
feel safer or even for the fun of it.
(shooting's fun, Il'l admit it).
I just thought the conversation was getting alittle paranoid.
Bill
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1823.22 | riding with a dog | ISLNDS::GARROW | | Mon Nov 08 1993 10:35 | 13 |
| re: riding with dogs....
both my german shepard and my friends german shepard mix ride with us.
The only problem I have with this is when we have todo some street
riding, the dogs like to ride beside their horses which makes them an
easy target for cars.
RE: riding in Dogulas.
I've done a ride in the Douglas and it's a great place to ride, and if
I'm still here next year, I'd love to do a group ride.
Caryl
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1823.23 | They may be right, I may be crazy! | CSCMA::SMITH | | Tue Nov 09 1993 12:03 | 22 |
| I always ride alone, my horses are at my house and there is simply no
one around to ride with. I ride both horses almost every morning and
there's usually no one home, they are not easy quiet horses either and
I've been off many times. Some people get really upset and tell me how
stupid that is, but the way I look at it I have only two choices, ride
alone or don't ever ride at all. Some times I think people lose out on
life by letting their fears stop them from enjoying it, if I die young
from getting hurt on a horse, thank god I didn't die old regretting all
the things I was afraid to do.
I also get really upset when people try to put fear into my kids about
walking down the street alone (I live in a very woodsy area). I've seen
so many kids crippled by the fear from well meaning parents and
neighbors that they lack any confidence and would be helpless victims if
anything did happen, certainly not bold adventurers like my kids are.
There was a flasher in my driveway in the woods a couple years back,
they handled it so well I thank god I build their confidence, not their
fears!
(off my soapbox now, ;-]
Sharon
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1823.24 | pepper spray | ISLNDS::GARROW | | Tue Nov 09 1993 12:35 | 17 |
| re: pepper spray...in Massachusetts you must have an FID card to cary
pepper spray (or gas, whatever it's called) I have some and my son who
in his second year of criminal justice informed me of that last
night...I think it's time to get a card.
I've never been afraid of anyone when out riding, alone or with
someone, but I am nervous about my "insane" neighbor (read the
neighbor notes). He is desperately trying to stop us from buying
additional land, of course he can't as long as we are within the zone
laws (which we are). He's been harrassing us for 16 months, and I now
carry pepper spray whenever I'm out in the yard.....Don't know what
he'll do now that he's lost the WAR!!!
I guess the moral of the story is, it's not only strangers who can be
crazy..
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1823.25 | The bees, Joe and I | TERSE::FANTOZZI | | Wed Nov 10 1993 10:49 | 21 |
|
A couple of years ago I was out on a trail ride with a friend and it
was after we had hurricane Bob so there was alot of tree damage and
stuff in the woods.
While going over a log, which had become inhabited by bees that I did
not know about, Joe stepped on the nest and the bees went nuts. I
didn't realize they were bees, he just started bucking and spinning and
going nuts. I saw the bees, as there were about 10-20 of them on my
leg stinging me, so, we ran like crazy.
If I had not been with Carolyn to get me back to the barn via routes
she knew, I could have been in trouble, especially if I was allergic,
which I am not, luckily.
Poor Joe and I had welts all over us from bee stings.
From that experience, I wouldn't go alone.
Mary
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1823.26 | Too many looneys! | SALEM::ROY_K | | Wed Nov 10 1993 12:50 | 12 |
| I haven't ridden alone on the trails in years and years. When I
boarded my horse in Haverhill Ma we had beautiful trails around
Winnekinni Castle and Kenoza Lake. They were full of people jogging,
walking dogs, fishing and lots of activity. Too many strange people on
those trails and then a young boy was lured away from the pond and into
the woods and murdered in 1992. I was also flashed 3 times while out
riding. Those wierdos that just get out of their car and stand around
naked when you walk by (twice it was the same guy and he did get caught
by the police). I wasn't alone when I saw the flashers because I
probably would have had a heart attack.
Karen
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1823.27 | Why not humiliate them instead? | DECWET::JDADDAMIO | Seattle Rain Festival: 1/1-12/31 | Wed Nov 10 1993 13:05 | 7 |
|
Re: "I wasn't alone when I saw the flashers because I
probably would have had a heart attack."
Why? It seems to me that one of the best reactions a woman could have
to flashers would be to laugh, point and say "Is *that* what you're so
proud of?" and then laugh even harder!
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1823.28 | Why make a big deal at all? | DKAS::MDNITE::RIVERS | Mitchell! | Wed Nov 10 1993 14:46 | 10 |
| Why not just ignore them?
They don't get the reaction they're looking for (the shock,
embarassment, etc.), you don't take any risks by throwing insults at
them, and it's the best out of an unexpected situation. Go back to a
place with a phone, call the police, tell them there was a flasher at
[name of spot] and be done with it.
kim
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1823.29 | Right on JD! | XCUSME::BLAKE | Theory decides what can be observed | Wed Nov 10 1993 16:09 | 10 |
| re: .27
John you are so RIGHT! Ignoreing them lets them know they
got to you. But Laughing? It's the next best thing to getting
them arrested. I know - I laughed at one (not trail riding but on
the subway) and you never saw any guy change his mind about what
he was doing!
Take it from a guy - if 'he' knows it would humiliate another guy
you gotta know if will. :-)
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1823.30 | | CSLALL::LCOBURN | Plan B Farm | Wed Nov 10 1993 18:30 | 12 |
| While it may be humiliating to the guy to laugh at him, it also may
not be particularly safe for the woman....although on horseback your
chances of getting away are darn good. Still, if the guy is sick enough
to be exposing himself, what else is he capable of? If I were in a
group and on horseback I may be inclined to take John's advise, but
alone, or on foot, Id have to be more likely to play it safe, and go
to the nearest phone and call the police.
