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466.1 | Make sure you look like you need help | NOVA::FISHER | P-B-P qualified | Sun Sep 13 1987 12:27 | 22 |
| I tend to pay more attention to someone who does not look like he
has things under control than at one who does. If you were "on
the ground, I'd definitely stop but "walking and minding your own
business looking like you might be ok" might be overlooked. Each
stage in between, often calls for a judgement as to whether or not
to stop.
Unfortunately the decision is often also clouded by the group that
one is with but I'll often say "To heck with the group" and stop
to help if it looks needed. I'm sure that some others are more
sensitive to peer pressure and do not want to have to catch up
or be dropped if they slow to check on someone.
Then again if I see someone walking his bike on a hill, I'll usualy
assume that it's the hill and not a crying need for help that's
the cause. I'll certainly look again the next time I see a walker.
Of course, you could have tried to flag down some help, too.
Good luck in the recovery.
ed
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466.2 | Do you need help, Vern? | AMUN::CRITZ | Ya know what I mean, Vern | Mon Sep 14 1987 10:30 | 12 |
| Two weeks ago I was riding from Nashua to Derry, Derry back
Hudson, and then out to Litchfield and back. Somewhere out on
3A it started raining hard. I stopped and stood under a tree
for some 15 minutes until the worst of it passed. During this
time, two female riders approached. The first rider, upon seeing
me and my bike, immediately asked if I needed help. I indicated
that I had just stopped for the rain.
I appreciated the thought. So, at least one female rider is
not afraid to ask a fella twice her size if he needs help.
Scott
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466.3 | group dependent | EUCLID::PAULHUS | Chris @ MLO 8-3/T13 dtn 223-6871 | Mon Sep 14 1987 11:31 | 8 |
| Interesting. For me I think it has to do with wether I'm alone
or with a group. In a group, I (we, actually: NVP is very sensitive
to this kind of thing) am always on the look out for problems with
the riders in the group. It wasn't until reading this note that
I realize how much I ignore other (not in the group) riders. Ed
has the right idea - a cyclist in trouble needs help, friend or
stranger. Of course, when I'm alone, any cyclist with problems
is a chance to stop and chat, and possible help out. - Chris
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466.4 | appearance decides | EUCLID::PAULHUS | Chris @ MLO 8-3/T13 dtn 223-6871 | Mon Sep 14 1987 11:41 | 10 |
| Your appearance is very important in getting people to stop.
One day I was riding in Alabama. I didn't know the roads and bit
off a bit more than I really wanted to do. I stopped and laid down
on a grassy shoulder. Twice cars pulled up and asked if everything
was all right. (the bike was lying on it's side) I got going and
stopped a few miles further - but this time I either used the kickstand
or leaned it on something so the bike was upright. No cars stopped.
A lesson learned re. appearance.
If you were bleeding visibly, limping, and pushing an obviously
damaged bike, I'm glad I'm not a Texan. - Chris
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466.5 | I'll help, so will most folks I've met; must be TX | MENTOR::REG | I think I may have AEIFS | Tue Sep 15 1987 10:32 | 18 |
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I just about always stop for accidents and for people who are
not moving when they could/should be. I am not discriminatory,
i.e. I stop my bicycle to help motorcyclists and motorists, stop
my motorcycle to help......, etc. Sometimes I get a strange reaction,
some folks just don't seem to understand why I'd want to help if
I'm not "one of their kind" (whatever that means ?). Sometimes
I can help directly and immediately, sometimes I can just go for
help. I am confident in my first aid and CPR abilities and I'm
a reasonable mechanic.
I've found people to be very concerned whenever I've broken
down or crashed (more than a few times). I was deeply moved by
the attention I got last august when I got nailed and broke the
shoulder - wonderful people just seemed to come from everywhere.
Reg
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466.6 | Another horror story from Houston | TSG::HATCHER | | Tue Sep 22 1987 13:28 | 14 |
| I agree with .4, must be just TX.
I used to live in Houston and commute a short 7mi from the 12000
block of Fondren to the 6000 block of Harwin. It took less than
a week for me to get hit by a car. Well actually she came so close
to me that her RHS side-view mirror hit my handle bar and broke.
I cut my knee, right at the kneecap. It was so deep that the kneecap
was visible. I was writhing on the ground. She didn't stop.
It took about 5 minutes to get someone's attention. There were
no other riders around.
What bayou were you on? Biggest hill in Houston is the Ship Channel
Bridge.
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466.7 | If you cant say something good,then.... | NEXUS::GORTMAKER | the Gort | Tue Sep 22 1987 22:37 | 16 |
| re texas
-j
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466.8 | | USHS01::MCALLISTER | It's okay to say the U___ word! | Wed Sep 23 1987 10:03 | 10 |
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I was on the Buffalo Bayou park path at the time, 5 mile paved loop
from River Oaks to downtown. No tall hills (which IS a definite
bummer), but lots of short, fairly steep ones.
Well, stitches are out, foot works okay again, so I took my other
bike out yesterday (high around 84). So nice I almost didn't come
back.
Dave
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466.9 | In defense of Texas | ELWD2::FUSCO | | Thu Sep 24 1987 09:38 | 5 |
| Let's condemn Texans because a few people from Houston didn't stop
to offer assistance!?! After living in Austin for five years, with
frequent visits (and bike rides) to Houston, I can assure you that
Texans in general are no less friendly than we Yankees. No need
to generalize.
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