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Title:Equine Notes Conference
Notice:Topics List=4, Horses 4Sale/Wanted=150, Equip 4Sale/Wanted=151
Moderator:MTADMS::COBURNIO
Created:Tue Feb 11 1986
Last Modified:Thu Jun 05 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:2080
Total number of notes:22383

1245.0. "Some people just make me so mad!" by BOOVX1::MANDILE () Fri Apr 27 1990 10:57

    My neighbor took a standardbred she was offered for free
    last year.  Of course, the poor thing was neglected, and
    she has done a good job of cleaning him up and putting on
    weight. She seems to have a problem getting around to 
    keeping his feet shod properly.  This time its been about
    6+ mths since the last farrier visit.  She lets her husband
    trim the hooves. I can only imagine what this is doing!
    But, she is the type that does not accept advice,
    unless she asks for it first.  So, I have learned to say
    nothing unless she asks a specific question.
    The vet came friday for spring shots.  We got together so
    we could split the farm call.                          
    The vet (of course!) noticed the poor condition of his hooves, 
    and started to give her detailed instructions of what was
    needed, and what might happen i.e. navicular, etc.  She kept
    on saying "I know, I know", trying to brush off the subject.
    I was so tempted to slap her!  GRRRRRRRRRR.
    
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1245.1Frustration..PFSVAX::PETHCritter kidsFri Apr 27 1990 12:217
    I understand how you feel, I have been there too. May I offer a
    possible solution. If she was willing to get together for a vet call,
    maybe you could get together for a farrier call too. That was how I got
    one of my disorganised friends to keep after feet regularly. She just
    couldn't be bothered making the appointments.
    Sandy
    
1245.2I tried that!!!!! (Too!)BOOVX2::MANDILEMon Apr 30 1990 10:5014
    Re .1 - I tried this!!!!!!!  I called her to let her know
    I was able to "get in contact" with the farrier, as he is
    hard to contact.  She said no, not this time, she would have
    to do something next week.  
    
    SHE then called me the day AFTER he came, wanting to know if 
    she could bring (sneak) him down while the farrier was there.
    
    I told her she missed him, he was scheduled yesterday and he
    had already come.
    
    She shrugged it off, and I,m sure he still hasn't been done.
    
    Oh well, I tried.......
1245.3talk with the vet?TLE::DINGEEThis isn't a rehearsal, you know.Tue May 01 1990 16:1910
    
    Well, now the vet knows about the poor guy's feet, and the vet
    knows that the woman "knows" what to do about them. So, talk to
    the vet. Who's in a better position to know that the feet are
    really in poor shape? Maybe the vet knows what he or she can do
    about this, or would be willing to 'drop by and see how the feet
    are coming along', and in a nice way get her to give them more care.
    
    Can't hurt to mention it to the vet...