Karen, Im glad to hear you *didn't* ride alone in that area of
Haverhill, with all the trouble there these days Im not sure I'd go
out there with armed guards, and I ride alone frequently!
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1823.31 | First flashing then what... | MRKTNG::PRTZEL::MURRY | Friends Don't Let Friends Vote Liberal! | Thu Nov 11 1993 09:51 | 9 |
| That's true I have heard some police statistics that say that many of these
"flashers" start out exposing themselves and as that gets old, they move on
to sexual assault. So it's good if you can report it and the police can get
them before this happens. I agree ignore them, don't antagonize them.
I prefer not to ride alone even when just at the barn, I would rather someone
else was within calling distance if anything happened.
Dawn
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1823.32 | were forgetting about 1 injury type | KAHALA::HOLMES | | Thu Nov 11 1993 14:34 | 10 |
| >> life by letting their fears stop them from enjoying it, if I die young
>> from getting hurt on a horse, thank god I didn't die old regretting all
>> the things I was afraid to do.
The one thing your not thinking of, which is something most of
us don't think of is being so seriously injured that you
become a quad- or papaplegic (sorry about the spelling) at a young age.
Bill
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1823.33 | Best forgotten! | DECWET::JDADDAMIO | Seattle Rain Festival: 1/1-12/31 | Thu Nov 11 1993 15:15 | 21 |
| >The one thing your not thinking of, which is something most of
>us don't think of is being so seriously injured that you
>become a quad- or papaplegic (sorry about the spelling) at a young age.
If we did think of that, we never do anything...which was Sharon's point
in the first place...Fear is what keeps people from doing things,
enjoying life, etc.
For example, Jan's father wouldn't let her ride while she was in
college. Why? *He* was afraid that she would fall, break her right arm
and miss a semester of school! (25 years later, she still hasn't broken
any bones, much less her writing arm!)
If I worried about possibly getting paralyzed(it's easier to spell) in
an accident, I'd never ride, drive a car, etc.... I might not even dare
to cross the street for fear of being knocked down by a car/truck!
Anyway, that discussion isn't really about whether to ride alone or not
but more about whether or not to ride. If I fall from a horse and break
my back and get paralyzed, does it matter whether I'm alone or not?
The ambulance will be a *long* time coming either way.
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1823.34 | | CSLALL::LCOBURN | Plan B Farm | Thu Nov 11 1993 16:13 | 12 |
| I gotta agree with John on this one, too. Lets not let paranoia set in
here. You are no more likely to fall from a horse and break a leg or
even get killed alone on a trail than you are doing circles around a
ring, jumping, or even just handling a horse around the barn. They are
large, powerful animals, every healthy one of them, and could kill you
easily if they set their mind to it, or accidently if you happen to be
in the wrong place at the wrong time. If you cannot accept that fact
and still enjoy your hobby, you probably should find a different
lifestyle. Use your common sense, wear a helmet whenever mounted,
never forget the strength of your horse, and get on with enjoying
yourself!
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1823.35 | Alone | SALEM::ROY_K | | Fri Nov 12 1993 12:04 | 15 |
| The police did say that no reaction was the best course of action for
the flasher. But I don't think that most flashers hang out on very
isolated dirt roads that we rode on, it can't be to exciting to have to
wait hours to flash someone!
I always rode alone as a youth because I had to ride several miles to
my friends house to "go riding". I always really liked riding by
myself on the trails. Of course there are people that have
to ride alone because they don't have anyone to ride with.
** By the way, the flasher did get caught because he flashed the Chief
of Police's daughter on her pony! **
Karen
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1823.36 | not for everyone that's true. | XCUSME::BLAKE | Theory decides what can be observed | Fri Nov 12 1993 13:55 | 17 |
| True, not everyone would want to provoke any flasher
by laughing. If you see laughing as provokation - then by all means
don't do it. Hopefully by the time you get to a phone - the lunatic
is still around where you saw him so the police can get him.
Laughing was a reaction of mine. Not a predetermined response by any
means! I was so shocked I just burst out laughing. When I did get
to talk with the police they figured that it worked so it was 'right'
for this situation. Not saying it would be for all situations.
Fear of flashers hasn't really been on my mind when I ride alone...
Until now, thank you fellow noters :-) It's the 2 legged "animals"
that I worry about (not the 4 legged ones). Guess I never thought
about the 2 legged ones being half undressed. Even the thought makes
me laugh a little... Probably just my reactions to 'stress' -
Hmmm, maybe I've been in software support to long... ;-}
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1823.37 | the next best thing to being there.... | SMAUG::MORENZ | JoAnne Morenz NIPG-IPEG US DTN 226-5870 | Fri Nov 12 1993 13:56 | 12 |
| This is going to sound a little extreme but, I live in a fairly rural section
of central Massachusetts - 80,000 acres of MDC watershed and state forests. The
riding can't get much better - but I don't know anyone yet to go riding with yet.
So I ride alone alot. When at home - I bring my cordless phone out to the ring
where I can crawl to it if I fall off and get hurt (obviously loss of
conciousness would be a problem ;-) When on the trails - I bring a portable
cellular, throw it in my packpack (I use it my car and other places too -
just as a safety thing). Anyway it's really light and makes me feel better :-)
I'd rather be riding with others though, that is the safest and most fun...
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